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Post by FredT on Jul 23, 2019 16:45:13 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
FredT Hoser Family Member Posts: 4585 Reply #14 on: July 11, 2012, 01:42:32 PM when I wander into a house, I want to know what the "prevailing" party is. Why? Cause I don't want to waste my time only to find that I cant party for 3 TIMES what I had budgeted.
In two sentences, THATS why what you, or your house mates, charges is important to me.
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Post by ancient mariner on Jul 24, 2019 12:05:19 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
ancient mariner Guest Reply #15 on: July 11, 2012, 03:47:08 PM I may be misinterpreting the question, but the pricing information helps many of us decide whether even going to a given house is even worth our time. If the cost exceeds what one budgets, then even showing up may be a pointless endeavor, since most of us, either by circumstance or through other financial demands, have a given pool of funds to devote to this activity. As you mentioned, it is a hobby and as such a nonessential activity, nobody (despite the conviction among teenagers, to the contrary) has ever died from lack of sex anymore than they have from lack of rollercoaster rides or missing a particular movie or TV episode. It's fun, but it's just entertainment. Like Fred and the majority of participants, I have a range of expenditure that I feel is a fair exchange for activity, if a lady feels that it is too low, I will respectfully decline to waste her time further and depart for other venues. Not because I feel that she is a lesser being, but simply because she has exceeded the range of my entertainment budget. There was one occaission where one girl, on hearing that this was all the cash I had, brightly announced "we take credit cards", apparently not realising that the cash I had brought along was all I was willing to spend for an hour's diversion.
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Post by Georoc01 on Jul 24, 2019 12:14:54 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? Georoc01 Hoser Family Member Posts: 16179 Reply #16 on: July 11, 2012, 03:58:42 PM
Actually, an experience is a little vague. We want sex and are willing to pay for it. Since most of the brothels try to sell the fact that its illegal to post prices for parties, its the reviews where as clients we can get some idea of what different ladies charge for parties. While the information is 2nd hand and can't be considered totally reliable, its the best we as customers have. You don't hear about this in regards to the shady lady. Why? Because prices are public. It doesn't matter.
I don't care a bit about what others pay, only what I will pay. And if I see of hear that a lady is way out of my price range, it helps me narrow the search when I'm trying to figure out who among the 100 or so ladies working on a given day in the 6 houses in Northern Nevada who to pick from.
I don't disagree that there are guys out there trying to see how much they can get for as little as possible. But I think the majority of guys don't fall into that category.
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Post by Ebadger9 on Jul 24, 2019 12:30:27 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Ebadger9
Guest Reply #17 on: July 11, 2012, 04:51:00 PM
So what you're saying is you actually do care what others are paying, because that's the only way you'd know who might be out of your price range to help you narrow down your options.
Otherwise, your post is spot on!
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Post by Ruby Rae on Jul 24, 2019 12:36:18 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? Ruby Rae Guest Reply #18 on: July 11, 2012, 05:01:32 PM
I think the problem that I've run into when negotiating with a few Mongers is that there is this mentality that the lady should have to do all the compromising and the gentleman should get everything he wants. A full GFE party, a certain amount of time (nothing less), and a very low rate. I work with just about any rate, but the guy also has be willing to do a little compromising as well. You're not going to get everything, especially the first time seeing me. I never want a guy to spend more than he wants to, so I usually try to negotiate on the time instead of money, but some guys are just so stubborn. You can't have your dream girl (looks + personality + skills), unlimited time, low rate, and all the bells and whistles. There has to be give and take on both sides usually. I feel like Mongers just want it all, no exceptions. At least, for a few of you that I've encountered and from what I see on this board. Nothing turns me off more than a tense, long, and difficult negotiation, and I'm sure it's the same for the guys as well. Treat us well and we will give back ten fold. Well, at least I will.
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Post by sportsman on Jul 24, 2019 12:47:55 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
sportsman Guest Reply #19 on: July 11, 2012, 05:06:12 PM Envy...a lot of words have been extended on this topic...amazing, when all you were saying was.. Go... Party... Have... Fun... (and spend what you can afford.
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Post by Mikey on Jul 24, 2019 12:53:04 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? Mikey Hoser Family Member Posts: 5162 Gender: Male Reply #20 on: July 11, 2012, 06:07:57 PM The simple answer is: If large enough numbers of tricks pay higher prices it drives up the "average" price of a party. The great fear among mongers is that a wave of "whales" will sweep through LPIN and not bat an eye at paying $1,000+/hr for a party, and the ladies will come expect the higher amount from all clients.
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Post by goldie on Jul 24, 2019 13:07:08 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
goldie Hoser Family Member Posts: 1218 Gender: Female Reply #21 on: July 11, 2012, 06:42:14 PM
Envy, I hope I'm correct in assuming that since you posted this...you really do want responses. As I read your post, I have to admit that I wasn't sure it you were asking a real question....or if you were venting over an experience or collection of experiences that really upset you. I really couldn't tell if your post was angry or inquisitive...or maybe a little of both! So I'd like to offer my thoughts on your question and some of the issues you raised in your original post. I'm so literal...can't help it!
Why is what you get for a party so important? Well, honestly....doesn't everyone, including you, like to know that we are paying a fair market price for any goods or services? I mean, if I'm buying a house, I'd like to know the price of comparable houses in the neighborhood. If I'm buying a new car, I'll go on line and try to get an idea what the average price is for that car. if I need a housekeeper or a plumber, I'll research those prices in m geographic area on line. I sure may be willing to pay more for additional options...or maybe I just really want that specific car, so I'll pay more than average for it...but I'd like a ball park. Or I may decide that I just don't have that kind of money -- or don't want to spend it that way -- and then I'll consider another kind of car.
Money does make the world go 'round...no use denying it! We all work for it every day...and then we have to be judicious in how we spend it. So sure, most of us do search out prices for services, compare, and then make our own choices. I'm sure you do too! So I hope you aren't upset that we, the consumers, appreciate the opportunity to compare. It's going to be like that for anything we buy!
The first time I went to a brothel, like many on these boards, I paid easily twice as much as I would have had to pay. I only know that 'cause we share info here..and I don't begrudge the lady who earned it...it was my responsibility to be informed, and I wasn't. But, thanx to info sharing here, I've learned what's more typical. It just gives me a frame or reference, just like zillow for house buying or kbb for cars! Really..if you were buying a house in Carson City, wouldn't you research what houses go for in Carson City? And then use that info to make your decision about what the house was worth to you?
So that's my literal answer to your question...it is important to us because it gives us a frame of reference, and I believe everyone wants that when they pay for a service.
On a related note, I would ask you to determine what you think your services are worth, and charge it, period. If you get it, good for you! If you don't, don't dis the client because you feel "lowballed." Like so many have already said, some of these figures represent several days' pay for some, and it's really hurtful and disrespectful to dismiss it as "lowballing." Remember, the average income in the U.S. is $50,233/year....which is $193/day (gross). I don't know you personally, so I don't know if you do this or not...but some LPIN would straight up dis an offer of $300 as lowball, yet this amouts to approx 2 day take home for average America...and that's rough.
The last thing I'd ask you to consider...and you can tell me "thank you" for bringing it up, or "fuck you" which I have surely heard before...but please consider.
Don't tell us how hard it is because you "put your heart into it" or "let strangers touch you" or "take it in the ass". This is the profession you've chosen. I know I've already irked Ruby Rae with this philosophy (and I hope Ruby you can understand my thought process here), but there are many professions that remunerate a lot less than LPIN but require just as much, or even more, personal investment. You may (or may not -- your choice) "take it in the ass" literally. Some of us take it in the ass figuratively on a weekly basis. In my profession, I have to be aware every day that I may make a judgment call that is wrong -- and could cost someone his/her life; or I may get sued over it and wrongfully lose the license I trained for for over a decade. Or get sued for a million dollars - and I may not even have been wrong, but a jury likes the defendant. Even if I don't ever get sued...I have the ethical and moral burden every day of knowing that the decisions I make can change people's lives. Do you?
But when I post my price list, I don't say these things. The consumer doesn't need to know, or be burdened. I've made a career choice (as have you) and then the risks/benefits/pros/cons just go with the territory. I make a price list, and that's it. And FYI, as family practice, that price list is $105/for 40 minute new patient or $77/for 20minute returning patient. I put heart/soul into every patient, not to mention the need for malpractice insurance. But I don't burden the consumer with this --or throw it out there to justify my prices. I only do it now to illustrate the point.
Can't speak for everyone else...but as for me, I do respect what you do. That doesn't mean that I don't want to know what the prevailing market rate is for your service.
So I guess, to summarize, the price for a party provides all of us consumers with a frame or reference from which we can make our own decisions about where to go, what to pay, etc....just like a consumer of any service. As far as the things you do...well, you've made the choice to do them, so make your price list, but please don't act as though your services are so much more profound than any other professions. I have to tell you...I wish the hardest thing I had to face each day was being judged on how I looked! Or if I kissed...or all of those other superficial things. I'm not complaining, I made the choice, and I love what I do. But when someone asks how much it costs to come in, I don't say, "oh, it's $105 because I have to do a full history and full physical and pay malpractice, and pay rent and lab fees and llicense fees...or stick my finger up your ass or in your vagina, or get pooped on or puked on...not to mention the moral issue of wondering if I was right. Or the ever-present legal risk of being sued -- even though I am only human, and while most other humans can screw up at work and not lose their career, I have to be aware every single day that if I screw up my career could be over; for approx $270/hr, from which I pay ALL work expenses....staff, rent, malpractice, licenses, etc..."
See what I mean? Lamenting the trials and tribulations of being judged on your hair or looks or energy or taking it in the ass, etc for $500/hr is hard to swallow for some of us. Again, it's not that I don't respect what you do. But you made the choice to do it. So just do it, set your price, and be gracious when you get it, and when you don't. But please don't tell us that being judged on your looks or whether or not you allow DATY is so stressful as to justify $$$ in prices. Damn, if I had it to do again, you can bet your ass from where I'm sitting, LPIN prices for LPIN obligation as opposed to my prices for my obligations makes LPIN look pretty damn good!
Hope all ladies who read this take it in the vein in which it was intended....an honest answer to the posted question, and a little perspective.
XO
Goldie
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Post by jimilynn on Jul 24, 2019 13:29:59 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? j imilynn Guest Reply #22 on: July 11, 2012, 07:22:21 PM wow this is an interesting topic. For the most part, I am very consist of what I charge and if the guys is nice enough, I will bend backwards to give him or her what they want. If the client is very rude and have to put up with that attitude then I have the right to charge them whatever I please for putting up with it.
I do not mind getting reviewed or how much the client paid for. We have people on Yelp doing this kind of what is consider high and low and what is good. I actually look at these reviews even though they are not many and see how can I improve or make the experience better or smile when I did a great service.
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Post by hungermonger on Jul 24, 2019 13:36:15 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? hungermonger High Roller Posts: 490 Reply #23 on: July 11, 2012, 08:00:51 PM You admit that the girls in the house talk about prices. What's wrong with the other side doing the same?
They only get a general idea of what the cost will be and instead of wasting time, money, and gas going somewhere to be told no(walked) they can just go where they have the best chance of getting their needs met within their budget. I feel in the end the board helps out a bit because it gives a better summary of what to expect at the brothels and the girls that provide good service at a reasonable prices will get glowing reviews and dont have much to worry about.
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Post by Voyeur on Jul 24, 2019 13:42:32 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Voyeur Guest Reply #24 on: July 11, 2012, 08:17:30 PM Catching up on back episodes of "Cathouse" was very enlightening. The episode with Max coaching Shelly how to take advantage of the hedge fund manager was interesting (but not surprising). Then the clip of Suzette clapping her hands with glee after someone got five figures for an outdate had me rolling my eyes. Yet the biggest problem seems to be mongers "lowballing" girls...
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Post by wayne2o1 on Jul 24, 2019 13:57:34 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
wayne2o1 Guest Reply #25 on: July 11, 2012, 09:33:03 PM
Envy..Funny Thing is I do Not feel I misread Your Question .. So I Will Say Nothing More on this Thread .. I said My 2 cents worth
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Post by Funmonger on Jul 24, 2019 14:04:27 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Funmonger Hoser Family Member Posts: 1460 Reply #26 on: July 11, 2012, 11:30:15 PM ยป
Most people don't like to be "hustled," in any business, by either the customer or by the provider. Most people will pay the price or render services for a price that they perceive will be better than other alternatives.
The decision of whether to contract and for what is a matter between the parties.
People come in all shapes and sizes and some are givers some are takers and most of us are some of both.
Some people have more appeal than the other for one reason or the other.
No one has anything to go on other than experience, either their own or someone else's.
Sometimes experience is either misquoted or taken out of context and without the benefit of the list all of the facts.
This board seems to have provided a forum for both negative and positive reactions of both mongers and providers. It is, after all, a matter of free speech.
Some people do not enjoy the negotiation. My tendency is to walk if i feel that the provider is not happy with my offer or if I am not happy with their offer after a short conversation. That is a personal tendency and everyone is different.
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Post by Slednx on Jul 24, 2019 15:15:33 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT???
Slednx
Hoser Family Member Posts: 1043 Gender: Male
Reply #26 on: July 11, 2012, 10:19:09 PM
If you are famous for your consistency in pricing, why not come out and condemn this party in question and its gouging of the uneducated, uninformed? You play the "pricing is between the two of them " card , yet say you are above this practice. I got news for you Envy, it is practices like this that make guys never want to come back to LPIN. This board and our concern about what people are paying and what is the norm is the great equalizer. Make no mistake about it, myself and most others on here are advocates for the one who is paying!----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Relentless pursuit of fresh pow and beautiful women!
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Post by Funmonger on Jul 24, 2019 15:23:35 GMT -8
WHY? IS WHAT WE GET FOR A PARTY SO IMPORTANT??? Funmonger High Roller Posts: 263 Reply #28 on: July 11, 2012, 11:48:00 PM My post above is a little stiff. I am far overdue for a trip west, as I am feeling that way in more ways than one.
I simply go at this for the FUN, hence my handle. Whenever it is too expensive or is a hassle to me it ceases to be fun. I like for both of us to have fun.
I enjoy this Website and the good information I get. it is never any fun to pay too much or to miss out because I didn't understand what most LPIN's expect. Education is often expensive due to inexperience. I welcome information from this board.
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