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Post by Envy on Jul 24, 2019 15:48:49 GMT -8
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Post by mia cummings on Jul 24, 2019 18:34:17 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? mia cummings Guest Reply #30 on: July 12, 2012, 01:44:40 AM TO ME I FEEL MANY DON'T UNDERSTAND THE DEPTH OF WHAT MAY OR MAY NOT BE GOING ON HERE SUCH AS THE THE DYNAMICS WITH IN THE HUMAN SOUL, SPIRIT AND SEXUALITY.
THEY ARE ALL CONNECTED
I HAVE 6 MONTHS LEFT FOR MY DEGREE IN HOLISTIC MEDICINE & FROM MY STUDIES IN SCHOOL AS WELL AS MY STUDIES AT HOME, SINCE THIS IS MY PASSION, I HAVE LEARNED HOW MUCH A HEALTHY SEX LIFE IS PART OF A HOLISTIC APPROACH TO WELL BEING
FEELING CONNECTED TO ANOTHER IN WAY THAT FEELS RIGHT IS PRICELESS
I HAVE MET SOME REALLY GREAT MEN WHO ARE MARRIED TO SOME REALLY BITTER, MEAN AND CRUEL WOMAN AND IT SEEMS SUCH A SHAME TO ME THAT SOME MEN LIVE THERE LIVES FEELING SO UN APPRECIATED WITHOUT THE KIND OF EXPERIENCES THEY COULD BE HAVING
ONE OF THE REASONS I HAVE STUDIED THE TANTRIC ARTS, FOR EXAMPLE, AND WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO
THERE IS SO MUCH MORE TOO HUMAN SEXUALITY THAN MOST PEOPLE KNOW
OXOX,
MIA
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Post by mia cummings on Jul 24, 2019 18:39:40 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
mia cummings Guest
Reply #31 on: July 12, 2012, 01:49:51 AM I RECENTLY HEARD OF A MAN WHO'S WIFE HAD PASSED AWAY AND HE WAS SO SAD HE WAS PLANNING ON ENDING HIS LIFE, INSTEAD, HE CAME TO A BORDELLO AND MET A WOMAN WHO HAD SUCH COMPASSION, HE DECIDED NOT TO KILL HIMSELF, FOR HE FOUND THE DESIRE AND THE WILL TO CARRY ON FROM SOMEONE HE MET IN A PLACE SUCH A HERE
THERE IS ONE EXAMPLE
AND, THERE ARE SO MANY MORE, IF ONLY, YOU CAN BEGIN TO IMAGINE
OXOX,
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Post by mia cummings on Jul 24, 2019 18:43:25 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? mia cummings Guest Reply #32 on: July 12, 2012, 01:52:58 AM
SO, SEE, IT IS NOT ALL ABOUT HOW MUCH MONEY ONE SPENDS OR DOES NOT SPEND, AT LEAST NOT FOR EVERYONE. AFTER ALL, IN THE END, WE CAN NOT TAKE IT WITH US, BUT THE MEMORIES WE WILL!
OXOX,
MIA
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Post by Kevinz0071 on Jul 24, 2019 18:48:30 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Kevinz0071 Hoser Family Member Posts: 1458 Gender: Male Reply #33 on: July 12, 2012, 05:15:21 AM the funny part to me is that people are so up in arms about a girl who is currently retired----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Love me or hate me I'm a bunny guy. Best of Reno Bunny Ranch 2010-2016 10 years of steamy days and hotter nights at the ranches
Keyboard tough guys make me lol
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Post by Interested bystander on Jul 24, 2019 18:56:14 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Interested bystander Hoser Family Member Posts: 4672 Gender: Male Reply #34 on: July 12, 2012, 06:41:41 AM When I first read this I was at work yesterday and couldn't post the long post I wrote out in my mind. Then when I got home I was too tired to write out that long post. Now I don't have time to write it out before going to work again. But I did want to put one thing out there for Envy to think about. You ask why we care, I ask why you don't? As Slednx says this is exactly the kind of thing that drives people away from LPIN and prevents others from ever trying it.
This was this guys first time in a brothel and the first time having sex. The only research he did before his visit was to get involved with a house message board and contact this lady. Because of house policies he had no idea what he would be asked to spend until he arrived. He was assured by the provider that he wouldn't be able to get a party for any less. Then when he did find out he was charged 5-10 times what is "normal" he contacted the provider to ask why and her answer was to assure him that what he paid was the "standard rate".
I have had no contact with him since right after he sent in the field report, which is a good report, but If I were to guess I doubt he will ever see the inside of a brothel again. This lady could have given him that party at a reasonable price and possibly made him an LPIN customer for a long time, many of us have been doing this 20+ years, longer than just about any of you have been in the business, but she most likely ran him away.
Foot traffic has dwindled over the years to a mere fraction of what it was 5, 10, or 15 years ago and while there are a number of reasons for that one of them is ridiculous pricing such as this. It not only affects the customers but in the end it has an effect on your bottom line. So I repeat, it's no surprise that things like this are important to us but it should also be important to you.
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Post by SIDEWINDER on Jul 24, 2019 19:01:14 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
SIDEWINDER Hoser Family Membe Posts: 32528 Reply #35 on: July 12, 2012, 06:50:01 AM
I think Envy is missing the point. It's not what a woman charges, it's how she does it!
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Post by Shaka Da Kine on Jul 24, 2019 19:07:24 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? Shaka Da Kine Guest Reply #36 on: July 12, 2012, 11:27:57 AM I agree with your perspective. Excellent points made, well reasoned, well said. Thanks for the detailed post Goldie!
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Post by Renegade on Jul 24, 2019 19:13:46 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Renegade High Roller Posts: 274
Reply #40 on: July 12, 2012, 09:11:45 PM
Envy, here is why it's "important". First, I don't consider this guy "stupid" or ridicule him. As a Newbie, he's probably naive, but I've been there too. I consider it almost my duty (as a lot of other Mongers do) to educate Newbies so that they avoid the pitfalls we've all been through. My beef is not with places being expensive. Though they seem like the same thing, "expensive" and "over-rated" are not. Something can be expensive and worth it--or not worth it. When comparing my most expensive parties at SR with lesser-priced parties at SR and elsewhere, the expensive parties at SR were minimalist, lazy and downright unprofessional.
Goldie, great post about income levels. I also work at a job where any mistakes result in serious injury or death. So that obviously affects my perspectives on pricing.
Slednx and IB, you're both right about the effect on LPIN in general. That guy is probably not returning to LPIN. If I wasn't persistent as well as horny, my over-priced parties at SR would have ended my LPIN hobby. Good thing there are other Nevada brothels.
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Post by SIDEWINDER on Jul 26, 2019 12:03:31 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
SIDEWINDER Hoser Family Member Posts: 32528 Reply #41 on: July 12, 2012, 09:40:29 PM » I've always said, I don't give a damn what a lady charges. I don't care if she charges a $100 or a million dollars for a hand job. What I do care about is the way it's done. Are there signs in the brothel letting naive customers know how things work and being a negotiation brothel, no prices are set in stone?
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Are brothels and ladies taking advantage of naive customers to line thier pockets? Perhaps telling a few little white lies such as "you won't find a cheaper price or that is the price all girls charge"?
Even though I have not been to the brothels in a few years, I get the feeling that brothels and ladies are still taking advantage of naive customers to increase their income. And yes, I'm lumping the ladies and the brothels together. If the brothels didn't want this kind of business dealings going on, they could stop it faster then a cat could lick his ass. Truth of the matter is, as long as they are making half of what ever the ladies make, I think they would rather pat the ladies on the back and congratulate them on srewing another naive customer.
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Post by Nika_Love on Jul 26, 2019 12:10:58 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Nika_Love Guest Reply #42 on: July 12, 2012, 09:48:18 PM I think it all boils down to Freedom of Speech. People are going to say what they want no matter what. If mongers want to tell other mongers about their party then that's their choice. If they don't like the fact that a girls charges a certain price or thinks its too high then that's just their opinion. Some may go about expressing their opinions the wrong way or rude manner but in the end it's still their opinion. I personally don't care what anyone except myself charges or if I client tells his friend. I thought that by giving a good party either they'll return or tell a friend. How can you be referred to someone without knowing a price range? How will a guy know if he can afford the girl he might want? From my personal experience with members here, some know that they might not get the same exact price as the other guy did but they know what range to expect.
Also this board is dedicated to die hard LPIN members... We know most here have been doing this longer than we have. They've witnessed the different changes in LPIN. So if we/you know that some or most of them want the most bang for the buck, what's the point in continuously complaining about it. You're never going to be right in their eyes. If you feel like this board is not going to get you the type of parties you want then move on or quit complaining. Sorry to be so blunt.
Also since we can't discuss prices over the Internet, how is a guy coming to visit for the first time know what to expect? How is he suppose to know that he can't get an hour for $100 in LPIN as he might've with illegals or someplace else? All houses don't have house boards or posted pricing.
* sorry if it don't make sense, it's a little late here
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Post by Renegade on Jul 26, 2019 12:20:48 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Renegade High Roller Posts: 274 Reply #43 on: July 12, 2012, 10:11:17 PM »
Sidewinder, I agree about the complicity of management. From personal experience, I've learned that a lady with a history of customer service issues can work at a place as long as they're skilled at pulling in large amounts of money per party. I think those that are good at nailing bungalows and all-nighters get preferential treatment. On the other hand, if a lady is comfortable with doing shorter parties for less while giving great customer service, she's more likely to be fired for not bringing in enough money at some places.
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Post by Nika_Love on Jul 26, 2019 12:27:00 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? Nika_Love Guest Reply #44 on: July 12, 2012, 10:30:59 PM »
SCENARIO A new girl comes into a brothel. She starts her hourly rate at $500 (average) Year 1: Good reviews and making a name for herself. Year 2: Better reviews, magazine covers & an award Year 3: Great reviews, magazine covers and 2 awards. Year 4: Execellent reviews, magazine covers and 3 awards. Year 5: You get the point ...
Do you expect her to still charge what she did when she first entered? Shouldn't she be able to charge more because of her merits or achievements? Is the doctor who just finished med school and got his degree going to get paid more than the doctor with a degree and 5yrs experience under his belt?
I feel like some women have put in enough work to be able to ask/charge $1000+ a hour. Now whether a client pays it is different but I believe you should be able to raise your prices as time goes by.
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Post by Renegade on Jul 26, 2019 13:10:41 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Renegade High Roller Posts: 274 Reply #45 on: July 12, 2012, 10:36:57 PM
Nika, I have no problem whatsoever with someone raising their rates after they have established their reputations. That's just normal for any business. But the main point is providing the customer with his money's worth. I've been with some long-termers who were just plain "slackers". They had penis aversion and it seemed they were trying to provide as little customer service for as high a price as they could get.Logged
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Post by Nika_Love on Jul 26, 2019 13:15:54 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? Nika_Love Guest Reply #46 on: July 12, 2012, 10:41:23 PM » If a girl is charging a high price then the party should be no less than AMAZING. Now 1-2 bad reviews is okay because you just can't please anyone no matter how hard you try. But if your continuously getting bad reviews then you should charge less or try and fix whatever the problem/complaint is. My response wasn't towards you just in general ... ;-)
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