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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 25, 2019 8:24:29 GMT -8
Note from Admin: This is a conversation between Bean Count and Pat. It covers August 04 1999 to April 09 2001. You will notice it takes several different turns from good buddies to harsh enemies. If you decide to read this, you have to read each individual post from the bottom up. You also have to be able to endure silly mean spirited name calling from 2 midgets. I find it to be excellent reading if you want something to read to help you get to sleep.Read more: lpincwmcboard.freeforums.net/thread/556/conversation-bean-count-pat-1999#ixzz5rsuEA6vhICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/23/00 8:02 PM BeanCount good night Pat.
5/23/00 8:01 PM BeanCount I wouldn't be too tired, but I would probably have no interest in going unless it was to carouse with some of the guys.... and then who knows might meet someone.
5/23/00 8:01 PM pat Im going now..Have to be at work by 7:00 tomorrow.. good night
5/23/00 8:00 PM BeanCount She wants me to come up there some time. I may be able to do that sometime next month, but not sure.
5/23/00 8:00 PM pat I maybe too tired by Sat. night after 2 days and nights with Nikita.
5/23/00 7:59 PM BeanCount That might do it.... but I'm not sure... She may say 45 minutes or something like that. She is VERY cute.
5/23/00 7:59 PM pat she is very conservative with her spending and does save for the future..Her place is just a small apartment very low rent...She doesn't live high on the hog except buys a lot of clothes
5/23/00 7:58 PM BeanCount I talked to her about that. She says she's not that open with everyone.... just her "favorites". I told her the way she is handling her money is one of the things I find attractive about her.
5/23/00 7:57 PM pat 200.00 and a no one knows tip 100.00
5/23/00 7:56 PM BeanCount You should do very welll for $300 or less.... go to Kitty's. Kat might go for the $300 if some of it was under the table.
5/23/00 7:56 PM pat she tells too much sometimes..you know that though..She is very open about how much she makes and how much everyone pays her
5/23/00 7:55 PM BeanCount I talked about all this with Nikita btw... very comfortable talking to her about just about anything.
5/23/00 7:55 PM pat very big problem....i may do it at cwm4 on Sat night...just to kill some time..if its not over 300.00
5/23/00 7:54 PM BeanCount I'm starting to feel the same way... that a one hour party in a brothel is just a waste of money. I'm very, very spoiled now. I would still like to party again with Kat though, and I think she would be fun to have an out date with. The no kissing and no oral is a big problem though.
5/23/00 7:51 PM pat I dont think I will be able to enjoy the brothels as long as I have a steady thing going with Nikita...One hr of a quick fuck just doesn't do it for me...I can't afford any more than that at the Brothels
5/23/00 7:49 PM BeanCount She's never checked mine either. We talked about that, and she said she actually did the first time, but not in an obvious way. I'm glad I met her the way I did.... much better away from the brothel.
5/23/00 7:48 PM BeanCount It was just an idea. She has mentioned the scanner and monitor a couple of times.
5/23/00 7:48 PM pat I read Chris post..the dick check thing...She never checks my dick..just licks it.
5/23/00 7:47 PM pat I know..but a monitor might be a waste with that PC, plus her key board sucks..I have a spare key board and scanner I keep thinking I should take it over ..Maybe after the move
5/23/00 7:46 PM BeanCount I know... but I keep telling her she has to hang in....
5/23/00 7:46 PM BeanCount A whole new system would be too much $$$....
5/23/00 7:46 PM pat I know I talked to her last night.,,She is hating this job more and more every day.
5/23/00 7:45 PM BeanCount Btw she didn't get the job.... and is really bummed out about that.
5/23/00 7:45 PM pat hers still looks like shit, but doesn't seem to bother her too much..the scanner is shot...I think her PC is on its last legs too
5/23/00 7:44 PM BeanCount OK... well we'll get her something nice anyway. I had an idea for a new computer monitor and a new scanner. Does she still need those? Could be done by way of gift certificates.....
5/23/00 7:42 PM pat i don't think their will be many participators..5 to 6 at the most...and maybe 50.00 apiece
5/23/00 7:41 PM BeanCount Oh.... why can't we talk about money? Btw, I talked to Cowboy... he was working on an update e-mail.
5/23/00 7:41 PM BeanCount No,she wasn't the out date one.... that was a gal at MBR.... she got fired for creating a big quarrel/fight at the house. They asked her to leave...
5/23/00 7:40 PM pat only if we don't discuss Sherry or money
5/23/00 7:39 PM BeanCount Hey, are you supposed to be talking to me? LOL....
5/23/00 7:39 PM pat oh the outdate thing...
5/23/00 7:38 PM BeanCount Either this one or the one before. He partied with Kim also. She was the one from England.... and she's been fired now.
5/23/00 7:37 PM pat i forgot what he said...is it on this baord
5/23/00 7:36 PM BeanCount I printed out what Chris had posted. She had seen that, and wasn't happy about it. She said he exaggerated, because the actual party was booked for half an hour and took less than that. She was thankful that she had booked the chintzy $30 tip.... she doesn't always. Doesn't that jerk have any common sense, he could have gotten her into trouble? She couldn't remember what he looked like. LOL...
5/23/00 7:33 PM pat he is very concerned that she doesn't have to party with some assholes...He mentioned that to me in some Emails...When i saw his post I was thinking BCount ain't going to like that... He wrote a report on her but I saw it in Email but its not posted yet..He mentioned only nice guys that treat her right should look her up
5/23/00 7:30 PM BeanCount I was kinda pissed that Motoman posted about the outdate and the times and such. I told him I didn't like it, and he fell all over himself apologizing.... then I felt sorta like a jerk for being so paranoid. I just told him that I don't generally post publically where I'm going to be, etc. Do you think I over-reacted? Nikita was sorry that she told him it was me, but that he really wanted to meet me. I found that kinda odd, but who knows?
5/23/00 7:26 PM BeanCount If it's between them, then Nikita should win. Cowboy and a couple others might want to argue the point....
5/23/00 7:25 PM pat Bree hasn't been on the board enough lately..I think it will be Nikita or Sheridan
5/23/00 7:24 PM BeanCount I voted for her.... that would be fantastic if she wins. Bree might be deserving...
5/23/00 7:23 PM pat I think she has a good shot at courtesan of the year
5/23/00 7:22 PM BeanCount NO, I said she will go to the dinner.
5/23/00 7:22 PM BeanCount Some girl from MBR was spotted by Dennis's girlfriend doing an OTB date, and ended up getting fired.
5/23/00 7:21 PM pat bigger bummer
5/23/00 7:21 PM BeanCount She's somewhat concerned about the dinner even.... but will go, I'm pretty sure.
5/23/00 7:21 PM pat bummer
5/23/00 7:20 PM BeanCount I told Nikita I might fly up to Portland sometime. She's worried about OTB parties in the Reno/CC area. Also she said she's not going to the BBQ.
5/23/00 7:19 PM pat did Nikita mention anything about CWM4 and the BBQ
5/23/00 7:19 PM BeanCount Cats are that way. There are lots of indoor only cats.... and they do just fine, despite what Sherry might think about that.
5/23/00 7:18 PM pat maybe until i get bored with her...I feel bad about her being stuck inside all day...She sits and looks outside with a sad look on her face
5/23/00 7:17 PM BeanCount Sounds like the cat is going to work out fine.
5/23/00 7:16 PM BeanCount She did, but I am horrible with remembering the schedules. She's going to go for ten days in June, but maybe not at all in July.... then ten days in August. I asked her to tell me the schedule in e-mail.
5/23/00 7:15 PM pat she is..i still call her HE, i don't know why
5/23/00 7:15 PM BeanCount I thought the cat was a female?
5/23/00 7:14 PM BeanCount No she didn't tell me that. She just said something like You're going to go fuck whores? Goddamn you Gary, couldn't you wait until July? I thought you were saving yourself for me. I could have been "saving" myself for over a year using this logic.
5/23/00 7:14 PM pat did nikita say when she is going back to the brothels
5/23/00 7:13 PM pat Don't know I wont get over to her house till after she is moved...we play and I pet him for 20 min. or so...he misses me when I'm gone 10 hrs a day.
5/23/00 7:12 PM BeanCount uhhh... what sort of ritual? Did she find the other cat?
5/23/00 7:12 PM pat did she tell you not to spend all your money on whores
5/23/00 7:11 PM BeanCount Sherry wrote me a sort of mean e-mail about my going. I don't understand her sometimes. She was pretty much OK with it today though.
5/23/00 7:11 PM pat me and the kiddies are getting along great...I have to go through a ritual when i get home..It would be easier if i wasn't dead tired when i got home.
5/23/00 7:10 PM BeanCount sounds like it.
5/23/00 7:10 PM BeanCount He seemed pretty nice.... She said she's not so concerned about him anymore, but also said he is obsessed. She said he really wanted to meet me. Why?? Because he wants to know everything about her, including her "regulars. Talked to him for 5 or 10 minutes while Nikita was eating.
5/23/00 7:08 PM pat I wish...this job is the job from Hell....
5/23/00 7:07 PM BeanCount that sucks... yet it's why you get the big bucks.
5/23/00 7:07 PM pat so was Motoman a ok guy...
5/23/00 7:06 PM BeanCount I was home by 9:15. I talked to Motoman for a few minutes, then back to the hotel and showered, called home and was out of there by 6.... just stopped once for gas. Very pleasant relaxed drive. I was in a good frame of mind.... as you can imagine.
5/23/00 7:05 PM pat every day this week and late friday night
5/23/00 7:04 PM BeanCount Damn.... you are working lots of overtime?
5/23/00 7:04 PM pat dam thats a long out date...when did you get home.
5/23/00 7:03 PM BeanCount 5 hours.
5/23/00 7:03 PM pat cant I'll be working
5/23/00 7:03 PM BeanCount Not helping Sherry move this Saturday?
5/23/00 7:03 PM pat how long did you get to spend with her.
5/23/00 7:02 PM BeanCount yes, I remember that...
5/23/00 7:02 PM pat I don't know yet either this weekend or next
5/23/00 7:02 PM BeanCount You're seeing her this weekend?
5/23/00 7:02 PM pat I told you last time i went to see her she was in some sexy teddy
5/23/00 7:01 PM BeanCount I prefer to see her not through the house. I really did like it though that she was wearing "regular" clothes, even though she did play a little "dress up" game.
5/23/00 7:01 PM pat after this week im going to be due...it been a long one and still 4 days to go.
5/23/00 7:00 PM BeanCount It was great.... but I am sooooo spoiled. I wanted another 48 hours. I'm tired today.
5/23/00 6:59 PM pat Well!
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 26, 2019 16:20:59 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/28/00 6:48 PM BeanCount ok.... think about that room in Tahoe.... it may be a good "compromise"... talk to you later Pat.
5/28/00 6:47 PM pat I think it will be OK, but I will talk to Nikita one more time..I want to make sure we are both on the same playing field..I want her to know what i expect and to know what she is willing to except from me...Everything up front before we go.. NO surprises when we get there...I have to get going..cat is bugging me for attention and food.
5/28/00 6:44 PM BeanCount Nikita has you spoiled.... and me too. Why are we making this into a problem?
5/28/00 6:42 PM BeanCount You have to go.... the Sherry thing???
5/28/00 6:41 PM pat she likes to sit on the computor desk and walk back and force over the key board. I will work it out with Nikita..If I dont go she will have others that would be willing to fill in...
5/28/00 6:39 PM BeanCount I'll take her for Friday... if you work that out with Sherry.... LOL.....
5/28/00 6:38 PM BeanCount Bed, bad kitty.....
5/28/00 6:38 PM BeanCount I doubt you'd be "disappointed" Look, I agree.... I'd rather spend a couple of days with her in Vegas again. I'm going to CWMC4 because of Sherry, but I'm going to build my "fun" around Nikita. Get a hotel in Tahoe.... rest easy. LOL... Better shows there usually too, LOL...
5/28/00 6:37 PM pat The kitten is messing with my key board...I'll work it out with Nikita.
5/28/00 6:35 PM BeanCount I can't answer that one for you.... I see you making this into a big deal by calling it "hiding out" and the like.... why not get a room in Tahoe?? She'll be totally comfortable and so will you. Then just go to events as you see fit.... but unrealistic to expect her to go to a muffin meeting... You never expected that before.... just the dinner and BBQ.
5/28/00 6:35 PM pat I look at 2 days here or any where but Reno with nikita a worry free and hassle free great time...2 days in reno at cwm4..restricted and potentially disappointing.
5/28/00 6:33 PM BeanCount I look at Friday afternoon and night as having potential as being either very, very good, or a total disaster... or anything in-between, and largely out of my control to influence much. I look at Saturday afternoon and night as being a "sure-thing" great time. You are right though, muffin meetings and brew-pub (never went to one of those) are NOT IMPORTANT TO ME.
5/28/00 6:32 PM pat "she's fun to be around not having sex." I agree but I dont need to go to Reno to do that. The air fair is 138.00. that's miminal..the cost is for her for 2 days..If i can see her here for that amount and not have the hassel..Why go to reno and have limitations
5/28/00 6:29 PM BeanCount Maybe you should not be paying all her airfare?
5/28/00 6:27 PM BeanCount I said I think it will be fine. I'll try to talk to her soon. If she has doubts about the security issue, I'll try to lessen them. If she wants a different hotel, even in a different town.... that is fine with me. I never expected to take her to muffin meetings or brew pub gatherings, and I guess I don't understand why you want to do that.... since she doesn't like crowds anyway to me she's fun to be around not having sex.
5/28/00 6:23 PM BeanCount Just go to different restaurants.... or even a different hotel.... You'll have a helluva good time, and you know it. we're talking about Nikita here.... remember. LOL.... What was the answer on the muffin meetings thing??
5/28/00 6:23 PM pat Before we finalized my going we talked about her being seeing at that time it wasn't a problem..Now we have a new development. Im not sure why you have but doughts in my head...Talking to her I felt ok..Now i see lots of problems..You seem to be more concerned than her about the security issue.
5/28/00 6:20 PM pat She was concerned about the restaurants...The original plan was that she would go with me and we would be on a 2 day date..No restrictions. Now things have changed..Its I will go but we can't do this or that.. I understand her concerns, but part of this is for my enjoyment too...I have to be comfortable with the situation also...
5/28/00 6:20 PM BeanCount Also, how come everything was ok after you talked to her yesterday, but now it isn't?
5/28/00 6:18 PM BeanCount Why are you calling this hiding out? There are plenty of places to go if you want to go somewhere. Why is it important for her to go to muffin meetings, brew pub, etc? I'm not seeing your point here I guess. You've known all along that you can go see her almost anytime you want,so why did you have this idea about CWMC4 in the first place? The first time you mentioned it to me,it was you who pointed out the problems of the public exposure.
5/28/00 6:14 PM BeanCount Did she say she didn't want to hang around the public areas of the hotel also. By this I mean restaurants, casino, swimming pool, bars, arcade, etc?
5/28/00 6:14 PM pat No but i can be stuck with Nikita here at home...where we can go out and not worry about being seen...I either go with Nikita and we do more than hide out or I stay home. Those are the choices the way i see it..Going their and hiding out may be the best for Nikita but not something i would be comfortable with.
5/28/00 6:13 PM BeanCount Ask yourself this question: Why is it important for Nikita to attend a muffin meeting with me?
5/28/00 6:09 PM BeanCount Pat, listen to yourself !!!! Stuck in a with Nikita is not a bad place to be.... Go to some of the events, and see that as a way to get a break, and let her have one too. You do not NEED to go to all of these events. Would you rather go without Nikita?
5/28/00 6:06 PM pat I know..They were on there own..You are making some good arguements for me not to go...Why go if I either have to be stuck in the room..Or else go by myself and leave Nikita alone in the room.... I can save the money and use it some other time when I don't have to deal with all the other shit.
5/28/00 6:05 PM BeanCount Don't back out at the last minute.... LOL.... sherry might still "surprise " me....
5/28/00 6:03 PM BeanCount Tia made a big deal about them being there unbooked, but the Sagebrush girls were too snotty to do that...
5/28/00 6:02 PM BeanCount Tessa never attended as a working girl, Jenlynn booked through the house, as did Bree I think. The mustang girls came that time on their own to the BBQ, probably at Sherry and Tessa's suggestion. I have no idea how they booked things.... but they were definitely not "with" anyone in particular at the event???
5/28/00 6:00 PM pat champagne, tia jenn lynn, Bree, Shanice, Tessa
5/28/00 5:58 PM BeanCount Welll that is a pretty big difference isn't it? If we want to book her for outdates... through the house.... then everything would be okay for her also.. But we don't want to do that... at least I don't. Who ever went to a muffin meting that was an active working girl? Who ever went to any of the functions as an "off the books" escort?
5/28/00 5:54 PM pat actually their have been lots of working girls at the BBQ..1 or 2 at the muffin meetings..Several at the dinners..The difference is they were either paid out dates or were their alone..all except the Mustang ladies..What is the difference between going to the dinner or one of the meetings..The dinner is much higher profile
5/28/00 5:50 PM BeanCount yes, I think you can do both.... but think it's very unrealistic to expect her to attend those functions... The dinner is the big thing....
5/28/00 5:48 PM BeanCount I think it'll work out that way.... for you. Go to restaurants other than the Peppermill ones.... but give her a break when you go to the muffin meets. Think about it Pat.... have you EVER seen an ACTIVE WORKING GIRL at a muffin meeting? I've never been to a beer pub meeting, but I bet that's the same...
5/28/00 5:49 PM pat the difference is I live here..and you live away...If i just want to see Nikita I can do that here...Part of my plan is to also take part of the CWM4 activities.
5/28/00 5:46 PM BeanCount I guess it's way different for me.... Originally I said I would go to CWMC4 because Sherry asked me. I didn't think there would be any sex with her.... and still think it's maybe 50/50.... so I wanted to set up Saturday with Nikita.... and figured I'd maybe go to a brothel Friday night.... Now I'm primarily going to see Nikita... If that works out good, and I'm hightly confident it will.... then everything else is gravy.
5/28/00 5:44 PM pat that depends what pretty danm good means...If its hiding out in a hotel...then its not worth it to me....If it means going to the dinner and also being able to do other things in town and catcthing some of the other events..NOT the BBQ..then its ok.
5/28/00 5:38 PM BeanCount If you wanted to go somewhere with her for a couple of days... you could probably work that out. Maybe you are trying to do too much here? It can't be perfect, but it can be pretty damned good... You are going to have to settle for pretty damned good.... Now what is wrong with that?
5/28/00 5:36 PM pat last night i thought it was all worked out when I talked to Nikita, now I am starting to have doubts again.
5/28/00 5:34 PM BeanCount I see your point.... but it's a very delicate situation. There must be a "happy medium" in there somewhere.
5/28/00 5:32 PM pat At the same time I am going there for CWm4.. If i just wanted to spend 2 days with her I can do that some place else...If she is my date for CWM4 then those activities have to be a part of it...Why fly her down there if we cant enjoy the CWM4 activities.
5/28/00 5:28 PM BeanCount ok.... that wouldn't be a problem. I'll talk to her..... Like I said, I think this will all work out ok.... I think we should do what we can to make her feel more at ease.
5/28/00 5:26 PM pat she has to be back the next morning to catch her plane. needs to be at airport around noon
5/28/00 5:25 PM BeanCount I'll try to talk to her. I may reconsider the location for Saturday.... Maybe a switch to Tahoe would suit her better....
5/28/00 5:23 PM pat Not being their but going to the restaurants...Or seen out and about town...She fucked up once and had the drivers pick her up at the PepperMill..They asked a lot of questions...Now she plans on going to the airport and putting her luggage on the carriage and being picked up their even if she has been in town for a couple of days.
5/28/00 5:20 PM BeanCount I did mine by hotmail. IB knows my e-mail.... so if he's counting votes, then I'm in. Is she worried about the Peppermill?
5/28/00 5:19 PM pat It just has to be a legitimate ISP..Not hotmail unless your a known poster.
5/28/00 5:18 PM BeanCount Will their votes count? I thought it said the e-mail addresses had to be known. I'm even worried that my vote won't be counted.
5/28/00 5:17 PM pat I hope she wins....A couple of guys emailed me saying they voted for her..Not regulars some lurkers..
5/28/00 5:16 PM BeanCount I think it will be ok.... She is going to feel kinda inhibited and paranoid, but I think all will work out fine.
5/28/00 5:13 PM pat I talked to her about an hour last night...I told her I had doubts ts about even going to CWM4..She convinced me that It will be ok. The plan is that I am just a good friend from up here and No money is being transpired.
5/28/00 5:12 PM BeanCount Well she'll just miss another day of work for the phone guy... No problem....
5/28/00 5:11 PM BeanCount kewl.... ok, anything positive to say, LOL.... Oh yeah, we already went over that when we were talking about Nikita...
5/28/00 5:11 PM pat there is a nice area for the PC though..problem is no outlets or phone jack very close...
5/28/00 5:10 PM pat ad is all ready moved in..That's the biggest room in the house...plus he has his own outside entrance...
5/28/00 5:09 PM BeanCount She should take the bedroom.... but I know she won't.
5/28/00 5:08 PM pat No she has too much work to do...This place is smaller than the other one..Not much shelf room for all her stuff...I figure it will take her a couple of weeks to find a place to put it all away
5/28/00 5:06 PM BeanCount sounds like a good plan.... Is she sitting over there stewing about not having a phone?
5/28/00 5:06 PM pat I have been planing on doing that...I will work on it in the next couple of weeks and then let you look it over.
5/28/00 5:04 PM BeanCount It needs to be written out... You have written many nice things before. If you would like to write something up... I'd be happy to edit... or add to it... or whatever.
5/28/00 5:03 PM pat I have been trying to figure out what i might say...The problem is if I have to get up front and say something it might come out...has a bunch of duh huh duh huh..thank you Bye
5/28/00 5:02 PM BeanCount What would I say?
5/28/00 5:01 PM BeanCount I have no idea.... I'm not much of a speechmaker.....
5/28/00 5:01 PM pat can i just sit and watch and trow eggs at you
5/28/00 5:00 PM pat Do you have any idea of what the plan is on Banquet night..How are we going to present the present...Are we all going up front on que..Are you going to make a speech...
5/28/00 4:58 PM BeanCount You're never going to be a very good liar.... LOL.....
5/28/00 4:57 PM pat maybe AD got a job and helped her pay for it.
5/28/00 4:57 PM BeanCount There's a possibility I hadn't considered.....
5/28/00 4:56 PM pat I don't even know if she paid them or not..I assume she did or they wouldn't have delivered it...
5/28/00 4:55 PM BeanCount I understand. Sort of wish I didn't know abut the futon... I thought she was being more honest lately... She could still surprise me, but I think the odds of that are really low....
5/28/00 4:53 PM pat I don't even want to ask her about it...Im happy with this one I don't need another one....
5/28/00 4:52 PM BeanCount So what happens to the other one?
5/28/00 4:52 PM pat didn't look for it...This one cost me 60.00 this weekend, plus I will be spending another 70.00 or more at the vet this week...We are bonding though
5/28/00 4:51 PM BeanCount I didn't think so.... Did you find the other cat?
5/28/00 4:50 PM pat NO!
5/28/00 4:50 PM BeanCount She just pisses it away.... no common sense whatsoever. Do you think she's getting any better at all?
5/28/00 4:48 PM pat lots of movies and cds
5/28/00 4:48 PM BeanCount You slipped up.... LOL......
5/28/00 4:48 PM BeanCount I don't know.... my observation was that she had nothing of much value in that apartment.... and no apparent drug use at all.... no heavy drinking.... I don't know...
5/28/00 4:47 PM pat I wont , I'm not allowed to tell you about those things
5/28/00 4:46 PM BeanCount I'm going to ask about the futon.... and see what she says.... Don't let her know I know she has it.
5/28/00 4:46 PM pat Its crazy..If you count all the outside help she gets she takes home more than I do...I have No idea where it goes..NOT bills for sure
5/28/00 4:45 PM BeanCount ok.... so where does she EVENTUALLY get the other $300 for you? From me??? She already runs several hundred dollars short each month.....
5/28/00 4:43 PM BeanCount Ok..... she won't be able to repay you then....
5/28/00 4:43 PM pat you have made some good arguments as to why I say she will only want to pay 1/2 of the 600.00
5/28/00 4:42 PM BeanCount Brutal honesty..... LOL..... Still never got the $115 that was promised either.
5/28/00 4:42 PM pat No she has to pay for the electric...Plus their will be a phone hook up fee
5/28/00 4:41 PM BeanCount If the futon..... not due til June 1.... is more important than the phone and electric bill, then those are not very important at all. Isn't electric included in her rent now?
5/28/00 4:40 PM pat ZERO
5/28/00 4:40 PM BeanCount I don't know.... right now I want the refund money to come to me. What are my chances?
5/28/00 4:39 PM BeanCount Why would she only pay back 1/2 to you?
5/28/00 4:39 PM pat that means she still owes on the phone and electric..where is that money going to come from
5/28/00 4:38 PM BeanCount She paid with the money I sent.... that's my bet.
5/28/00 4:36 PM BeanCount ok.... you gotta do what ya gotta do....
5/28/00 4:37 PM pat I didn't ask how she paid for it....I'm expecting she will ask to only pay half of the 600.00 she owes me
5/28/00 4:35 PM BeanCount I'm going to be playing dumb about the futon. I bet you weren't supposed to tell me about it. Sherry begged some money off me to pay her delinquent electric and phone bills. $375 total. She put on the full desperation act. "Gary, I have no one to turn to for this except you, and I don't know what to do", blah, blah, blah. I fell for it...... again. I will bet you anything she really used the money for the futon.
5/28/00 4:31 PM BeanCount The 25th....26th are probably the best for me.... If I hafta wait.... I'll wait.
5/28/00 4:33 PM pat That would be better, but still too rushed for me..I like staying up late at night with her and just laying around in the morning...Its not worth it too me if we have to be rushed in the morning, plus I would be exausted at work the next day..I'll just wait till the 24th..Or maybe till CWM4
5/28/00 4:30 PM BeanCount No, no, no..... She comes to your place.
5/28/00 4:30 PM pat its not positive , but that is what she was talking about last night.
5/28/00 4:29 PM BeanCount Hmmmmm.... thought her e-mail said after the fourth.... that would narrow me down to the one Sunday...
5/28/00 4:30 PM pat No...Not if i have to work the next day...I wouldn't get there till 7:00 or later and have to head back early in the morning..
5/28/00 4:28 PM BeanCount bummer..... You could go on a weekday??
5/28/00 4:28 PM pat she is planning on working at the brothels 4th of july weekend
5/28/00 4:27 PM pat next week she is going to the coast with her boyfriend
5/28/00 4:27 PM BeanCount Yes, I know.... she sent me an e-mail with her schedule. I thought you were going next week??? I was contemplating coming up on the 25th.... or maybe July 2.
5/28/00 4:25 PM pat i wont be seeing Nikita until june 24th now...She is going to be gone next weekend..then back to the brothels.
5/28/00 4:24 PM BeanCount I don't see him online now though...
5/28/00 4:23 PM BeanCount Try him on ICQ
5/28/00 4:23 PM pat I still haven't heard from Cowboy
5/28/00 4:22 PM BeanCount Sidey a liar? I'm shocked that you would accuse him this way... LOL.... He's a loser.... plain & simple..... so why bother with him?
5/28/00 4:22 PM pat I figure about 2hrs at each location..She did dock them some money for wasting 1/2 hr trying to figure out where to park at the new place. they wanted more.
5/28/00 4:21 PM BeanCount I'm trying to picture this desk. Where was it? Even so.... 4.5 hours is really ridiculous. She shouldn't have paid them double....
5/28/00 4:20 PM pat he's also a big liar..
5/28/00 4:19 PM BeanCount yes, but not for a long time. He's also lurker 2000.
5/28/00 4:19 PM pat No this is a big heavy desk she got from the sun tan job..she got her new futon
5/28/00 4:18 PM BeanCount uhhhh..... the desk I got her?? But I ended up getting her an entertainment center. She had the futon???
5/28/00 4:18 PM pat looking for love in all the wrong places...Did you know Sidewinder was Fly on the wall..
5/28/00 4:17 PM BeanCount Is there a prize for dumbest poster at GP's? I nominate midnight raider.....
5/28/00 4:17 PM pat she has some big desk...I was working very late friday and tired Saturday...So i didn't go over..She did have her new futon
5/28/00 4:16 PM BeanCount Nothing ever comes easy for Sherry.
5/28/00 4:15 PM BeanCount I was hoping you could be there to "supervise". It should have even taken two hours.... all her stuff wouldn't even fill a small truck.....
5/28/00 4:14 PM pat manager doesn't live on site.
5/28/00 4:14 PM BeanCount No on-site management that she could have coordinated that with? I guess she tried to get it done..... too bad.
5/28/00 4:14 PM pat she hired dumb and dummer...a con out on work release..it was supposed to take 2 hrs it took 4.5 hrs
5/28/00 4:13 PM BeanCount Yes, I knew about the lost check.. I gave her the number to call to follow up on that. She told me they will mail the replacement to her new address. Why was the move so costly??
5/28/00 4:12 PM pat they came friday but couldn't get into the basement..to hook it up[..someone has to be there to let them in.
5/28/00 4:11 PM BeanCount I tried to encourage her to get the phone squared away early.... but she said it's not a problem in Portland like it is down here. Here it can take up to two weeks....
5/28/00 4:11 PM pat the movers cost her trwicwe as much as she thought they would..Plus she Post office lost her tax check
5/28/00 4:10 PM BeanCount He appears to be from the Vegas Ken school of jerkdom..... EGADS.... she'd be better off with LL....
5/28/00 4:10 PM pat I saw sherry's place today...Its going to be a real pain to find parking there...we're going to have to figure something out...She wont have a phone till tuesday or later.
5/28/00 4:09 PM BeanCount She doesn't have to just sit in the room.... go play pool.... to a movie... for a walk... sightseeing.... etc. I can see her skipping the muffins and brews brothers..., but it would be nice if she went to the BBQ for a couple of hours.
5/28/00 4:08 PM pat I told her not to write to him...He's a jerk
5/28/00 4:07 PM BeanCount Did you read sanman's post?? he sounds like a very mild-mannered, stable, secure kinda guy... Just right for Vicky.... ya think??
5/28/00 4:07 PM pat I understand that, but if all she can do is sit in the room..why go to CWM4 I would be better off just spending 2 days with her some place else
5/28/00 4:06 PM BeanCount She can hang out in my room while you go do all that stuff.... :-) Seriously though, I think some of her concerns make sense.... if she's being watched closer now.... and she thinks she is.
5/28/00 4:04 PM pat I told her if she goes with me I don't want us to just hide in the room..I don't care about the bbq..I do want to go to some of the brews bros. and muffin meetings...
5/28/00 4:01 PM BeanCount Yes, she told me she would go to the dinner, but was worried about the BBQ.
5/28/00 4:00 PM pat i had a long talk with Nikita last night..She is going to the dinner and will play the rest by ear...
5/28/00 10:14 AM BeanCount Everything ok?
5/26/00 7:42 PM BeanCount Did you call Nikita about CWMC4?
5/25/00 8:37 PM BeanCount She doesn't feel that the boyfriend pays enough attention to her. She has told me that she feels like maybe she is a smothering type. She wanted to know if I thought she was too "clinging'. I told her No, that I really liked how she was that way.
5/25/00 8:19 PM BeanCount hmmmmm... could be almost anything.
5/25/00 8:17 PM pat this is what she wrote I've also come home to some "boyfriend problems"...nothing time can't deal with, but a bit stressful right now. Oh well!
5/25/00 8:16 PM BeanCount This was when I saw her Monday. I haven't talked to her, or heard from her, since then.
5/25/00 8:15 PM pat was that before or after she got home?
5/25/00 8:14 PM BeanCount She talked about a two week vacation with him in August. Sounded like things were fine.
5/25/00 8:13 PM pat she didn't say
5/25/00 8:12 PM BeanCount Oh yeah.... I remember he had problems also... but she said her mom is dying.... slowly. What is the problem with the boyfriend? I thought they made up.
5/25/00 8:11 PM pat No her dad has a leg problem..he needs another operation..they might have to amputate
5/25/00 8:10 PM BeanCount She said she would be back in June. I thought the health problems were mostly her mom?
5/25/00 8:09 PM pat She has some other problems right now also..her dad and boyfriend troubles...she didn't elaborate..I will try and talk to her in the next couple of days...do you know when she is going back to Reno
5/25/00 8:09 PM BeanCount She needs to go... in case she wins.
5/25/00 8:07 PM BeanCount Yes, I told you about the doubts...
5/25/00 8:07 PM pat I got an email from her today...She is having doughts about CWM4...I claled her but she wasn't home...I may call later
5/25/00 8:05 PM BeanCount Didn't seem to be overly upset... Said she had tons of e-mail on Thursday, and it took her two hours to go through it.
5/25/00 8:04 PM pat does she care...If she does it would give me a good opportunity to jump in ABs shit.
5/25/00 8:03 PM BeanCount That has to be it....
5/25/00 8:02 PM pat she emailed them her schedule...They took it upon themselves to use her Email address when they got the email
5/25/00 8:01 PM BeanCount No, she doesn't know how it happened.
5/25/00 8:01 PM pat nikita must have given ab or Bashful her email address
5/25/00 6:16 PM BeanCount I knew I had seen Nikita's e-mail address somewhere online. It is on the schedules page. Nikita herself told me. I f you go there you will see that her name is an active link to her e-mail .....
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 27, 2019 10:26:48 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/29/00 12:11 PM BeanCount OK.... Everything will work out GREAT. Quit worrying and imagining things that can go wrong. LOL Talk to you later....
5/29/00 12:09 PM pat OK bye talk to ya later
5/29/00 12:08 PM BeanCount Will he really??? One of my "potential" dates that I threw out to Nikita was July 2.-3.... but that depends on her schedule.... she may be at Kitty's. I gotta go....
5/29/00 12:07 PM pat Ib will be here the 1st week of July...Maybe I can con him out of $50.00 towards the Sherry thing
5/29/00 12:05 PM BeanCount I keep saying that I think everything will be fine also..... I understand your feelings from yesterday.... A lot of the fun in Las Vegas was that we were both relaxed, and not concerned about who saw us, etc. I think we would both be less inhibited if we moved over to Tahoe. Keep in mind that my motivations (and concerns) about even going to CWMC4 are WAY different than yours.
5/29/00 12:01 PM pat hey I'm just the messenger...I had a long talk by phone with Ib last night...We discussed Nikita and her going to CWM4...He thought the dinner would be fine..but not the bbq.He will let me know if dennis will be at the dinner..He could be if Kitty's wins brothel of the year..The rest he thought would be fine...He said even if she did get spotted she wouldn't get fired..They may want half the money..!/2 of nothing is nothing
5/29/00 11:58 AM BeanCount I just replied to Nikita's e-mail to me where she was telling me her schedule. In there I mentioned that I had talked to you about CWMC4. I threw out the idea of moving our "date" over to Lake Tahoe, and asked her if she would be more "comfortable" there.
5/29/00 11:55 AM BeanCount Nobody ever mentioned Tessa's "retirement" to me when I was asked to contribute.... nor was it mentioned in the speech that was shown to me... I don't know what else might have been said at the banquet. Oh well, it's his call, of course.... Tessa "retired" when she got fired from the Mustang... after the banquet.
5/29/00 11:53 AM pat I know when I 1st talked to him about it..He mentioned something about it isn't like it was with Tessa, she isn't retiring from anything
5/29/00 11:51 AM BeanCount That's my thought too.... almost like a slap in the face. Is there something there I'm unaware of? I'm surprised he hasn't heard from Tia.... or Avid reader...
5/29/00 11:50 AM pat I thought that was kind of cheap....might as well not give anything....Oh well
5/29/00 11:49 AM BeanCount $10 from IB???
5/29/00 11:48 AM pat yes fly, curious, Woodrow
5/29/00 11:48 AM BeanCount OK... I thought that might be the direction you were headed. On Cowboy's list, can I assume that Fly and Woodrow are also in?
5/29/00 11:46 AM pat "This is really great, but says nothing about Sherry's contributions to the Message Board: Moderator, inciteful posts. being silly, shit stirrer, revealing posts about her ow life story, etc. " ..I figure i would let someone else talk about her board life..I know her best as a personal friend..Plus i want it too be short..This could be the longest 5 min of my life.
5/29/00 11:23 AM BeanCount Do you see two people talking... or just one?
5/29/00 11:22 AM BeanCount Really good so far!! Just a couple of comments. (1) Sherry and Tessa both made their first appearance on the message board in the fall of 1997. That makes it somewhat less than 3 years ago. Time flies when you're having fun, LOL. (2) This is really great, but says nothing about Sherry's contributions to the Message Board: Moderator, inciteful posts. being silly, shit stirrer, revealing posts about her own life story, etc.
5/29/00 11:15 AM BeanCount So are you online now?
5/29/00 11:11 AM BeanCount Damn.... you sure do get up early on holidays !!!!
5/29/00 7:29 AM pat I talked with Cowboy here is what he told me. Off and on. Looking for an update? Well, IB is in for $10, XXX said he's in. That is in addition to Curious, RockTroll and Bashful. I haven't had the time to pursue it lately. Been very busy.
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 28, 2019 10:52:30 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count 5/31/00 7:00 PM pat OK
5/31/00 6:57 PM BeanCount Time to head out to the baseball game. Talk to you later.
5/31/00 6:54 PM BeanCount No, looks like the problem is taken care of then.
5/31/00 6:53 PM BeanCount oh.... maybe he needed the other $5 for lunch or something....
5/31/00 6:53 PM pat no balloons are you at a carnival
5/31/00 6:52 PM BeanCount any balloons there?
5/31/00 6:52 PM pat yes but in the last email it said $5.00
5/31/00 6:51 PM BeanCount I thought you said $10 from IB?
5/31/00 6:51 PM pat I see your eye
5/31/00 6:50 PM BeanCount How about now?
5/31/00 6:50 PM pat good thing IB donated $5.00 or we would be hurting
5/31/00 6:49 PM pat no but you're a balloon head...You show up has off line here
5/31/00 6:48 PM BeanCount Right on !!! Do I have a balloon by my name? Trying to get rid of this... Woodrow's helping....
5/31/00 6:45 PM pat I just got a 100.00 commit from Curious and woodrow will donate 50.00 plus 80.00 towards the travel
5/31/00 6:07 PM BeanCount Thank you for these updates. I was copied on an e-mail that Cowboy sent to a new list of people. We'll see how that goes... You're not going to cancel out of CWMC4 are you? If you do, then so am I.... but I'll use that weekend to get together somewhere with Nikita.
5/31/00 5:39 PM pat bashful is in for $50. That makes $155 so far.
5/31/00 5:38 PM pat As you saw I re-sent the BuffyMonial Email a couple of days ago. So far, I have Rocktroll confirmed for $50, an "anonymous" donation of $50 and $5 from IB. Curious, XXX and Bashful have also said that they are in but no dollar figures yet. Have you talked to Beanie, Fly and Woodrow about splitting the airfare/hotel? I know Woodrow and Beanie are aware but nothing from Fly. I'm in for a fifth.
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 28, 2019 14:54:13 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/2/00 8:22 PM BeanCount ok...
6/2/00 8:22 PM pat I'm going to go watch the last of the Game....talk to you later
6/2/00 8:21 PM BeanCount Sounds eerily familiar.... My wifes birthday present... diamond and ruby "tennis" bracelet in gold... Cost = $2,500.... My present.... two pair of pants.... 3 sizes too big.... one exchanged.... the other she got the money back. total cost... approx $25 or $30. But I'm not bitter..... LOL...
6/2/00 8:18 PM pat Yes! are we a lovely couple...a perfect marriage..she yells jump i say how high? we never have sex..and she always gets her own way when we decide what we want to do..
6/2/00 8:16 PM BeanCount Part of the rose festival? How come I am supporting your wife? LOL...
6/2/00 8:15 PM BeanCount Oh no you don't.... I'll read yours for you.
6/2/00 8:15 PM pat yes then we will go to the Starlight parade.
6/2/00 8:14 PM BeanCount rofl..... I could do several trips with Nikita for what sherry costs... Of course I don't have the time for those parties.... so this is a better arrangement. She didn't mention working tomorrow... More catering?
6/2/00 8:15 PM pat Ive decided NO speeches at the Banquet..My speeches suck and I could not pull it off anyway..When they say someone has an award to give out..I will just say BeanCount has a few words to share with you.
6/2/00 8:12 PM pat none...This cat is starting to cost me more than Sherry does..
6/2/00 8:12 PM BeanCount Yeah, it's a riot.... Has that cat had any of its shots?
6/2/00 8:11 PM pat yes! that and a physical...I have to take her and a poop sample to the vet... Isn't having a cat a blast.
6/2/00 8:10 PM BeanCount Having her spayed?
6/2/00 8:03 PM pat fine..I will start looking for ideas this weekend maybe..Wont buy anything until I have told all concerned what i plan on doing..just looking for ideas...She is working tomorrow that will be a good time for me to go shopping.. My kittys in Heat..I'm taking her to the vet tomorrow...She has been driving me crazy.
6/2/00 8:01 PM BeanCount Yeah right.... Like I could get away with that.... Nikita and I did NO gambling....
6/2/00 8:00 PM BeanCount I'll go $100 on the gift.... how's that sound? You actually get to see her all the time. I haven't even seen her since last October.... when she turned her back and walked away... a bad memory.
6/2/00 8:00 PM pat I asked her if she wanted to go to LV once..she said NO..She doesn't like all the gambling...Take her to Ireland..She would love that.
6/2/00 7:59 PM BeanCount Just that I never took her on a trip, though we talked about it many times, and had it all arranged the one time. I never even thought of Sherry on Las Vegas. When I said I was going there, she was full of negative comments about Las Vegas... about hating it and such.
6/2/00 7:57 PM BeanCount LOL..... I think only $100 was for you. She owes $100 more rent for the rest of June. I thought she'd maybe get the five days free... but no. The other $100 was for groceries.
6/2/00 7:56 PM pat How did you interpe that?
6/2/00 7:55 PM BeanCount Today I asked Sherry if my partying bothered her. I didn't mention Nikita specifically. she said it didn't bother her at all, just the Las Vegas trip did.
6/2/00 7:55 PM pat dont worry about it, just keep loaning her money so she can afford to pay me back...
6/2/00 7:54 PM BeanCount ok.... I'll probably mail it to you. I'm really surprised by how much you're doing on the gift.... Am I going to feel like a cheapskate? I know I shouldn't because I have "helped" her many, many thousands of dollars....
6/2/00 7:52 PM pat either way is OK.
6/2/00 7:51 PM BeanCount Ok... I was thinking of just getting it taken care of... not putting off repaying you to the last minute.
6/2/00 7:51 PM pat NO she thought that would be best...She wants to get all the business done at once then she can have the rest of the time for her personal life.
6/2/00 7:50 PM BeanCount You talked to Nikita... I guess.... and she told you I was coming up on the 25th? Did it sound like she thought that was a done deal? I'm asking because I'm not totally sure I can come then, but I probably could.
6/2/00 7:49 PM pat Its 80.00 for 5 of us..NO you don't have to pay me now...
6/2/00 7:49 PM BeanCount Oh, ok.... and also I owe you for a share of Sherry's travel and room. How much will that be, and should I pay you now? Do you have an opinion on what would be appropriate for me to put in?
6/2/00 7:47 PM BeanCount I haven't committed to going up there.... though I may. Also I have not been invited to Nikita's place.... She sent me her schedule and said that the 25th would be best. I need to get back to her. If I go up, I will let Sherry know I'm in the area. If she wants to get together (I don't mean sex) that would be great.... if not, ok.
6/2/00 7:45 PM pat Cowboy has been real busy he told me that he told everyone to contact me about the donations...
6/2/00 7:44 PM pat these are verbal commitments no money yet..I haven't talked to XXX yet...IB upted is to $10.00
6/2/00 7:44 PM BeanCount Originally I thought the goal was to raise $550..... the amount that was raised for Tessa. With yours, it is almost there already. Amazing!!!
6/2/00 7:43 PM pat my thoughts are that i will buy a gift 1st...Don't ask what because I don't know..Then whatever is left over will go towards the Gift certificate from the Art store....Looks like I'll be walking out the door of Nikitas as you walk in..The 24th and 25th...Are you going to go see Sherry while your up here.
6/2/00 7:40 PM BeanCount I thought Cowboy was getting the commitments? I havn't thought how much I would do.... I just "lent" her $300 today. She specifically mentioned you, and needing to pay you $600. I think she's going to give you the full $600. I'm waffling on what I'm putting in partly because I'm surprised how much is already there, and by how much you are putting in.
6/2/00 7:37 PM pat I think I have commitments for the gift of $305.00 not counting what i will put in..also commitments for the airfare...I will probably kick in $200.00 how much do you think you will be contributing
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 29, 2019 11:59:09 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/4/00 9:26 PM BeanCount good night Pat. Thanks for the easy $5. 6/4/00 9:25 PM BeanCount ok, you're on.. I will be cheating to win the bet.... I'm not telling her that I'm not coming up for sex... I'll say something like we can decide later.... depending on our moods if she asks. If she doesn't ask, I'll say nothing.
6/4/00 9:25 PM pat It will all be interesting...I have to get to bed..Long day today and late night last night.
6/4/00 9:23 PM BeanCount sounds good to me!!! I'll set the alarm clock. Sherry won't be there... another prediction.
6/4/00 9:23 PM pat sure
6/4/00 9:22 PM BeanCount are you betting the $5?
6/4/00 9:23 PM pat I'll send her up at 5:000 AM that's when i get up...she can jump in bed with you and Sherry
6/4/00 9:21 PM BeanCount No we haven't. I need her by checkout time of noon.... since there is no BBQ.
6/4/00 9:21 PM pat I think she will except it but it will only be a short meeting for you 2 to go to dinner and get her clothes.
6/4/00 9:20 PM BeanCount I'll bet you $5 that sherry rejects the Gary comes to Portland clothes buying idea.
6/4/00 9:20 PM pat I think so too...I may or may not go..will play it by ear...Have you and Nikita discust when you are headed to Tahoe
6/4/00 9:19 PM BeanCount There'll be a BBQ, I predict.
6/4/00 9:19 PM BeanCount Ya got me!!!! Damn..... Just kinda bugs me that she's ashamed or whatever. Not like anyone there can harm her livlihood...
6/4/00 9:19 PM pat I think Tahoe is fine...What bbq....the X BBQ
6/4/00 9:18 PM BeanCount I've met Dusty before... Never seen Sugar or Spice. None of these people should be in Tahoe... they'll be at the BBQ.
6/4/00 9:18 PM pat and you said I should be happy about that...So you should be happy about hanging out in the room with Sherry.
6/4/00 9:17 PM BeanCount I'll buy some damn jeans... Sherry will be ignoring me. I don't think she wants to be seen with me, or have people think she's with me. Everything I have brought up as activities to do she has rejected... Just wants to hang out in the room. Sorta like what you were afraid Nikita would want to do.
6/4/00 9:16 PM pat dusty, and sugar and spice know you don't ..they will be at the dinner..Nikita doesn't trust any of the ladies she works with.
6/4/00 9:15 PM BeanCount No one knows me... No one that would do her any harm that is. When we ran into the gals from Kitty's at the hotel in CC, she introduced me as a boyfriend. I don't know why... it was a legitimate outdate. She probably did that because they had children with them.
6/4/00 9:14 PM pat I dont own anything but jeans
6/4/00 9:14 PM pat Nikita will be just fine for me..I can see sherry at dinner anyday of the week...Plus we don't do CWMs well together
6/4/00 9:12 PM BeanCount I don't even have any jeans. I'm serious... I'll take Nikita.... you take Sherry.
6/4/00 9:12 PM pat she told me she was more concerned about being seeing with you than me...I'm going as a hometown friend...Others know you have seen her in the Brothels and not from up here.
6/4/00 9:11 PM BeanCount I told Nikita I'd move Saturday to Tahoe if she wanted. I think she will want me to do that... but even so she said we'd have to be "discreet" I think she's kinda spooked.... don't think it will be that bad.
6/4/00 9:11 PM pat Nikita and i were checking out what she might wear..either a dress or pants out fit..Im wearing jeans...Nikita knows that i will be very casual..She said that was fine. sherry wants to go casual...we talked about it today...I agreed
6/4/00 9:09 PM BeanCount You'd like that... Hey you're not gonna even be home Saturday.... J/k....
6/4/00 9:09 PM BeanCount Too bad .... for the kid. What is normal attire for gents at a cwm dinner. Nikita said she's wearing a nice dress. Sherry said jeans...
6/4/00 9:08 PM pat I could rent you my spare bedroom
6/4/00 9:07 PM BeanCount A suite hotel downtown... I don't want to go all the way in there.... wasn't that great. Sherry thought it would be. I don't think it lived up to her expectations... though it was nice enough.
6/4/00 9:08 PM pat No its a nudist beach..his parent is a drunk X vietnam vet..He doesn't have a mom..Sherry and i spend more time parenting him than anyone...Kid is bound to become a loser..but he is a great kid...very nice
6/4/00 9:06 PM BeanCount I agree... the part about the son & buddy is troubling.... more so at the beach than the springs... Does the other boy's parents know about this? Are there separate areas?
6/4/00 9:06 PM pat I dont know? where did you stay last time...I never use Portland motels..I think the Marriot is nice and close to the airport.
6/4/00 9:05 PM BeanCount are there any decent hotels by the Portland airport?
6/4/00 9:05 PM pat getting naked with sherry with her son and buddy there seems strange to me....If it was just her and I , I think i could enjoy it more
6/4/00 9:03 PM BeanCount I would do both... but that's me, and I have a tan.... not "all over" though.
6/4/00 9:01 PM pat I gave her a maybe on both....
6/4/00 9:01 PM BeanCount sounds good... take sunblock!!
6/4/00 8:59 PM pat she has my next 2 weekends planned for me..The nudist beach..she wants to take AD and his buddy too...and some hot springs somewhere near Eugene
6/4/00 8:58 PM BeanCount easy come, easy go... Ha ha...
6/4/00 8:58 PM pat thank you
6/4/00 8:57 PM BeanCount $300 came from me. You're welcome... :-)
6/4/00 8:57 PM BeanCount We'll see....
6/4/00 8:56 PM pat I didn't ask yet..She gets paid Monday..I'll ask her then...I think so.
6/4/00 8:56 PM BeanCount Are you getting your $600.
6/4/00 8:56 PM pat The 24th would be a good time for you and Sherry to get together...If you plan on buying her clothes that would be a good time..I think if you offer she will except
6/4/00 8:53 PM BeanCount No, not finalized yet.... and no Sherry doesn't know I'm coming... if I do. She knows I could get away late this month... I told her that. I don't mean to have sex with sherry.... "saving myself" for Nikita... LOL...
6/4/00 8:51 PM pat is your trip on the 25th finale now..does sherry know you are coming up.
6/4/00 8:50 PM BeanCount NO, I mean this month.... the 24th. She already rejected Reno shopping, because of the sales taxes there she said... and said the shopping was yucky. I pointed out to her that online shopping was subject to California sales tax... which I paid on all the previous purchases.
6/4/00 8:50 PM pat I knew about the clothes, but she hasn't told me much about anything else...She didn't mention the 300.00 you sent her... she just told me she wanted some before she got there
6/4/00 8:48 PM BeanCount I'm not on the board... I'll hafta go look... No comment on the clothes? How can I conduct my life without your advice? LOL... Are you actually going by her "NO TALKING" edict?
6/4/00 8:48 PM pat she isn't getting into town til Friday afternoon...If you come up a day early she wont be there yet.
6/4/00 8:46 PM BeanCount Guess what? Don't mention this... but Sherry wants me to buy her some clothes now. I bought her a bunch of clothes.... but have never seen any of them except one pair of pants that she wore to an interview on that "bad" day. I'm gonna tell her I will only do it (buy clothes) in person, and will offer to come up a day early for that purpose. She will, of course, reject this idea.... because it wasn't her idea.
6/4/00 8:45 PM pat I was wondering how long it would take Sherry to jump Gps shit...22 minutes
6/4/00 8:41 PM BeanCount Oh yeah.... makes sense. I bet Mr. Paul did one too... He partied with her three times on his trip. Her shift ends at midnight... so he comes in then and wants a five hour party.. she did it once for him .but not the night I was coming in at noon.... she gave him one hour then.
6/4/00 8:40 PM pat a guy named Jamie...He goes by Gambler on the board
6/4/00 8:39 PM BeanCount Yeah he posted that he would try to get to it... I thought this weekend. One is by Motoman, she told me about that one... only nice guys can party with her... LOL... who wrote the other? Wait... probably Mr. Paul... he usually writes up his parties.
6/4/00 8:37 PM pat I'll bet AB takes over....He must have plenty of time since he isn't posting any field reports..I know of 2 on Nikita that were written a couple weeks ago still haven't showed up
6/4/00 8:36 PM BeanCount Depends on what drugs she's currently on.... My very, very bad...
6/4/00 8:35 PM BeanCount What about GP's boat? What about Champagne's ride? So many questions....
6/4/00 8:35 PM pat is she going to organize it by herself
6/4/00 8:34 PM BeanCount Fly assures me that Tia will be there. He is amazed that I'm going.... since I have an arrangement with Nikita. I told him you would not "hand her over".
6/4/00 8:32 PM pat let me see if I have this right...Sumaria quit the BBQ because he was pissed. Gp is quitting because he is sick...Tia has disappeared...Looks like Dennis Hof will be incharge
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 30, 2019 10:03:18 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/5/00 7:44 PM BeanCount ok... good night.
6/5/00 7:44 PM pat ok talk to ya later 6/5/00 7:44 PM BeanCount No, feeling really sleepy again.
6/5/00 7:44 PM BeanCount I'll think about the plaque....
6/5/00 7:43 PM pat you gotta go pee...you have my permission
6/5/00 7:42 PM BeanCount She told me that she talks about her private life with you, Dopey, Steve, and me. I suspect its more than that, but she could tell I was sorta concerned..... I need to take a break...
6/5/00 7:42 PM pat I'm thinking about getting a plack for sherry with some nice saying on it from the guys at CWM 4..nothing that would sound like a whore thing..Something she could hang in the house and not be embarased..this would be after the gift..Any thoughts on it might say
6/5/00 7:40 PM pat I think Steve knows quite a bit about her... Jamie probably not...He asked me if she would be upset if he asked her for some pics..I told him go ahead but she is real busy and doesn't like to get too much Email or may not know how to send a pic.
6/5/00 7:37 PM BeanCount ROFL.... Could be.... Maybe she doesn't talk about her real life with these guys? She assured me that she doesn't tell everyone.
6/5/00 7:37 PM pat I don,t know...We have never discussed this part of your rerlationship...
6/5/00 7:35 PM BeanCount She told me one time that he saw a Western Union receipt and asked her who I was by name. She told me to use a different name ( I think it was Bill) if I ever called. For the most part she discourages me from calling at all... so I don't. If necessary I call her at work only. She gets very agitated if I bring any of this up.
6/5/00 7:35 PM pat she is easy to get obsessed with..Gambler is a young dude I think..Very in experienced with women from what i can tell...he says he knows its only business, but the sound of his words sound like he is trying to convince himself. Maybe he is obsessed with me.
6/5/00 7:33 PM BeanCount Why do these guys get so obsessed with her? So far it doesn't seem to bother her that much... but I think it will take a toll eventually. Motoman e-mails her constantly.... sometimes more than once a day, and even when she doesn't answer.
6/5/00 7:32 PM pat I dont know?..I dont think he probably has heard your name..we have mentioned it a few times when he was around
6/5/00 7:31 PM BeanCount She has told me that AD knows of me... (as some guy named BeanCount) as I sent him birthday money plus a pair of pants one time. Was she lying to me?
6/5/00 7:31 PM pat Good question?...Im not sure...Have you ever asked her this question...If i understood a womens logic..I probasbly wouldn't have to go to the brothelss... I wish Nikita would email me as much as Gambler...he emails me 2 time a day.
6/5/00 7:28 PM BeanCount How can I be your friend if we are not supposed to talk to each other? LOL... Why is this not a problem with Bamboo? I know you and he are not friends.
6/5/00 7:27 PM pat if you meet her with Ad around she needs an excuse for her to know you...If you show up by yourself, the I'm Pats friend excuse wont work in her mind..Its dumb. I know..but her logic...I think in your case even if i was with you she would be hesitant..
6/5/00 7:24 PM BeanCount I expect her to say yes, then you win the five dollars... then I make arrangements, then she changes her mind last minute and I'm stuck. So in this scenario do I win the $5??? LOL.... (I think you would win) What is it with me and AD? Is it that you are not around for her to say I'm your friend.... and she wouldn't know me otherwise?
6/5/00 7:21 PM pat I think if she meets you or not will have a lot to do if AD is around or not...If his dad can't take him that weekend or he can't spend the night with someone else..the odds of her saying NO increases...She has done somethings i recommend, but if they turn into a flop I hear about it for a month... Her favorite line..YOu don't know Pat...What would you do with out me.
6/5/00 7:17 PM BeanCount Was trying to remember it Sherry ever agreed to do anything that was my idea. Answer is yes... but she never actually followed through on anything unless it was her idea. NEVER!!! That might happen again, and I'll have 24 hours to cool my heals in Portland.
6/5/00 7:13 PM BeanCount Yes, so I've heard. Have spoken to her quite a bit in ICQ over the last year or so. Mostly about her job and kids and things like that.
6/5/00 7:11 PM pat LB is real nice, Ab is the one that rubs me the wrong way. I met her once up here at the airport..She is real quiet...
6/5/00 7:09 PM BeanCount yep... she seems nice though.
6/5/00 7:04 PM pat that,s my guess too. they don't want to announce it because everyone will jump AB like they always do...He has a way of doing things that are nice but making it sound like he is a God doing us peons a favor.
6/5/00 6:58 PM BeanCount I talk to LB sometimes.. I'll ask her.
6/5/00 6:55 PM BeanCount Sounds like any public park around here. LOL... I have no idea... thought it might be LB and AB
6/5/00 6:53 PM pat Yea! that part of the sate is about 80% mexican...plus its cheap..$4.00 you get the whole family in the park and then all you have to do is go fishing for food. I don't know who the nice people are?
6/5/00 6:52 PM BeanCount Ab sucks.... LOL... Who is taking over the BBQ?
6/5/00 6:51 PM BeanCount Must be going around. Sore throat, achy.... migraine. slept for acouple hours earlier... Hagg lake is the place with all the Mexicans?
6/5/00 6:51 PM pat still no new field reports
6/5/00 6:50 PM pat I called sherry tonight she didn't answer...Ad was sick last week..I felt pretty bad today too...throat hurting feeling achy all over and run down...must have been someting in the water at Hagg Lake
6/5/00 6:48 PM BeanCount No... left work early... not feeling well. waiting for her to bring up the clothes thing again. Also haven't heard back from Nikita yet, so not sure if or when I'm coming. Still working on 6/24 or 6/25.
6/5/00 6:46 PM pat did you tell Sherry your coming up yet
6/5/00 6:45 PM pat I guess..I'm kinda glad..I couldn't afford 2 cats...
6/5/00 6:44 PM BeanCount Should be less expensive starting now.... Nothing about the other cat? It just got abandoned?
6/5/00 6:43 PM pat I have a limited budget..I had to argue with myself..treat the cat right or treat myself to more party time with Nikita...Hopefully this is just because she's knew to me and once i get all the basics done it will be less expensive..Her dr bills for blood test, spading, shots , ect ect are more than I paid the last year for medical bills.
6/5/00 6:39 PM BeanCount That is not a good sign when you are comparing the cost of things to LPIN parties.... LOL
6/5/00 6:38 PM BeanCount Yeah, I knew... dodn't have the heart to tell you. We used to have a cat... years ago. cost thousands over the years.... finally died.
6/5/00 6:33 PM pat did you know it cost more to take care of a cat than to party...by tomorrow night i'll have spent $400.00 on my cat in aprox 3 weeks.
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 30, 2019 16:11:01 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/7/00 7:50 PM BeanCount I might not either.... but I do find her attractive... more so with clothes off, when she stops the "tough girL" act.... She only really stops when naked in my experience.
6/7/00 7:48 PM pat I have never found her that hot sexually..I don't look at her that way at all...The times we had sex wasn't because I had a desire to have sex with her..More out of convenience and seemed like I should. I wouldn't pick her out in a line up...
6/7/00 7:46 PM BeanCount but let me tell you something, I would never tell Sherry that. I know it's strange given her background, but Sherry is very insecure sexually.... and I want her to believe that she is very desireable.... because she is.
6/7/00 7:44 PM BeanCount oh... Well ya know I think I liked her better when we agreed that we weren't going to have sex again... she seemed calmer then... I'd rather have sex with Nikita any time.
6/7/00 7:43 PM pat Nothing happened..I thought it was time to move on...I was wrong
6/7/00 7:41 PM BeanCount What happened then?
6/7/00 7:40 PM pat I have thought the same things many times..Last year after Cwm3 I thought we would go our seperate ways..
6/7/00 7:40 PM BeanCount I know.... and a lot of this is the result of a bad day. A good day comes along and the Universe is ok once again. ... Later....
6/7/00 7:38 PM BeanCount I sometimes think it (CWMC4) is the "end of the line" as far as me & Sherry go. to be honest the thought doesn't bother me... as I am getting tired of the almost daily hassles now. she's mad at me one day... then cooing the next... too much. I'm starting to think it's all staged or something.... though that makes no sense either.
6/7/00 7:38 PM pat I gatta go...It will all either work out or not..Nothing you can do but hope for the best.
6/7/00 7:36 PM BeanCount I'm not worried about it much... For me CWMC4 ends when I leave the BBQ to meet up with Nikita.... or however I meet up with her. You will see me at No more events.... LOL... All's well that ends well.
6/7/00 7:34 PM BeanCount If I understood correctly.... from appearances.... I'm like a zero... this is overstating, but like a source of money... not a friend at all. I come back to this because I quite often think this is the real truth... and you are not being lied to or deceived at all. Probably doesn't make you feel any better?
6/7/00 7:34 PM pat I have had mixed feelings about CWM4 also...I guess its natural...The best thing is to go let whatever happens happen...don't expect too much...Not much you can do to change things
6/7/00 7:31 PM BeanCount the biggest question in my mind is why in the hell does she all of a sudden want to spend the night with me in Reno.... yet doesn't want anyone to know that? As I told Nikita, I'm to the point where it doesn't matter to me all that much if it happens or not.... though if I get snubbed in public I'll obviously be very disappointed, perhaps angry.
6/7/00 7:28 PM pat Sometimes i think that's accurate, others times not...I don't really know for sure...She only tells me what she thinks I want to hear...She also knows we talk so guards her real feelings
6/7/00 7:25 PM BeanCount I know.... Nikita's last e-mail said not necessary to move to Tahoe. I figure when I see her up there, we'll get that all sorted out. You are pretty confident about the Sherry over nighter thing. I'm not. I thought from all appearances that she shows you, that I'm just some guy who sends money, but otherwise is NOT her friend. Has that changed?
6/7/00 7:22 PM BeanCount yes, bad day....
6/7/00 7:23 PM pat your coming in Friday..going to dinner with sherry and spending the night with her..then Saturday you go to tahoe with Nikita..have to be back by noon..doesn't leave much spare time.
6/7/00 7:21 PM BeanCount Kat at Sage 2 is a total cutie... I know we've talked about her. Somehow I need to figure a way to see her again....
6/7/00 7:21 PM pat sounds like fustration is showing its ugly head
6/7/00 7:20 PM BeanCount I'm a very bad boy.... talking to you this way.
6/7/00 7:20 PM pat just have a contest...the lady that wins gets a date with you..That should work... OH never mind Tahoe bill or whatever is name is all ready paying for all the ladies.
6/7/00 7:20 PM BeanCount Maybe I'll hold off on sending you that money.... (just kidding, I know I'm committed to you.... and the others, just as I was on the Tessa money last year)
6/7/00 7:18 PM BeanCount Will IB give me a refund? No wait... I'll just invite someone else. LOL... Bree doesn't have a date.
6/7/00 7:16 PM pat That sounds like a good plan actually...It might mean your dinner date gets cancelled at CWM4 though.
6/7/00 7:15 PM BeanCount NIkita is vey intelligent.... and perceptive.... but then you already know this.
6/7/00 7:15 PM BeanCount That's funny Pat.... Driving home I was thinking that I need to look up Portland on the Internet, and see what the "tourist" things are.... then have a backup plan. My feeling is that if she says ok we have only two hours so lets go buy some clothes for me, and that's it. I'll just say forget it, I'm going to go do blah, blah, blah. If she can't find time for me, then forget it.
6/7/00 7:12 PM pat I guess the thing to do is come up..and hope for the best..Don't expect anything...If she flakes out...You can go to Farmers market that's fun even alone..Or take in the sights of the great northwest...
6/7/00 7:10 PM BeanCount ha ha ah... I think she figured that one out already... that's why she switched to wanting to go shopping today... then she had to make it that I was over-planning and wanting to change everything. I wouldn't go for it, and the tension escalated.
6/7/00 7:08 PM BeanCount bizarre... I probably blew it when I said something like "I know we need to be concerned about dodging Ad and all of his or your friends" I was frustrated by that point.
6/7/00 7:08 PM pat Have you tried the hard love routine... "We either go shoping when I come up or forget any shoping at all"
6/7/00 7:07 PM BeanCount To get the cheap tickets you need to buy two weeks in advance... I'm thinking I better go with "fully refundable" tickets... can purchase at the last minute. Either that or forget the whole thing.... just five you the $5.... lol...
6/7/00 7:05 PM pat AD rules.
6/7/00 7:05 PM BeanCount Yes, I'm thinking the same.... bass ackwards isn't it?
6/7/00 7:03 PM pat Maybe she doesn't want to commit to you for the 24th, because she isn't sure of what ADs plans are...His plans always have a priority...
6/7/00 7:01 PM BeanCount yeah, she's been doing different things every night with Ad gone.... Last night was hot tubs and sauna and women's temple thing. Wednesday has been that Chunkybutt thing... either basketball or skating.
6/7/00 6:59 PM BeanCount IRL I receive little flak.. I'm not good at all in dealing with it....
6/7/00 7:00 PM pat She had something planed for tonight I think...We talked last night and i asked her if we were going to dinner tonight..She said lets do it thursday..I was too tired to ask why..I'm glad I couldn't handle driving down there for dinner tonight
6/7/00 6:58 PM BeanCount she was as agitated today as I've seen her.... couldn't figure it out. she was totally irrational.... couldn't remember what she had said yesterday.
6/7/00 6:57 PM pat The last month or so she has been really nice to me though...It used to be that when she wanted to go somewhere or do something and I didn't want to..she would pull the old guilt trip on me..Now she seems understanding..Doesn't give me any flack.
6/7/00 6:55 PM BeanCount Still annoying quite often?
6/7/00 6:55 PM pat I have said this many times..We use each other well.
6/7/00 6:54 PM BeanCount she plays you too.... as you know, but it's not a money/sex thing with you two.
6/7/00 6:54 PM BeanCount Well yeah... that too.... an escape. A challenge, yes. NIkita said, "But Gary did you ever think that she is "just playing you". I told her hell yes I know that quite often, as Sherry is just a terrible liar, because she can't remember very well... But half the "fun" is trying to show her that it is unnecessary to play me.... I'm failing at this though....
6/7/00 6:50 PM BeanCount She's told me about several.... but in cities I was visiting in Calif..... Bakersfield, Santa Cruz & LA area....
6/7/00 6:51 PM pat I don't think that's it at all..I think its more a escape from your everyday life.also a challenge.
6/7/00 6:49 PM BeanCount Nikita answered the question too. She said it's because my life is so organized.... so structured and planned, that I need this (and LPIN in general) to spice things up. In other words, I'm sorta doing it for entertainment. Now that kinda bothers me Pat.... because I have no right to interfere in her life at all if that's all there is. I'm thinking too much.... bad day.
6/7/00 6:49 PM pat Have her show you all the old places where she used to be a street Prostitute...That should get you lots of points..NOT
6/7/00 6:46 PM BeanCount I told her it wasn't worth an extra hotel charge and rental car charge for two hours or something like that. Don't normal people think this way?
6/7/00 6:44 PM BeanCount ha ha ha.... didn't Nikita tell you?
6/7/00 6:44 PM pat she has told me that a lot..She hates planning
6/7/00 6:43 PM BeanCount Yeah, I told her I wanted to go to that.... She couldn't assure me if we'd have time, because shopping was the big thing today. Said I was trying to plan things to much... and was analyzing to death. Told me to Just forget it if I wasn't going to come up and just see what happens, and whatever it was , just have fun. Almost a direct quote.
6/7/00 6:42 PM pat ok why are you?
6/7/00 6:41 PM BeanCount You should have one question.... the question Nikita assked me: Why in the hell are you doing any of this Gary? What is it in you, or about you, that you "need" this? Why are you punishing yourself? Nikita cuts right to the chase.... LOL...
6/7/00 6:41 PM pat Saturday market is fun..you can go watch all the pot smoking drummers...
6/7/00 6:40 PM BeanCount Yes, she knows about Nikita the following night.... and you on that night... though I hedged on you. I suggested dinner and a movie along with the shopping. She countered that with breakfast and Saturday Market. I'm not getting there soon enough for breakfast.
6/7/00 6:39 PM pat I don't have any answers...doesn't make sense to me..
6/7/00 6:38 PM BeanCount This may sound strange to you.... but it sometimes seems that she wants me to do things for her ($$$$) but is not really happy unless I suffer some, or am embarrassed somehow, in the process.
6/7/00 6:38 PM pat have you told her i am seeing Nikita that weekend or that you are seeing her the next day..I don't care either way..Have you asked her about having AD go to his dads so you 2 can have a fun evening together..NOT sex..just a movie or something..
6/7/00 6:35 PM BeanCount I think she'll be in that mode of wanting to cut everything short.... and can't wait to get away. That happened both previous times.... the "good" time and the "bad". Every phone call also.... unless she places the call. I will be in desperate need of Nikita, I bet. LOL....
6/7/00 6:34 PM BeanCount then she ICQ'ed that I got her in trouble with her boss because of the personal call. Also gave me an ultimatum not to even talk about how much time, when arriving , if she'll come to the airport.... etc. Doesn't want to plan..... I find this all to be very STRANGE. I asked what was bothering her.... TOTAL SILENCE. The call ended badly...
6/7/00 6:34 PM pat I don't understand her...seems to me that shopping and a nice dinner...would be fun for her
6/7/00 6:32 PM BeanCount As of yesterday she said no to the shopping.... prefers to do that alone. I tried to talk her into it... and got no response. This morning I e-mailed "ok, no shopping" She went ballistic, and now insists on shopping. VERY STRANGE. I even called, and she was yelling at me on the phone that I was changing things we agreed on. more.....
6/7/00 6:30 PM BeanCount Yeah.... just don't know which day for sure. I'll probably take a chance on Saturday... and see how it goes. Just wanna think about it more and pay close attention to what she says. Today she thought it unreasonable for me to want to know if she had a couple of hours to spend vs. 5 or 7.... I will have nothing else to do there with you gone....
6/7/00 6:26 PM BeanCount Great.... for you.... Just giving you a bad time. At least she does repay you.
6/7/00 6:26 PM pat your coming up either way right...
6/7/00 6:25 PM BeanCount Well hey.... that's a bright spot..... I don't know if you're going to win the bet on the shopping or not... Sherry has already gone into her VERY AGITATED act... usually that doesn't come so soon. I haven't bought airline tickets yet, and need to think long and hard about this.
6/7/00 6:24 PM pat sherry called me last night said she has my money..I will probably see her tomorrow night...
6/7/00 6:22 PM pat yes! I did get a nice thank you note today from the lady in charge for the work i did for them last night.
6/7/00 6:20 PM BeanCount You're still on that big job... where the customer is not so pleasant?
6/7/00 6:21 PM pat Sherry hasn't been on the board that much..the list is mostly the few regulars that are left...the new guys don't know her from her posting days.
6/7/00 6:20 PM BeanCount I am somewhat disappointed that the list of people who are putting in money for the gift is apparently so short. the total is good.... mostly because of you.
6/7/00 6:19 PM pat no problem..I'm really run down tonight...worked late last night and didn't get much sleep...Job is getting closer to the finish line..hopeful by the end of this week or early next week I'll be out of that place.
6/7/00 6:17 PM BeanCount If I don't get bogged down at work, I'll probably get the money sent off to you tomorrow.
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jul 1, 2019 10:31:04 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/8/00 9:17 PM BeanCount good night Pat.....
6/8/00 9:16 PM BeanCount Hey!!!! Happy birthday Pat!!!! I was upset at the way she reacted when I told her she had forgotten. She said I was "laying a guilt trip on her" by telling her she forgot. See Sherry never does anything wrong... so someone else has to always be at fault if something goes wrong.
6/8/00 9:15 PM pat I have to get going Good night
6/8/00 9:14 PM pat NO! she did say you were upset she forgot your birthday..Don't feel bad she forgot mine too..it was yesterday
6/8/00 9:13 PM BeanCount What? Did Sherry mention me coming up Saturday?
6/8/00 9:12 PM pat It just moved backwards 2 days....We have to re-do the pc and start all over
6/8/00 9:11 PM BeanCount oh... yeah, She gave me the address.... and I looked it up on MapQuest. she's close to that large park also. Will you finish the job from hell this week?
6/8/00 9:10 PM pat Sherry, lives close to downtown
6/8/00 9:09 PM BeanCount Did you think I was talking about Sherry... or Nikita..... Portland or Salem? I'm sooooo confused.
6/8/00 9:08 PM pat there is one by the Airport i thought..Maybe its the Sheridan
6/8/00 9:07 PM BeanCount Who does? You told me the Marriott was by the Airport.
6/8/00 9:06 PM pat she lives close to downtown..also 2 blocks from the Gap and other clothing stores
6/8/00 9:05 PM BeanCount Btw the Marriott is apparently downtown... by the waterfront.
6/8/00 9:05 PM BeanCount I may not be able to send it until tomorrow. We'll see...
6/8/00 9:04 PM pat I'll probably read it in the AM..Im going to bed real soon..
6/8/00 9:03 PM BeanCount I see.... OK.... I'll just have to "wing it". I'll send you that e-mail later. Feel free to rip it to shreds....
6/8/00 9:02 PM pat she brought it up and we were talking about Nikita...said you were going to see her on the 25th... She knows we talk now so she guards what she will tell me.
6/8/00 9:01 PM BeanCount Well how did my name come up at all then?
6/8/00 9:00 PM BeanCount I'll be dodging you then.... LOL... You told me before that you KNEW beforehand that she didn't want me to come up that one time.... even though she was telling me that it was cool.... You also KNEW she didn't want to make that trip to Arizona with me.
6/8/00 8:59 PM pat I don't know the answer...I'm not sure what her feelings are on it..I didn't ask about that tonight..
6/8/00 8:58 PM BeanCount Please give me your honest take on "Just send money Gary, do not send yourself to Portland.... sex or no sex"
6/8/00 8:58 PM pat I always feel awkward in a crowd..I will have my camera..Hide good
6/8/00 8:58 PM BeanCount I'm not sure whether I will or not. It was ok two years ago, though I was constantly dodging cameras.... kinda annoying. Also from time to time I felt awkward I guess.
6/8/00 8:56 PM BeanCount I think the flight and times are the same either way... Saturday or Sunday. I'd have until Saturday to book for the Sunday flight if that's the one I do.
6/8/00 8:56 PM pat Dennis will be there...I have No desire to go to the BBQ
6/8/00 8:55 PM BeanCount I think the banquet should be ok.... and last I heard Nikita did too. apparently the BBq is a bigger problem, though I'm not sure why.
6/8/00 8:55 PM pat Saturday or Sunday
6/8/00 8:54 PM BeanCount I need to check the airline schedules again.... I may need to make reservations by tomorrow in order to get the best fare for coming up Saturday... some were 14 day advance purchase... and others were 7 days.
6/8/00 8:53 PM pat I'll let Nikita take the lead in whatever we do..Their will be lots of ladies at the banquet..will play it by ear no plans ..Just moment to moment
6/8/00 8:52 PM BeanCount Right, and when she refused... she got to the house and all her stuff was waiting for her... and she was told to leave and not come back. This per Fly....
6/8/00 8:50 PM pat No she wasn't fired..They tried making her pay half of what she made..that's the story I got
6/8/00 8:49 PM BeanCount That's what I think too.... but apparently that's not how they run the houses... at least Hof's houses. You heard that Kulani was fired because she was spotted at the Peppermill with some guy?
6/8/00 8:48 PM pat she said don't hold her hand at the dinner...If it could get her fired..She said she should be able to be with whoever she wants on her time off.
6/8/00 8:46 PM BeanCount What was her take on Nikita's worries?
6/8/00 8:46 PM pat I told her i knew..That Nikita wanted to try and keep all her business on the 1 weekend to have more free time...I also talked to her about Nikitas worries about CWM4...She said she looks forward to meeting her...IF I like her she will probably like her too.
6/8/00 8:44 PM BeanCount What did you say when she asked that? I didn't tell you.... Nikita did. LOL...
6/8/00 8:43 PM BeanCount No response, or a negative response means I just fly up Sunday morning to see Nikita... I think it's the same old shit Pat. She says sure come on up.... then every other day I get all these hostile messages.... She doesn't just wanna say "don't come up Gary.... just send money, but not yourself" the e-mail said "no sex" btw....
6/8/00 8:40 PM pat whats that...She didn't seem upset at you tonight...she asked me if I knew you were seeing Nikita on the 25th
6/8/00 8:39 PM BeanCount I know.... usually when they are redesigning things... It's been down for about 4 hours now.... I have no idea how long it was down yesterday... Just checked my Yahoo e-mail... no response there either.... I was expecting at least a "whatever" response. Well anyway no response tells me what I need to know.
6/8/00 8:37 PM pat they do that sometimes..usually they have it up in a couple of hours
6/8/00 8:36 PM BeanCount It says the machine that holds my account information is temporally unavailable.... Was down all last evening too....
6/8/00 8:35 PM BeanCount He loves you... 6/8/00 8:35 PM pat yea I'm kinda tired tonight...another fucked day
6/8/00 8:34 PM BeanCount I forward my e-mail that I wrote to you later. You can critique it....
6/8/00 8:34 PM pat mines working..3 emails from Jamie today
6/8/00 8:33 PM BeanCount I sent it to her at work..... around 2:30.... Just checked... Hotmail still down....
6/8/00 8:32 PM pat we just got back from dinner..she didn't have much time at home from work
6/8/00 8:31 PM BeanCount She sent me an e-mail asking if I was coming.... and could we just forget yesterday... I sent her a long reply.... and used many of your suggestions... NO RESPONSE..... Hotmail has been down for a while though. I sent a Yahoo e-mail followup... Haven't checked lately...
6/8/00 8:29 PM pat OK so any thing new
6/8/00 5:17 PM BeanCount Want a full update? Amounts to her e-mail to me, at 1:52 and my response around 2:00.... then no more, as she didn't respond back.
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jul 2, 2019 14:39:50 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/11/00 8:43 AM BeanCount OK... later. we'll see what happens....
6/11/00 8:43 AM pat I have to get ready and go do some things..talk to ya later
6/11/00 8:43 AM BeanCount I "owe" you a lunch....
6/11/00 8:42 AM BeanCount Yeah I think the lunch is a good idea! Wouldn't want to see you get accused of planning too much though.... LOL Yes to the lunch....
6/11/00 8:41 AM BeanCount If she doesn't want me to see the new place because Ad might be around... or any other reason.... then I won't be seeing it... regardless if we have lunch or not.
6/11/00 8:41 AM pat yes! you meeting her and I for lunch....then you 2 doing whatever or nothing..I'll just leave and get ready for my Nikita night
6/11/00 8:40 AM BeanCount Ask her about what? The lunch... is a good idea I think.
6/11/00 8:39 AM BeanCount ooops for got the latest $300.... to pay you back, plus $100 rent... plus Ad's school trip.... Yet all you hear is that I'm trying to plan everything.... because I made a few suggestions. When I was there in October, she was bored to death and couldn't think of ANYTHING to do.
6/11/00 8:39 AM pat Do you want me to ask her about it? I;m confused
6/11/00 8:37 AM BeanCount She doesn't show up? She'll jump at it if you offer. I would like to see her new place.... the place and the neighborhood. I did pay the security deposit... $300, paid for the move.... $300.... paid her delinquent PGE at the old place $175... paid her ISP.... 6 months behind... $134... and her delinquent phone... $207....
6/11/00 8:33 AM BeanCount If I say anything at all it will now be construed as "planning" or even worse... "analyzing".
6/11/00 8:33 AM pat worth case scenerio..You come up at noon ..You and I go to breakfast/lunch...she doesn't show up...You have all afternoon and night to relax for Nikita the next day.
6/11/00 8:32 AM BeanCount I think check in at Peppermill is usually around 2 or 3 in the afternoon... not sure as it can depend if they have her room ready. You are assuming that there isn't some kind of blowup before then.... again a 50/50 proposition....
6/11/00 8:31 AM pat then it might not be.. Aren't I helpful
6/11/00 8:31 AM pat that might be the best plan
6/11/00 8:30 AM BeanCount Well so far all you've mentioned is OLD NEWS.... from Wednesday.... so maybe I'm over-reacting a tad, ya think? Maybe best to just be low-key and see what happens.... I don't plan to even mention this trip again until she brings it up.
6/11/00 8:30 AM pat it gets in at 12:15...I'm thinking airport hassle and she will also be tired from the flight...Shopping would be about 2 hrs...Its your party do what you think is best..
6/11/00 8:26 AM BeanCount I thought you said her flight comes in at noon? Too early to even check in, so kill time by shopping?
6/11/00 8:25 AM pat You wont have much time in Reno. It will be about 3:00 by the time she gets settled in and the dinner is at 6:30..7:00
6/11/00 8:24 AM BeanCount I hope so.... When I cancel, I'll tell her that the offer to go shopping in Reno is still open....
6/11/00 8:23 AM BeanCount ROFL, ROFL..... I predict escalating hostility... right up to the point when I change the ticket to a Sunday arrival...
6/11/00 8:23 AM pat that should be OK on a Saturday...
6/11/00 8:22 AM BeanCount Cool.... Unless you come to the airport, ya better figure on noon or so... Hafta go through the car rental hassle....
6/11/00 8:22 AM pat It might work if you and I walk around holding hands..and she just tags along
6/11/00 8:21 AM BeanCount If she mentions this me with you... I'm going to say that it sounds like too much planning.... LOL... (just kidding)
6/11/00 8:21 AM pat I havent even mentioned it to her yet....I thought up this disaster all by myself. Just now
6/11/00 8:19 AM BeanCount That'd be great if you want to get together? Like I said... getting in at around 11.... so lunch might be more like it. Let me ask you if this is your idea... or her way of making sure I don't come anywhere near her place? She can't get rid of Ad that day.... so maybe that is part of the problem? I'm just guessing....
6/11/00 8:16 AM BeanCount You've heard this kind of thing before when I was gonna come up right? By this I mean all negative comments.... She hates it when anything happens that is not TOTALLY her little bossy butt idea....
6/11/00 8:17 AM pat I'm only their reluctant messenger...that's what she told me....Maybe we can meet for breakfast when you come in...Sherry and I will meet you some place then I will disappear..You guys can go from there..I haven't asked Sherry about this.
6/11/00 8:15 AM BeanCount LIke I said If I can ever get to Hotmail... I'll forward exactly what I wrote, and what she wrote.....
6/11/00 8:14 AM BeanCount I have no Fucking idea what she even means by this planning everything bullshit..... I threw out various ideas of things to do.... shopping, movie, lunch, dinner.... just hanging around. she mentioned Saturday Market and breakfast. I mentioned no times... or specifics whatsoever. I think "planning" is some kind of code word....
6/11/00 8:12 AM pat I asked her if she planed on seeing you when you came up..I told her we talked about it...i said are you going shopping with him...She said you know i hate shopping for clothes with someone else..Remember what happened when you and I went....She also said he is trying to plan everything...Why can't he just come up and we'll see what happens
6/11/00 8:09 AM BeanCount Scheduled right now... for approx 11:00 on Saturday. Why do you suppose she was telling you this? How did it come up? Why can't she be honest with me?
6/11/00 8:07 AM pat so when are you coming up?
6/11/00 8:07 AM BeanCount "Just send money to Portland Gary.... not yourself...." Sex has NOTHING to do with it.... This time I was a tad smarter... purchased fully refundable airline tickets.... We'll see.
6/11/00 8:05 AM BeanCount I think that was Wednesday, and on Thursday and Friday we exchanged e-mails where all seemed to be OK. I still can't get to Hotmail, but if i could I could prove this. I predict that she will now change her mind...yet again... and start being hostile to my coming up there... period. .... more
6/11/00 8:03 AM BeanCount She told me the same thing about the clothes shopping.... and that is why I said OK, we'll do the other things, but not the shopping.. That was when she got all upset. I asked if it was OK to call just before I did. I'm sorry if she got in trouble at work (50/50 if that REALLY happened), but it wasn't me yelling on the phone.. more...
6/11/00 8:00 AM pat She doesn't like to go clothes shopping with someone else...We did it once it can be a hassle..to much bickering...She was also upset because you got her in trouble at work...I think she will meet you but doesn't want it to be a planed get together. My computer crashed too
6/11/00 7:59 AM BeanCount computer problems?
6/11/00 7:56 AM BeanCount cliffhanger???
6/11/00 7:46 AM pat I talked to Sherry yesterday
6/10/00 6:45 PM BeanCount It sounds good Pat.... and I agree silver is cheap. Update... she said to come on up on the 24th.... so we'll see...
6/10/00 2:29 PM pat I got your check today and 1 from Fly.. I found a bracelet..It has half moons, stars and suns on it..Gold. Silver or White gold? ..I'm leaning towards the white Gold..The silver looks cheap and is..
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jul 3, 2019 11:15:30 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/13/00 8:45 PM BeanCount good night...
6/13/00 8:44 PM pat I'm going to go relax for awhile Good night
6/13/00 8:43 PM BeanCount ok.... sorry. LOL... I feel strongly about this father thing. relates to my childhood.... long story.
6/13/00 8:42 PM pat don;t get me started on AD...
6/13/00 8:41 PM BeanCount strange situation... yet she refuses to take him to court. What lesson is that teaching Ad..... that men do not have to be responsible for their children?
6/13/00 8:38 PM pat I think he is only paying for part of it...He gave her 80.00 last week...not sure if that was brace money or child support
6/13/00 8:37 PM BeanCount I'll check it all out later.... How the heck did sherry get her X to pay for those braces... yet she needed money $143 for Ad's trip.... and he refused?
6/13/00 8:35 PM pat My response to Klatch...I was unsensitive to the Courtesans..I was joking but it might bite me
6/13/00 8:34 PM BeanCount flame attacks...
6/13/00 8:34 PM BeanCount ...maybe I'm just being too sensative...
6/13/00 8:34 PM BeanCount Tessa said something similar to me once......
6/13/00 8:33 PM pat I set my self up for flame attacts
6/13/00 8:32 PM pat I know Nikita had some concerns about him once about being to involved...she hasn't said anything in awhile about him though..
6/13/00 8:30 PM BeanCount At the time I had no idea what she was talking about..... but I guess my overnighter with her bothered him a bit. I don't know why, I'm a pretty "safe" trick.
6/13/00 8:29 PM BeanCount I noted some resentment on his part before. A year and a half later he was still talking about me trying to leave a muffin meeting to go party with his soon-to-be OTP. I left to party with someone else.... and did. Also when I met Nikita in kitty's she had just partied with him. she asked me then if it was normal for one of us to be resentful if another partied with her. More...
6/13/00 8:26 PM pat I took it with a grain of salt...He is a good writer but stretches the story for effect.. Yes I'm serious about parking lots..Its the easiest way if your just going to pick her up and go..I call her when I'm a few blocks away and she meets me out front.
6/13/00 8:24 PM BeanCount Store parking lot? Is that a joke? what did you make of dopey's post about me MONOPOLIZING Nikita's time at Kitty's? I've only partied with her there one time, back in first part of March.
6/13/00 8:22 PM pat My guess is she will meet you somewhere near her place in one of the store parking lots.
6/13/00 8:21 PM BeanCount I'll just honk the horn. Sherry seems the type that would appreciate that.
6/13/00 8:20 PM BeanCount Hey, don't look at me. I'm not doing any planning or analyzing. She'll know we talked about it... or not???
6/13/00 8:20 PM pat NIKITA's...sherrys is too but parking is a bitch
6/13/00 8:19 PM BeanCount Whose place is easy to find? I have a yahoo map to Sherry's, plus driving directions. It looks really easy to me.
6/13/00 8:20 PM pat I will see her Thursday probably..I may casually mention it to her..unless you don't want me to.
6/13/00 8:19 PM BeanCount I don't know what to tell you about your idea to drive Sherry somewhere to meet me on Saturday, and then have lunch. I don't want to get you into any trouble. If you are involved she may be less likely to flake out.... but I'm not sure if that would be a good thing or a bad thing. Helpful, aren't I?
6/13/00 8:18 PM pat her place is easy to find she gives good directions
6/13/00 8:17 PM BeanCount LOL.... I have a smaller screen..... 1/16 of an inch.
6/13/00 8:17 PM pat His 1st list was long..the latest one just list the 10 i know about.
6/13/00 8:16 PM BeanCount Has to be someone from Cowboy's list, or how would they know about it?
6/13/00 8:16 PM pat about 1/8 of an inch on the map..
6/13/00 8:15 PM BeanCount That's what I figured... I looked on an on-line map. Salem is how big?
6/13/00 8:15 PM pat someone named annonymous is donating too..I have No idea who that is.
6/13/00 8:14 PM BeanCount Cowboy will probably give some gift money I'd expect.
6/13/00 8:14 PM pat Its a easy drive...about 45 minutes
6/13/00 8:13 PM BeanCount Bring her on Sunday if I'm coming up that day. Actually I was joking about bringing her.... I'll probably call her tomorrow to discuss.... as I don't know whether I'm seeing her in Portland or in Salem. I don't mind the drive to Salem if it is convenient for her....
6/13/00 8:13 PM pat Its in my budget...I was surprised that some of the ones that started the whole thing..Have kind of dropped to the way side...Cowboy will help with the travel but did not mention any gift help..Fly sent me 105.00 for travel and gift.
6/13/00 8:11 PM BeanCount If you need more from me... don't hesitate to ask... now or in Reno, or Portland... or whenever/wherever.
6/13/00 8:11 PM pat did you say bring Nikita on Sunday or Saturday....I don't mind but Id have to see how she feels about it.
6/13/00 8:10 PM BeanCount I'll plan the event right down to the last second. LOL... If I ever get my Hotmail back.... I'm going to send you every communication we had about me coming up there.... except the phone call. She and I haven't said anything about it since last Friday.
6/13/00 8:09 PM pat yes! most were in the 20.00 to 50.00 catagory...I am putting in whatever it takes to get what i found plus the $200.00 gift cert.
6/13/00 8:09 PM BeanCount If I come up Sunday, then you could meet me at the airport or somewhere for lunch then. Bring Nikita with you. :-)
6/13/00 8:08 PM BeanCount Wow... ten names?? Yet you still put in $200, and me $100....
6/13/00 8:08 PM pat you can spend an hour with me, but don't be analizing it..LOL
6/13/00 8:07 PM BeanCount NO, she hasn't agreed to anything I suggested.... Said I was planning too much, and should just come up and see what happens. I asked her repeatedly if it would be more like two hours (not worth the car rental and hotel bill) or five or seven hours. She refused to answer....
6/13/00 8:07 PM pat there are 10 names to fit on the plaque...also
6/13/00 8:05 PM BeanCount The "Nikita only" tickets allow me to not have to cool my heals in Portland for 24 hours if Sherry flakes.... Not sure it's smart to wait to the last minute to buy those, and then find that the plane is full on Sunday.
6/13/00 8:05 PM pat Has she agreed to the lunches..am I left out..SOB SOB
6/13/00 8:03 PM BeanCount OK, I'll e-mail you tonight.
6/13/00 8:03 PM BeanCount I first bought tickets to arrive Saturday at 11 or so and return Monday around 3. those are the "Sherry" tickets, and allow for taking her to lunch on Monday. These tickets are fully refundable. I haven't done it yet, but think I should reserve tickets to arrive Sunday (same time) and come back a bit earlier on Monday. Then I'll get a refund on what tickets I don't use.
6/13/00 8:03 PM pat I have very limited room....I need to know if you have some changes soon...I checked all the Trophy stores..None had any customized plaques..unless you want to wait 3 weeks and pay $200.00..! store had one star in the shop..said he would let me have it for approximately $35.00
6/13/00 8:01 PM BeanCount The wording is the part I would like to think about more.
6/13/00 8:01 PM pat no, when are you coming? I haven't talked to sherry about it either
6/13/00 8:00 PM BeanCount I guess we're getting along OK. I still halfway expect her to flake out, both when I'm coming up.... and at CWMC4 when she gets around her whore buddies. did I tell you my plan on my air tickets to come up?
6/13/00 7:59 PM pat only 2 responses plus you..they both said LOVE is better than like
6/13/00 7:58 PM BeanCount When did you originally send the e-mail out?
6/13/00 7:58 PM pat are you and sherry getting along better now. I sent the Email out monday
6/13/00 7:57 PM BeanCount I will not make you go up by yourself...
6/13/00 7:57 PM pat I'll make yours XXXXX..I haven't asked them and they haven't volunteered any special request... My biggest concern about the whole thing is how we are going to present it..NO volunteers so far
6/13/00 7:56 PM BeanCount I still regret not just going with XXXXX. XXXXX btw is a nickname... it's not my legal name.
6/13/00 7:55 PM BeanCount Are you playing devil's advocate? Ask them how they want their name. If they all say XXXXX.... then you can make me be BC XXXXX.
6/13/00 7:54 PM pat Ib is Ib whenever I see him... I'm the only honest one of the bunch...Pat is Pat
6/13/00 7:54 PM BeanCount NO, Fly is Flyfisher....
6/13/00 7:53 PM BeanCount I guess I mostly do too.... but one on one I use real names. So if I'm out to dinner with IB for example, I always call him Mark. Exception may be Fly. I always call him Fly.... except when we talk in ICQ. It gets weird doesn't it?
6/13/00 7:52 PM pat Cowboy is a XXXXX too..XXXXX 3
6/13/00 7:52 PM pat fly is a XXXXX too..should I make it XXXXX 1 and XXXXX 2
6/13/00 7:50 PM BeanCount The way Nikita and I met... plus the time in LV put us on the real names basis. When you are standing there checking in at a big hotel like that, you have to use the real names... You refer to me as XXXXX around Sherry?
6/13/00 7:51 PM pat sometimes if AD isn't there..depends..mostly when I talk about board people i use handles
6/13/00 7:49 PM pat I think..not sure yet..I wont get that for a couple of weeks
6/13/00 7:47 PM BeanCount Well it sounds nice Pat.... Are you going to use cash for the gift cert.?
6/13/00 7:48 PM pat I refer to you has XXXXX, especially around Nikita..She knows too many XXXXX No im going to charge card it.
6/13/00 7:46 PM BeanCount yes.... Nikita asked me how I thought of her.... what name.... her real name or Nikita.... I said it depended, and I flip/flop on it. I asked her how she thought of me. She said XXXXX.... because BeanCount sounds dumb. Sherry always calls me XXXXXX.. but I guess when she talks to you.... or around Ad then I am BeanCount.
6/13/00 7:46 PM pat none of the stores had any in stock...I had to order from the catalog
6/13/00 7:45 PM pat I will pick it up tomorrow...Yes its basically bought...Only about 2 stores out of 7 even had any with that style...Only one or 2 with white gold
6/13/00 7:44 PM BeanCount Did you buy it yet? Crescent moons and stars might be better???
6/13/00 7:43 PM pat are you sure?
6/13/00 7:43 PM BeanCount List my name as XXXX.... Nikita says BeanCount sounds dumb.
6/13/00 7:43 PM pat I didnt get the original Bracelet..They couldn't get it in White Gold..I got one that is all smiley Suns...with gold on the outside and white gold for the sun faces
6/13/00 7:41 PM BeanCount I have it... and read it. Let me think about this some and get back to you. My first impressions are all good. Shouldn't I stay in my seat, so that she has a shoulder to cry on?
6/13/00 7:38 PM BeanCount OK... I'll go look.
6/13/00 7:37 PM pat Its on its way
6/13/00 7:34 PM BeanCount Try XXXXX@XXXXXX
6/13/00 7:33 PM pat xxxx mail
6/13/00 7:33 PM BeanCount Where did you send it.... I cannot access xxxxmail since last Thursday.
6/13/00 7:32 PM pat did you get my Email
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jul 4, 2019 12:39:50 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count 6/15/00 9:49 PM BeanCount ok, good night.
6/15/00 9:48 PM pat guys....I have to get going talk to ya later
6/15/00 9:48 PM BeanCount "tricks" as in guys.... or ??
6/15/00 9:47 PM pat mostly that is what she tells me about..She has mentioned a few things about some tricks she has.
6/15/00 9:45 PM BeanCount ok.... damn I hope she lied to you for my benefit !!!! She never really said much to me about any sexual aspects... I didn't mean that at all.... just personalities, and somewhat looks and such.
6/15/00 9:42 PM BeanCount Sounds like a "stormy" relationship. Well, she's a great gal...
6/15/00 9:42 PM pat Yes! she tells me quite a bit about her clients..she has talked about Fly ..Its a long story I don't want to attempt to explain it here.
6/15/00 9:41 PM BeanCount He thinks he's going to get a big promotion and raise, and spend it all on her..... blah, blah, blah. Are any of his war stories true? does she ever talk about other clients to you? don't want to tread where i shouldn't here, but I don't think Fly is exactly her type. LOL... Not that any of us are....
6/15/00 9:40 PM pat she breaks up with him every time she leaves but then they get back together when she comes home...
6/15/00 9:39 PM BeanCount He says she broke up with her boyfriend. Kewl, she'll get another boyfriend. Am I weird to take some comfort that she has a boyfriend.... that she has a "normal" life. I find it to be one of the things that makes her attractive.
6/15/00 9:38 PM pat He's a character..I think he talks a better outdate than he actually has...He may take her out on one but ..I think he dreams more than acts.
6/15/00 9:37 PM BeanCount ok... talking to Fly. He rambles on and on about Nikita. He's going to take her on all these outdates.... etc. Is he living in a fantasy world?
6/15/00 9:35 PM pat yes!..I'm trying to get caught up on the board..and write a post..
6/15/00 9:34 PM BeanCount are you still there?
6/15/00 9:30 PM BeanCount I know.... Pat ya had to be with me there in that hotel last July to understand fully. She is always telling me she's my friend.... but she cannot be trusted, and would do the same thing again.... You're right though, and I know it... so it will probably be Saturday unless there is "trouble" between now and then.
6/15/00 9:27 PM pat thats Sherry
6/15/00 9:27 PM BeanCount thank you.... Just paranoid about how she gets sometimes when it's not all her idea or plan.
6/15/00 9:26 PM pat I wont.
6/15/00 9:25 PM BeanCount I didn't think it would be a big deal either.... Really stunned by that phone call, and the e-mails that day. You are probably right, just come up and see what happens..... I'm still not going to bring up the subject though..... I have tickets for Saturday or Sunday, but don't tell her this....
6/15/00 9:22 PM pat It seems to me it would only be natural for you 2 to meet..I didn't figure it would be that big of a deal...I guess the best thing is to just come up and see what happens
6/15/00 9:21 PM BeanCount I had asked her some specific questions.... like what City, and how best to contact her, etc.
6/15/00 9:20 PM BeanCount I guess you can tell I'm pessimistic about Saturday? Trying not to be, but truthfully I'm regretting the whole idea. I thought it would be rude of me to come up there, and not even tell Sherry about it... or offer to visit some. Everything that happened after I brought it up makes me think that my thinking that (that it would be rude) was wrong.
6/15/00 9:17 PM pat i'm jeolous...i checked my E mail..none from Nikita
6/15/00 9:16 PM BeanCount The e-mail from Nikita says they didn't tell her I called, and she doesn't know why they didn't let me talk to her. She prefers that I come to Salem, and will recommend a hotel when she gets home on Wednesday late night. Doesn't mention any time to get together.
6/15/00 9:13 PM pat I want to get home right after lunch...get a few things done at home and relax before I go see Nikita.
6/15/00 9:12 PM BeanCount so conceivably Sherry will want you to go shopping and etc. also? or do you plan to make a break for it? Just kidding... Just checked e-mail.... and I have one from Nikita!!! I'll be right back....
6/15/00 9:10 PM BeanCount That sounds fine to me. You said Ad was there.... so I guess I was BeanCount? LOL.... Gets complicated...
6/15/00 9:10 PM pat I will leave around 4:00 or 5:00...I haven't talked or heard from her since June7th..She sent me a happy birthday wish
6/15/00 9:08 PM BeanCount What time will you be needing to leave for your Nikita appointment?
6/15/00 9:09 PM pat She mentioned it to me 1st tonight..I said "OH! he is coming up to see you..Are you going to lunch?..Do you want me to come along ? either way is fine with me..She said sure you should come.
6/15/00 9:07 PM BeanCount Just so you know.... Sherry has not mentioned me coming up there since last Friday... and neither have I to her. You and I have talked about it ten times as much. LOL....
6/15/00 9:06 PM BeanCount Her last message to me (lost now) said she would be checking it today, but her XXXXXXXX@mail may be messed up also? I sent the message to her today using Yahoo. I called the house yesterday, but they said I would have to call on the regular line.... but I couldn't do that from here. I don't know whether she knows I called or not.
6/15/00 9:03 PM BeanCount I got my XXXXX@mail back... but it's all fucked up.... and everything after June 2 is completely gone....
6/15/00 9:03 PM pat She may not check her Email until she gets back home..I think she has Thursdays off..She may be able to check her mail today.
6/15/00 9:02 PM BeanCount Right now I'm not sure when or where I am meeting Nikita. Whether I arrive Saturday or Sunday, it's the same flight, and arrives at 10:55 am in Portland. I sent Nikita an e-mail, but no response so far....
6/15/00 9:01 PM BeanCount The question that I asked that she went off on and was accusing me of planning and over-analyzing was how much time she wanted to spend "hanging out." My specific question was would it be closer to two hours.... or 5 hours or seven hours.... No answer, just a lot of yelling on the phone. After the call, I didn't figure I was coming at all.
6/15/00 9:01 PM pat We can...I usually leave Nikitas around 11:00..We get up and go to breakfast then I take her home and head back...I'm not sure when you 2 are meeting but I could meet you somewhere after that.
6/15/00 8:59 PM BeanCount Well, we'll see whether she does or doesn't. I'm not coming up on Saturday for a lunch and an hour of shopping..... then cool my heels in a hotel for 24 hours.... I already have a plane ticket to come up Sunday. If that happens, then we can still have lunch. To be honest I was hoping you and I could talk alone for a bit...
6/15/00 8:56 PM pat I guess I am...I figure she was planing on asking you about it..We couldn't talk much Ad was their..
6/15/00 8:54 PM BeanCount Sherry and I never agreed to have lunch. to do so would have been planning.... I've got tongue in cheek here, but i"m telling you the literal truth. So who is inviting me to this lunch... and when will they do so?
6/15/00 8:53 PM pat Yes and No..I asked if she wanted me to join you for lunch..She said sure.
6/15/00 8:52 PM BeanCount Why do I have to do that? Did you invite yourself....
6/15/00 8:51 PM pat The good news.. I say she will see you on the 24th The bad news.. You will probably have to have lunch with me tagging along
6/15/00 8:50 PM BeanCount update?
6/14/00 7:15 PM BeanCount I'm watching it now. Good game, Indiana ahead by a little.
6/14/00 7:14 PM BeanCount Too late.... already answered.
6/14/00 7:14 PM pat Im going to go watch the Basketball game
6/14/00 7:14 PM BeanCount NO!!! I was referring to June 24. What I expect to happen is Sherry will come up with something else to do that day.... or only will want to spend a couple hours.... Not worth the rental car and hotel.....
6/14/00 7:13 PM pat never mind I can't read
6/14/00 7:12 PM pat are you thinking of backing out of CWM4..Does this mean I get 2 dates for the dinner
6/14/00 7:10 PM BeanCount thank you again. LOL...
6/14/00 7:10 PM BeanCount I think CWMC4 is a good bet at this point. She'd need an awfully good excuse to flake out on that. The 24th is 50/50.... either one of us could back out of that.
6/14/00 7:09 PM pat (1-888-MS-KITTY
6/14/00 7:08 PM pat I don't know if Sherry will show up for CWM4 or meet you on the 24th
6/14/00 7:08 PM BeanCount Is there anything you DON'T know? LOL....
6/14/00 7:07 PM pat i don't have it go to Abs site I think it's posted or www.nvbrothels.com/ratings.htm
6/14/00 7:06 PM BeanCount I thought it would be even later than that.... Thought she was working Kitty's on the 19th... Monday.... If I could get to XXXXXX@mail... oh never mind. will try to call her at Kitty's. Do you remember if they have an 800 number. I think they do.
6/14/00 7:03 PM pat she wont be home until Sunday or Monday
6/14/00 7:03 PM BeanCount What a pal !!!! thank you Pat.
6/14/00 7:02 PM pat xxx-xxx-xxxx
6/14/00 7:02 PM BeanCount Yes, but if you are reluctant, that's ok.... I'll ask her in an e-mail.
6/14/00 7:01 PM pat you want her home phone number?
6/14/00 7:00 PM BeanCount OK, thanks.... I've lost all my e-mail address with the loss of my Hotmail account. That's where I had her telephone number also from an e-mail she sent me. I'll ask her for it again.
6/14/00 6:59 PM pat XXXXXXXXXX@XXXXXXX.com
6/14/00 6:57 PM BeanCount oh, before you ask.... no news on the travel front. I may call Nikita after a while to see where and when she wants to meet up. Also I will send her an e-mail just to give her my Yahoo address. Still no xxxxxxxx.mail Is her address XXXXXXXX@XXXXXXXX.com ?
6/14/00 6:55 PM BeanCount yes, yes it is....
6/14/00 6:54 PM pat no problem..I love this shit...It's like Christmas in July
6/14/00 6:53 PM BeanCount You did good.... You're going to be in trouble for all this planning.... but nevertheless you did good. I mean this.... thanks once again for doing all the "legwork".
6/14/00 6:51 PM pat actually it will be Gary..and I used LOVE
6/14/00 6:51 PM BeanCount That won't work.... better change it to dummie.
6/14/00 6:50 PM pat I will get the Plaque on the 21th...I decided to use dumb shit for your name
6/14/00 6:49 PM BeanCount good **PLANNING** Pat.... LOL...
6/14/00 6:48 PM pat i think she will like it..Its nice but not too fancy or gaudy...Plus it's exchangeable
6/14/00 6:47 PM BeanCount I magnified it.... but it gets blurry. I'm sure it is very nice Pat.
6/14/00 6:46 PM pat sun faces
6/14/00 6:46 PM BeanCount what is in the middle of each round part?
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jul 5, 2019 12:18:46 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/18/00 6:52 PM BeanCount I owe Pat a lunch... well actually a dinner, but???
6/18/00 6:51 PM BeanCount There was one further line that I wrote.... that she also did not respond to... It's coming.
6/18/00 6:51 PM BeanCount NO, then you have both misinterpreted what I said... I assumed you would bring her to the airport.... we'd eat there (or somewhere else if you want to drive) then come back so I can rent a car. (XXX) XXX-XXXX
6/18/00 6:49 PM pat she didn;t say you didn't like it..she just said you had to get a car...I think she understood that to mean you would meet us some place....She told me almost exactly what you forwarded..I interpeted that to mean you want to get a car 1st.
6/18/00 6:47 PM BeanCount I don't know where I am staying.... or even which city. I NEVER said anything about needing to rent a car FIRST. She never responded at all to me saying I needed to get a rental car. I have been assuming this meant lunch somewhere at the airport, and I never indicated that you two meeting me at the airport wasn't a good idea, or that I didn't like it in ANY way. (xxx) xxx-xxxx
6/18/00 6:44 PM pat we didn't talk about it beyond that...I would suggest that maybe we meet where your staying...Do they have a restaurant
6/18/00 6:43 PM BeanCount uhhh.... I'm arriving at the airport.... you're meeting me at the airport.... the car rental place is at the airport.... and I need to rent a car at some point.... How's about you describe the sequence of events.... I'm open to anything.
6/18/00 6:40 PM BeanCount How do you get something about me not wanting to out of that?
6/18/00 6:41 PM pat thats pretty much what she told me....She was under the impression you wanted to rent the car 1st....that's what the messages sound like too.. I was quoting her..she said about the same thing to me
6/18/00 6:39 PM BeanCount Sherry (ICQ#13072320) Wrote: I guess we are...we'll talk about it later
6/18/00 6:39 PM BeanCount kewl.... and the two of you are meeting me at the airport next weekend?
6/18/00 6:39 PM BeanCount Well I need to rent a car. at some point.
6/18/00 6:39 PM BeanCount oh....
6/18/00 6:39 PM BeanCount Sherry (ICQ#13072320) Wrote: I guess pat and I will pick you up
6/18/00 6:38 PM BeanCount return Monday.... I forget the time.... 3 or 3:30 or something like that.
6/18/00 6:38 PM BeanCount Sherry (ICQ#13072320) Wrote: cool ok
6/18/00 6:38 PM BeanCount I have an airline ticket... scheduled to arrive at PDX at 10:55 am.
6/18/00 6:38 PM BeanCount Sherry (ICQ#13072320) Wrote: so what's the plan for next weekend?
6/18/00 6:37 PM BeanCount I never said I didn't want to do that.... I asked if that was the plan.... and she said we would talk about it later.... I'll forward what was said. Hang on... I hate stupid secrets....
6/18/00 6:35 PM pat So what is the plan Saturday..She said she offered to have her and I pick you up at the airport, but you didn't want to do that
6/18/00 6:34 PM BeanCount I think I already know anyway.... could be wrong..... but I bet it came from Woodrow.
6/18/00 6:34 PM BeanCount I'd tell you....
6/18/00 6:34 PM BeanCount she never actually asked for the money btw.... just several comments about being ashamed and embarrassed about her hair.... then a couple comments to make me feel guilty because I had to leave and pick up my wife at the airport. This was at 5:00 on Friday.
6/18/00 6:32 PM BeanCount When trying to get the money from me, she said she had already asked you, and you didn't have any cash on you thursday evening.... Also said AD had none....
6/18/00 6:32 PM pat I promised I wouldn't tell..If she tells you something and you promise not to..would you still tell
6/18/00 6:31 PM BeanCount I don't keep secrets from you....
6/18/00 6:30 PM pat secret
6/18/00 6:30 PM BeanCount Where'd she get the money?
6/18/00 6:29 PM pat she go it done...she put it in tails for today...its actually real curly
6/18/00 6:28 PM BeanCount pigtails? she wanted me to send money so she could get her hair done yesterday....
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jul 6, 2019 10:57:11 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/21/00 7:40 PM BeanCount yah... right..... I've said nothing at all until today.... she told me about the lunch with you... of course I knew that was coming. LOL... wanna call?
6/21/00 7:39 PM pat pretty much..She said you were pressuring her too much
6/21/00 7:39 PM BeanCount did she tell you it is not happening on Saturday?
6/21/00 7:38 PM BeanCount If you call me, I'll just click through and read them to you.....
6/21/00 7:38 PM BeanCount Morning??? My plane would have gotten in at 11. She told me the same thing about the matinee.... she needed to get rid of the dinner with me, and move the movie that would have been even later to go to this party. What she told me was that was because Ad didn't want to go over to his Dad's place... Good lord Pat, will she stop the lies after I send this e-mail? I will send you the ENTIRE e-mail exchange for today.
6/21/00 7:35 PM pat she was telling me that she planned on going to a matnee with you and spend the morning together, but she had to be home by 5..She didn't say why
6/21/00 7:33 PM BeanCount No problemo... re-writing some... but the message is still the same... Specifically mentioning that she didn't need to treat a friend this way just to get a few clothes.... Feeling like a mean guy.... not nice.
6/21/00 7:31 PM pat i was on the phone
6/21/00 7:20 PM BeanCount I think the friend's name is Susan. I know its's not Cindy or sandra or vickie.
6/21/00 7:18 PM BeanCount I was wondering if you thought what I said was too harsh... sherry thinks I'm upset about not coming up on Saturday. As you know, I'm not, and sorta expected that all along. What gets me is she was gonna have me come up there 24 hours early, only to spend20+ hours in a hotel sitting around. then the lies started.... those two things are what bother me.
6/21/00 7:11 PM BeanCount Haven't checked mail for Nikita yet.....
6/21/00 7:10 PM pat ok Im eating right now i'll check later...Have you heard from Nikita yet?
6/21/00 7:09 PM BeanCount I just sent the latest DRAFT of an e-mail I'm THINKING about sending to her right now. I'm going to put together a Word file.... and send that to you.... but I may not get done with that til late tonight.
6/21/00 7:07 PM pat so your sending to me it in the morning?? when are you sending it to her.
6/21/00 7:06 PM BeanCount I don't know,I doubt it. Look I knew immediately that message wasn't for me, but I read it anyway, then deleted it out of a guilty conscience. An hour later that didn't stop me from playing "footsie with her" You'll see later... or tomorrow. I'll put together a file. I am not a nice person at times., but the evasiveness and then the lies got to me. I've never called her on a lie before, so she probably wonders where I'm coming from.
6/21/00 7:02 PM BeanCount Yes, I know.... ok... sending now.
6/21/00 7:02 PM pat do you think she knows she fucked up
6/21/00 7:01 PM BeanCount It responds to her e-mail point by point.... sorta like Curious does it sometimes...
6/21/00 7:01 PM pat she's on line now.
6/21/00 7:01 PM BeanCount ok... sending a DRAFT e-mail to your Hotmail. easy728@hotmail.com I haven't sent this to Sherry.... yet.
6/21/00 7:00 PM pat yes
6/21/00 6:59 PM BeanCount You still there?
6/21/00 6:50 PM BeanCount name slips my mind right now.... I don't care if she goes to a party or not.... none of my business, but she was going to leave me "high and dry" up there cooling my heels.... and for what reason.... just to get some lousy clothes? what got me was the lies... using Ad as her excuse... Hell, I'll send the whole exchange to you.
6/21/00 6:47 PM pat this is weird...She hasn't mentioned a thing to me..I think I know who the friend is.
6/21/00 6:46 PM BeanCount In this next e-mail I'm going to let her know that she sent it to me....
6/21/00 6:46 PM BeanCount Not sure what the party is about.... she just referred to it as a big party out in the country.... and was trying to talk her friend.... the name slips my mind... into going.... she ended it by saying that if it turned out not to be fun, they could just leave and go somewhere else. she sent it by MISTAKE, and apparently doesn't know she sent it to me. I played dumb... until the lies just got to me.... More...
6/21/00 6:43 PM pat whats this party about..did she say she doesn't want to meet you now...Why did she send it to you?
6/21/00 6:42 PM BeanCount Yeah an uh oh.... I'm drafting this.... may send it to you to see if you think I'm too harsh...
6/21/00 6:41 PM BeanCount what brought this on was an e-mail that sherry wrote to a co-worker this morning... trying to convince this gal to go to some big party Saturday afternoon/evening/night. I'm not sure of the times... anyhow Sherry sent the e-mail to me.... My hands aren't clean, as i played dumb, as I call it footsie with Sherry about it today.... I'll probably put together a file on this.
6/21/00 6:40 PM pat is this an OH OH
6/21/00 6:39 PM BeanCount Looks good.... My CWMC4 status is a bit up in the air possibly. Also, it turns out that you don't have a lunch commitment on Saturday. I'm writing an e-mail now to send in response to the series of e-mails sherry and I exchanged today. more....
6/21/00 6:36 PM BeanCount I have the e-mail.... reading 'n looking.
6/21/00 6:36 PM BeanCount ok... sometimes takes a while between Yahoo and Hotmail.
6/21/00 6:35 PM pat just now
6/21/00 6:35 PM BeanCount I was just there... nothing new? When did you send it?
6/21/00 6:34 PM pat you have mail yahoo account
6/20/00 9:08 PM BeanCount ok Pat.... Good night.... as far as I know Saturday is still on.
6/20/00 9:07 PM BeanCount going off-line for a couple of minutes. I'll be right back...
6/20/00 9:07 PM pat I'm going to crash..I didn't get home till about 8:30 tonight..Kinda tired..My big job is over now....FAR OUT!!!!
6/20/00 9:05 PM BeanCount You're right..... I just keep hoping for a soft landing for her.... I can't visualize it at all..... but still keep hoping. I had hoped to be around in some manner to see her "make it"..... but have my doubts about that....
6/20/00 9:03 PM pat I don't have any answers for that...She may have to hit bottom before she realizes that commitment, planing and dedication are important...Things don't come instantly..We all have to pay dues..She started out late and had a rough life, but that doesn't matter to employers...
6/20/00 8:59 PM BeanCount I've wondered about that. Does she have the type of personality that can stick with anything very long? She needs to be someplace where these type of things aren't so critical.... some artsy fartsy type place. In many ways Sherry is still a rebellious teenager. The question is will she ever grow out of it.
6/20/00 8:55 PM BeanCount UncleBob is now posting URL's to gay sites.... Our boy is inching his way.... ever so slowly.... out of the closet. LOL....
6/20/00 8:55 PM pat I have told her the same thing...The problem is No matter where she goes 6month from now it will be the same thing...At 1st she will say its great and she likes it..Then things will get hard or not go the way she wants. Then she will be right whre she is today..hating the job..She needs to change her attitude not jobs
6/20/00 8:53 PM BeanCount I agree.... Pat, what could happen that would make her happy? She hates where she's at.... so I've encouraged her to be looking..... but not to quit the current job until/unless she has something lined up.
6/20/00 8:51 PM pat Her problem will be if she looses this job, it doesn't matter how good her resume is...Her track record of changing jobs every 3 to 6 month...will hurt her...If she leaves this job with bad feelings that will also hurt her chances of getting hired by someone else.
6/20/00 8:48 PM BeanCount I don't know how or where she did the resume, but she is really proud of how it looks.... the colors, the paper, etc.... she sent me a fax of it one time, but none of that was apparent. It was a nice looking, well worded resume.... very professional.
6/20/00 8:45 PM pat I know...she is pushing the limit with her boss...She could be in big trouble if she was doing the resume on company computers and paper and on company time.
6/20/00 8:44 PM BeanCount The way it's going lately, she'll either quit or be fired before then. She had a bad interview today, played hookie, plus had a co-worker rifle her desk and blab to people that she's looking for a new job... Not a good day for her...
6/20/00 8:41 PM pat so do you think sherry will get fired before or after CWM
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jul 6, 2019 15:18:05 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
6/24/00 2:13 PM pat ok 6/24/00 2:13 PM BeanCount I should get off here also.... Have fun Pat.... and I'll see you tomorrow.
6/24/00 2:12 PM pat yes but not for long
6/24/00 2:11 PM BeanCount still here?
6/24/00 2:04 PM BeanCount Great!!!! I figured it would be. She sounded fine on Thursday.
6/24/00 2:03 PM BeanCount Btw she told the other girl 8pm on that party.... so she lied a small lie to you also... Either way Ad is at his dad's place. LOL You're right though, I wasn't gonna come up if she wanted to limit the time... regardless of the reason. the lies just ticked me off... and led to the escalating anger and words, etc. 6/24/00 2:03 PM pat just talked to Nikita...everything is kool
6/24/00 1:59 PM BeanCount ok... I imagine we'll be talking about that in Salem. I don't know what I'm going to do.... have thought of several different possibilities.
6/24/00 1:58 PM pat sounds good to me...Fly is going to help with the sherry presentation
6/24/00 1:57 PM BeanCount I hear ya.... LOL... Want to try to meet at the Comfort suites.... then go somewhere to eat and/or drink coffee?
6/24/00 1:56 PM pat Dam!! and I was hoping we would be doing some flying tonight...LOL
6/24/00 1:55 PM BeanCount When I talked to her on Thursday on the telephone she said she was feeling much better already, except for one ear was plugged. She had a prescription for that,and said she'd be fine, but didn't want to fly for a while.
6/24/00 1:53 PM BeanCount I sent the e-mail to Nikita yesterday....
6/24/00 1:53 PM pat Oh he seemed concerned about her being able to see me this weekend, because of her being sick
6/24/00 1:52 PM BeanCount No, nothing from Motoman... he doesn't have my e-mail address.
6/24/00 1:51 PM BeanCount I have a reervation at Comfort Suites, and will drive there once I get a car. they told me normal check-in time is after 2 pm.
6/24/00 1:51 PM pat I just called her..No answer..Did you get an Email from Steve(motoman)
6/24/00 1:50 PM BeanCount I'll call Nikita's place when I get to PDX. I sent her an e-mail regarding this... but no reply so far.
6/24/00 1:49 PM pat So what's the plan for sunday
6/23/00 6:38 PM BeanCount I have a reservation at the Comfort Suites, and I e-mailed Nikita that I would call her place when I arrive at PDX. Comfort Suites informed me that normal check-in time is 2 pm or later. That should work out well.
6/22/00 8:22 PM BeanCount ok... hang on.
6/22/00 8:21 PM BeanCount she wouldn't mind if you changed it.... and you went to her place...
6/22/00 8:21 PM pat call now..all i get is a busy signal
6/22/00 8:21 PM BeanCount ok... she was expecting company when I hung up.
6/22/00 8:17 PM pat I'm just getting ready to call Nikita...call in about 15 min. xxx xxx xxxx
6/22/00 8:17 PM BeanCount I just talked to Nikita on the telephone.... she told me about her e-mail to you... Now I'd like to talk to you..... and on my nickel this time. What is your telephone number? when is a good time to call?
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