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Post by Pat on Nov 23, 2018 15:37:34 GMT -8
Field reports!
Posted by Pat on December 29, 1997 at 19:29:46:
In Reply to: Re: Field reports! posted by Bashful on December 29, 1959 at 18:54:52:No we aren't in cahoots but yes it does give that impression.
Pat
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Post by SCORPIO on Nov 23, 2018 15:42:26 GMT -8
Field reports!
Posted by SCORPIO on December 29, 1997 at 21:59:19:
In Reply to: Field reports! posted by Bashful on December 29, 1959 at 11:08:55:My vote would be to post it. I don't see why you are struggling with this post. Just because one frequent poster speaks highly of her doesn't mean she's great with everybody. You should also post her name. What good does it do to the credability of the reports if we don't know who it is. If we've partied with her before, we can decide for ourselves if we think it's valid. At least let us decide.
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Post by ralph on Nov 23, 2018 15:45:38 GMT -8
Field reports!
Posted by ralph on December 30, 1997 at 01:50:50:
In Reply to: Field reports! posted by Bashful on December 29, 1959 at 11:08:55:I say, Post it Bash!!! I agree w/ your idea of anomymizing it if you think it could cause problems....my own procedure on a negative report is noe at all..if the party wasn't worth it, I won't waste the time in preparing a report...
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Post by Curious on Nov 23, 2018 15:52:33 GMT -8
Apple pie...
Posted by Curious on December 30, 1997 at 01:55:58:
In Reply to: Field reports! posted by Bashful on December 29, 1959 at 11:08:55:See, I like Apple Pie better than just about anything. You may like cherry, or lemon cream, or not even like pie at all. I'll bet some of you like ice cream. Everyone has different tastes, likes, dislikes, and personal style.
That doesn't make my likes and dislikes wrong, it just makes us different! I have partied with ladies that my friends would NOT go with! They have partied with ladies that, quite frankly, I thought looked horrible. I have had EXCELLENT parties with one lady in particular with whom a friend had one of his worst parties EVER!
Now, should we share all this with each other?
I think the answer is yes. But we do need to be fair. The real problem here is that Bashful gets put in the middle. If he posts the report, that lady (and maybe her friends) may take it out on Bashful.
How about leaving it up to the reporter to post it directly to the message board? Unless, Bashful wants some editorial control?
Just my 2 cents...
Because, I M Curious as hell who it is...
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Post by Bashful on Nov 23, 2018 15:55:23 GMT -8
Apple pie...
Posted by Bashful on December 30, 1959 at 10:51:16:
In Reply to: Apple pie... posted by Curious on December 30, 1997 at 01:55:58:Dear Curious,
On this report I require no editorial control. Yes, I would prefer that he posted it directly to this message board.
Be seeing you.
Bashful
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Post by Cyrano on Nov 23, 2018 16:00:55 GMT -8
Apple pie...
Posted by Cyrano on December 30, 1997 at 05:03:19:
In Reply to: Apple pie... posted by Curious on December 30, 1997 at 01:55:58:Many of the field reports I've read have an especially rosy glow. I think one of the wierdest things is that some posters submit the report to the lady for prior approval.
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Post by GS on Nov 23, 2018 16:04:58 GMT -8
approval
Posted by GS on December 30, 1997 at 09:44:34:
In Reply to: Re: Apple pie... posted by Cyrano on December 30, 1997 at 05:03:19:It just so happens that I'm waiting on a ladies approval before posting a report on her. I am doing this because I did not ask or informer her that I would be writing a report. If for some reason she does not want any information on the web about her, I will not submit it. I do this because I happen to like and respect her. She is a great girl. She showed me a great time, and even went way above and beyond what she needed to do to make me feel comfortable and to see that I had a great time. I appreciated that.
GS
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Post by Cyrano on Nov 23, 2018 16:12:49 GMT -8
approval
Posted by Cyrano on December 30, 1997 at 17:48:16:
In Reply to: approval posted by GS on December 30, 1997 at 09:44:34: GS,
"If for some reason she does not want any information on the web about her, I will not submit it."
Would you let her ADD information?
"I do this because I happen to like and respect her. She is a great girl. She showed me a great time, and even went way above and beyond what she needed to do to make me feel comfortable and to see that I had a great time. I appreciated that."
Would you show the same consideration to a girl you were not so positive about?
What is the point of the field reports? To show our respect for the woman (and by the way insure that our happy relationship continues)? A good tip would go a long way here.
I think your positive experience with this girl would have more creditability (and therefore do her more good) if she didn't have any editorial control.
Another catagory of FRs where the woman wasn't named but negative experiences were freely discussed could be informative and entertaining.
Cy...
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Post by GS on Nov 23, 2018 16:31:25 GMT -8
approval - Cyrano
Posted by GS on December 30, 1997 at 21:06:19:
In Reply to: Re: approval posted by Cyrano on December 30, 1997 at 17:48:16:
Absolutely not. Its my report, and my memories. I know that there MAY be reasons for her to not want anything on the web about her, and if that is the case, I will not submit it, but I will not change it either. No. If I had a negative experience, then that is what I would write. Of course, she would not want it posted, but I would not like or respect her. So, in my mind, it would not matter what she thinks.
This part I don't understand, because you know nothing about me.
Dude! You are way off base here. Its not about showing respect for her. I wrote it for me, Damn it. I read many, many field reports and I want to put one back in, and I also wanted to remember the visit on paper before I forget the details.
" Happy relationship" Why would you even assume something like this. I live something like 3000 miles away, and chances are I will never see her again. I may stay in contact via e-mail or letters, and I may not. Only time will tell. Why don't you let me know just what you mean by Happy Relationship, cause its not like I see her as a girlfriend or something, and thats the way you make it sound. She is a lady, a person, a human being who provided excellent service. If I recieved excellent sevice from a waiter, and it was comon place to put an add in the newspaper decribing it, then thats what I would do.Have more creditability, HAVE MORE CREDITABILITY!--I'm not even gonna go there. I'll assume you were not intentionally trying to insult me. As I said before, She has no editorial control! therefore my report will be CREDITABLE. On this one, I could not agree more. Except that I might name her, but I'm not sure as it has not happened.
GS
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Post by Cyrano on Nov 23, 2018 16:36:46 GMT -8
approval - Cyrano
Posted by Cyrano on December 31, 1997 at 13:10:46:
In Reply to: Re: approval - Cyrano posted by GS on December 30, 1997 at 21:06:19:
GS, By "happy relationship' I just mean "a good time". It seems that if you're nice to her in the FR, then your next encounter is more likely to be enjoyable than if you said something she didn't want included, even if it was true.
I don't mean to criticize your report before I've read it--I'm speaking in general terms about all reports. Although I find most of the reports enjoyable, in many cases I'd like to see the author give it a little more of an "edge" by feeling he could include things the courtesan may not want. After all its his report, not hers.
I realize, of course, that its easy to say this, not having written a report. But soon, perhaps, soon. Take care.
Cy--
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Post by Interested bystander on Nov 23, 2018 16:40:32 GMT -8
Cyrano and all please read.
Posted by Interested bystander on December 31, 1997 at 13:35:12: In Reply to: Re: approval - Cyrano posted by Cyrano on December 31, 1997 at 13:10:46: I am not sure what you expect report writers to do when you ask them to "include things the courtesan may not want". This is a business deal between two people. Let's say you go to work tomorrow and enter into a contract with a customer who you may make certain concessions to or tell things you consider confidential and the next day you see every detail of your arrangement posted on the internet including the confidential information with your customer saying "look at the great deal I got!". Would you want to work with that customer again? Would you want to make similar deals in the future? Think a little about what you are asking for.
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Post by Cyrano on Nov 23, 2018 16:43:27 GMT -8
Cyrano and all please read.
Posted by Cyrano on December 31, 1997 at 16:40:01:
In Reply to: Cyrano and all please read. posted by Interested bystander on December 31, 1997 at 13:35:12:I have not, nor would I ever, suggest that someone break a trust or divulge something given in confidence.
But I return to my starting point--it strikes me as odd for the reviewer to submit his report to the reviewee for her approval. It dilutes the credibility.
Cy...
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Post by GS on Nov 23, 2018 16:47:26 GMT -8
Thank you for your reply
Posted by GS on December 31, 1997 at 16:31:10:
In Reply to: Cyrano and all please read. posted by Interested bystander on December 31, 1997 at 13:35:12: I agree with you both here to some extent. Cyrano- FR would be much more informative and paint a clearer picture if people would write about there negative experiences as well as their positive ones. As for details the lady might not want included, I think it depends on what they are. IB said "confidential", and this one word is the key. I don't consider how one was treated, the quality of the party, or things of that nature as confidential. In my case, there are things that were discussed and done which was personal. I consider that confidential, and I will not put those things in my report. I don't even want them in, because it was personal for me too.
Cy...Hope you get to write that report soon. The research can be a blast! Literally.
Have a Happy New Year
GS
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Post by Cyrano on Nov 23, 2018 16:50:02 GMT -8
Thank you for your reply
Posted by Cyrano on December 31, 1997 at 16:46:20:
In Reply to: Thank you for your reply posted by GS on December 31, 1997 at 16:31:10: And Happy New Year to you!
I'm looking forward to that research--You Betcha!
(But I tell ya, dude, I wouldn't mind taking a few of those field reports to bed with me.)
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Post by ArcticBear on Nov 23, 2018 16:53:21 GMT -8
Thank you for your reply
Posted by ArcticBear on December 31, 1997 at 17:03:14:
In Reply to: Re: Thank you for your reply posted by Cyrano on December 31, 1997 at 16:46:20: All it takes is a plane ticket and money.
A Liking To Take Field Reports to Bed Too Type
ArcticBear
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