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Post by GS on Nov 23, 2018 16:55:45 GMT -8
don't forget time
Posted by GS on December 31, 1997 at 17:11:28:
In Reply to: Re: Thank you for your reply posted by ArcticBear on December 31, 1997 at 17:03:14:Time is just as important as money and a plane ticket, and is my biggest problem.
GS
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Post by Dopey on Nov 23, 2018 16:58:31 GMT -8
Balancing act...
Posted by Dopey on December 30, 1997 at 22:51:55:
In Reply to: Field reports! posted by Bashful on December 29, 1959 at 11:08:55:Y ou stated that this lady currently has no report on file, can you e-mail the frequent poster who's speaks highly of this lady and request that he write a field report about his party, then post both reports? Printing the report and anonymizing the lady IMHO would be a moot point.
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Post by Prop Bets on Nov 23, 2018 17:01:25 GMT -8
Field reports!
Posted by Prop Bets on December 31, 1997 at 20:03:46:
In Reply to: Field reports! posted by Bashful on December 29, 1959 at 11:08:55: If it was sent as a "field report", then it was meant to be posted. I say post it.
Prop Bets in Vegas
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Post by Mark on Nov 23, 2018 17:04:00 GMT -8
Field reports!
Posted by Mark on December 31, 1997 at 22:21:20:
In Reply to: Field reports! posted by Bashful on December 29, 1959 at 11:08:55:I don't know how you can justify not posting it unles you have done so in the past with this type of report. If so, you are being consistent, if not you are being inconsistent. I vote you post it and let the reader decide for themself on the credibility of the report.
Mark
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Post by Admin on Jun 5, 2019 16:24:01 GMT -8
BASHFULS BUTT HURTS
...OR it will after the ladies in the brothels read Bashfuls new and improved field reports formula..I have decided to post this on the board along with my responses. Some of us only read the Board and don't get out and check all the other good information that is available on this site..The parts in (<< >>) are what Bashful wrote and The content with (....) are my responses to what he wrote. Note from Admin: This is a post that Bashful made on his new thoughts about the future of how Field reports might be posted in the future. This was posted after all the other information I originally had on the early years of Gp's board
( 1997 to Jan 1998 ).
Cybercommunity Standards.
(Tuesday, November 24, 1998; GPI#0489) Last Modified : November 24, 1998
<<<The topic of "community standards" comes up a lot in conjunction with debates concerning the censorship of pornographic material. A classic U.S. Supreme Court ruling allows local communities to define for themselves what adult material is acceptable and unacceptable according to their own standards.
I have been thinking about this for some time now, and though I don't really believe that local communities should have so much power over First Amendment freedoms, I do think that anyone such as myself who has so much control over a community forum such as the field reports must listen carefully to what the rest of the community has to say about them.
So, what is our community? Or, our cybercommunity? My personal belief is that our community is very diverse, including many very disparate voices. It is not a single exclusive, monolithic clique, though one can identify several small cliques within it.
My point is that almost everyone is welcome, all we ask is that you show respect for everyone even though you may blast their ideas. All too often things get personal, but somehow we have survived and managed to get along with each other, with only a few exceptions.>>>>>
......So far Very good I agree with everything you have to say and I I wish I had the talent to express myself as well as you do.......
<<<I have worked hard to create a forum where prostitutes and their customers can interact in a manner that is respectful, honorable and dignified, and I have had a lot of help from the members of our community. Yes, it may seem at times that there is little "respect" on the message board, but in the long haul we seem to have become a family that fights a lot but still has a remarkably warm and cohesive quality to it.
My best friends are members of our community.
So, again, what is our community? Though I could write volumes on this topic and probably end up saying nothing important, at the risk of pointing out the obvious we consist of two main groups : the prostitutes, and their customers.
That there are differences between these two groups is obvious. The one difference that I wish to address here is that customers write field reports and prostitutes don't. Not all online customers write field reports, and not all participate on the message board, but over the past year plus there are several that have done both, and they are :
Seventy-eight (78) active online customers
Arctic Bear, The Asbestos Moth/DonM, Bashful, bay_area, BeanCount, Big Bamboo, Bohemian, Broker/Sweet Prince, Cal Bear, Chris, Cobbmtn1/Cobb, Coconut, Counsel, Cowboy, Curious, DanMan, Dave, Dik-dik, Dionysus, Doc, Dopey, Dreamer, Drew, elliott, Fanboy, Fantasi Man, Flyfisher, Flyrod, Gabby, geonw97, Georgia Powers, GS, indy, Interested Bystander, John, Ken, Klatch, Lon Wolfe, Meeker, Mr. NiceGuy, Mr. Spock, MWB, NCsnake, OC John, Old Hippy, Oliver, Out-of-Towner, Paddy, Pat, Paul, The Philosopher, Pleasure Aficionado, Pops, The Professor, ProLoafer, Ralph, Renegade, Richard, rock, Rocket Guy, sagegoer, San Diego Beav, Shogun, Soapy, Speed Racer, Starship, Stoney, Tall, Tight Fit, Tom, Trail Rider, Traveler, Treadhead, Unclebob, Whisperman, XL, XXX, Zymol >>>>>
.....Now thats what I call a bunch of guys with weird names. It looks more like a list of cartoon characters than actual human beings......
<<<<What I did was merge the list of field report authors with Doc's recent list of posters to the message board. Some names maybe don't quite belong there, since neither GP nor Curious have actually written field reports, though they have both written special reports. Also, some active participants are not on that list (like Sidewinder) because they haven't bothered to send me a field report. Nevertheless, those seventy-eight fellows have established themselves as "voters" of sorts in our community, and I am prepared to extend to them a special privilege.
Effective immediately, I am allowing field report authors to include in their reports the actual price that they paid for the services of the lady of their choice, with the following restrictions>>>>
....I'm with you so far Big Boy. I will add that Sidewinder being one of the leaders in discussing prices. Would add a lot of credibility to his post if he had an Email address and took the time to send in reports..Just saying this is the way to negotiate and suggesting to others that you can have a great party for XXX dollars with out some personal experiences posted to back it up makes me wonder about his credibility. Don't just tell me show me.....
<<<1. The author needs to be a member of the community, meaning merely that he has a track record by which we can judge his credibility. As a first pass, being a member of the above list will usually suffice, though over time a better standard will hopefully evolve. As always, I will use reason and discretion to decide if he fits into this category, and I will of course listen to the consensus of the community.
2. The author needs to give not only the total amount paid (including tip), but also give a good estimate of how long the session lasted and at least some indication of the services provided.
3. Only the author can request that the price be deleted. As always, I allow the lady to have a field report deleted in full or in part, except that now the monetary amount, length of session, and a brief description of the services will remain in the report. Again, only the author can request that a full report deletion be made, if the report contains pricing information. I will append to the field report any rebuttal that the lady submits.>>>>>
......OK sounds fair to me on all of the above. The only draw back I see is that many of the ladies do not have access to the Internet to contact you.
<<<<4. The author must have a public e-mail address, and respond to message board posts about his field report. Also, when he steps foot onto the premises of a legal Nevada brothel and a lady asks him if he is on the Internet and familiar with the field reports and the message boards, and if so what his handle is, then he must answer truthfully. Cowards are not tolerated.>>>>>>
....Responding to the message board on your reports I think would be hard to enforce and some posters don't read the board everyday and the messages about their reports could be posted and archived before they even see them.
I think to announce that you are a member of the board could influence the way the girl treats you and the price she charges. If she knows you are going to be reporting on her she may give you an extra special party so she can get a good report.Or she might charge a higher price if she knows you are posting her prices..this rule needs some work I think.... <<<For now, those four restrictions/rules seem appropriate. Over time changes will be made depending on how this works out. My philosophy is to allow the ladies a chance to confront the author, and have their way with him whatever that may be. There will be no hiding from the consequences of his actions, so he will now have to suffer the wrath of the ladies as I
have so many times in the past. >>>>
....Sounds like a My Butt Hurts complaint. Myself and others have also suffered the wrath of the ladies. You are not the only one. Stop it! with the self pity post.... Below is an example of a negative report I posted in September 14, 1997....
Some of my friends have suggested that I allow the public posting of the amounts paid to specific ladies by name, but without the identity of the disclosure being made. That will probably not work because most of the ladies will be able to guess who you were from your field report, nevertheless the point is that you are already anonymous because of your handle/pseudonym, so hiding from your cyberspace persona only goes to show that you are too ashamed to stand and weather the storm that our dear sweet ladies will undoubtedly direct your way.>>>>
....I think this would more likely lead to guys fudging about prices in the ladies favor. They may pay $200.00 to $250.00 for a party but actually report $300.00 to $350.00 especially if it was a good party and they were happy with it. Why! Tell the rest of the world you got a great deal and get the lady pissed off at you after she gave you a good party..Boost the price a little and she likes you and appreciates you and you can continue to get a good deal..This could also lead to less field reports if a guy wants to be honest about the price..You have everything to lose by reporting a good party at a good price. The ladies get mad at you and the guys jump in your shit for telling her price accusing you of hurting her business......
<<<For the record, it has always been true that one can disclosure the price he paid for a specific lady's services on GP's message board. Such a message will not be deleted, according to GP himself. The fact that almost nobody ever does so may hint that nobody will be willing to include the price in their field report given my restrictions. In fact, I am inclined to temporarily require that the author first post the price on the message board and respond to all followup messages prior to my posting his field report.
If this works out (and it may not), then over time I'll expand the number of names on the above list or maybe you, the community, will decide a better way of deciding who is responsible and who isn't. What I do not want are some jerks making stuff up and then hiding, therefore the way to handle this is to make sure that the appropriate mechanism for accountability gets set into place.
Finally, please note that my name is among those in the above list. Though I may chose not to write a field report, if I do then I hereby pledge that I will include the price I paid for her services in my report and conform to all the restrictions and rules that I impose on others. I believe that the ladies have the right to charge whatever amount they wish, and I believe that their customers have the right to publicly disclose and discuss what they charge. And it is the standards of our community that will govern how such disclosure takes place.
It is a great truth that one can be totally respectful of our favored courtesans and yet publicly disclose the price they accepted for their services. However, somehow I suspect that they will respectfully disagree.
Be seeing you.
Bashful>>>>>
.....In summary I like what you are trying to accomplish I just don't think it will work. I think it will cause less credibility for the field reports. Less posters will be writing field reports for fear of causing ill feelings between himself and the lady in the report. I am willing to give this a try though..I will submit a report to you in the next couple of days on a party I had but don't have a report posted on it..I actually sent you the report before but asked you to pull it before it was posted because it was combined with a report from another lady and I didn't feel comfortable with the report.
Pat
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