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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 12, 2019 11:24:50 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
4/16/00 8:52 PM BeanCount good night Pat and thanks for all the advice. I think you actually convinced me that I'm not going insane. These things are really happening. LOL... Talk to you later.
4/16/00 8:51 PM pat I will but im not booking anything until after I see her on the 6th..then we can talki it out....and I can get a commitment from her for sure. Im going to bag it for tonight..The fumes from that pool gave me a headache...I didn't go in but just watching the clorine was potent Good night
4/16/00 8:49 PM BeanCount I have it!!!! she just needed me to say that I like her better than Nikita. That's all it was. Except it doesn't explain the dancing.....
4/16/00 8:48 PM BeanCount I think you need to go ahead and book those two nights like you planned. I'll explain to Nikita about Saturday, and talk to her about Sunday. All bets are off if something new happens though... LOL...
4/16/00 8:46 PM pat Im giving up on the whole thing....Its all to confussing...what ever happens will happen...My only real concern right now is that Nikita and I are together at cwm4
4/16/00 8:46 PM BeanCount Yeah, then we'd be back to I'm treating her like a whore. Kind of a vicious cycle ya think? Oh well, it keeps life interesting.... I find it interesting that she wants to keep you (or is it me, or both of us) in the dark.
4/16/00 8:44 PM BeanCount I cut her too much slack. I know that's what you're thinking, and I know you're right. When she said she felt before that she had to sleep with me, I wanted to ask... "then why weren't you?" Glad I didn't....
4/16/00 8:43 PM pat My guess is that she wont pay you back...If you push it she might but then that will really throw a curve into the CWM4 thing
4/16/00 8:41 PM BeanCount She has no idea about the PRINCIPLE of not re-paying me that. Her whole attitude is that I don't need the money. That's true.... but misses the point.
4/16/00 8:40 PM BeanCount Tthen she better be nice to me.... j/k.... sorta.... LOL...
4/16/00 8:39 PM pat she spent 50.00 at the swimming thing today
4/16/00 8:39 PM pat she still needs 300.00 by june 1 for the futton
4/16/00 8:38 PM BeanCount cool.... good for her. I'm obviously not holding my breath on the other $115 she owes me., or any of the rest of the "loans". we talked about that the other day and she said she spent all of the refund. she indicated she MIGHT pay me from the Oregon refund. She should get that before too long.
4/16/00 8:36 PM pat All the ones that she had up sold...I dont think Ads sold...The one I wanted sold...
4/16/00 8:35 PM BeanCount sold all of them? I thought a couple expired with no bids.
4/16/00 8:34 PM BeanCount I knew she'd clean.....
4/16/00 8:34 PM pat she also sold all her paintings
4/16/00 8:33 PM pat she did have the house looking a lot better today...
4/16/00 8:33 PM BeanCount me a working girl? No..... I'll read the board later. who made the post? I was joking about the dancing.... in case you and I end up alone. j/k....
4/16/00 8:31 PM BeanCount Do you know how to dance?
4/16/00 8:32 PM pat did you see the post about you being a working girl. No i dont dance.....she mentioned not knowing how to do the 2 step today..Her dad was dancing with her and that what he does
4/16/00 8:30 PM pat As the Sherry turns...Tune in tomorrow will sherry go dancing..will bc get layed..will it be nikita or sherry....will nikita and sherry get a room and leave pat and BC all alone.
4/16/00 8:28 PM BeanCount Btw, how'd ya like my back tracking in that conversation? Like I said it's a bit embarrassing.... but what the hell... LOL...
4/16/00 8:27 PM BeanCount Sherry and I thrashed this all out in January.... and agreed we weren't going to have sex with each other. There has been NO talk about it until that conversation Friday. Now she wants to go dancing? It's like the Twilight Zone.
4/16/00 8:25 PM BeanCount She was in a good mood because I still love her? I don't think so. Pat I don't know what to say. she is either lying to me, or what.... I don't know... and for what reason? For some reason she doesn't want you, or anyone, to think that we had a "fling". I don't understand that either, since at one time she was pretty obvious about it on the board.
4/16/00 8:23 PM pat Yes! do tell nikita...she might be counting on the money this will give her time to make plans.
4/16/00 8:22 PM BeanCount I see what you are saying about Sunday, but if I do that it wouldn't be an overnighter, as I should get home that day, though I could get home late, and that would be ok. That is a good plan.... I don't know why, but I'm sort of expecting trouble... LOL.... I will explain the whole thing to Nikita.
4/16/00 8:22 PM pat what is strange to me is that she talks about being sad and feeling hemmed in..but when I talk to her that same day she is happy and everything is fine...that night she was in a great mood..She also has been in one all weekend...Im going to go pick up her friend on tuesday night..
4/16/00 8:19 PM BeanCount Believe me that was a strange conversation on Friday. So strange that I e-mailed it to myself so I could look at it later, and try to decipher it. Given the fact that she told you I was paying her $1,000 for an overnighter.... I guess nothing should surprize me. LOL....
4/16/00 8:19 PM pat I think that you should not book with Nikita for Sat...Because if sherry is available you will find yourself in a bind...Just book her for Sunday
4/16/00 8:17 PM BeanCount Cool.... let them pay for it, except I already told Cowboy he could count on me..... plus I told you the same. I'm good for it either way.... but maybe don't tell Sherry. Yep, I guess I'll have to ask her directly about Saturday. I will bet you right now that she will shift right back into the "you are pressuring me" mode again.
4/16/00 8:15 PM BeanCount Cowboy told me about Woodrow also.
4/16/00 8:14 PM pat The plan is to buy a room and ticket friday flight coming home on Sunday....the only people I know about are fly and Cowboy.
4/16/00 8:13 PM BeanCount Who all is in on buying her the ticket? I know of Fly, Woodrow & Cowboy. Are they springing for a room also?
4/16/00 8:13 PM pat I think you should probably get sherry to commit one way or the other..then if she says yes she definatly wants to be with you on Sat..Tell nikita that you wont be able to see her that night but maybe on Sunday
4/16/00 8:10 PM BeanCount That's the way I'm leaning right now, but I'm not sure. I could see Sherry changing her mind a few more times, and I get left holding the bag..... like last year. I'm wondering if something will happen next week?
4/16/00 8:09 PM BeanCount I'm really not sure I see her lying per se. I see it more as shading the truth.... and not being specific or pinned down on anything. I really think she had a jealous reaction of some sort. I don't want there to be any scenes or nastiness at CWMC4. I was getting really comfortable with having Sherry as a platonic friend, but I'm not gonna lie. I would "do her" in a heartbeat.
4/16/00 8:08 PM pat I think unless your totally sure about seeing Nikita..you should tell her that you may not be able to meet with her..She will understand and not be upset...Then she can make plans with someone else for Sat night
4/16/00 8:06 PM BeanCount I think you're right. I also think that Nikita is going to ask me about this next week, and I'm going to have to think about what I'm going to do and say.
4/16/00 8:06 PM pat I dont know????she is lying to one of us...or maybe both of us.
4/16/00 8:04 PM BeanCount Earlier today she asked me if I knew how to do the two-step.... in case we went dancing. I said I would learn it by then. Think I should? If you were me, you'd book that Saturday with Nikita?
4/16/00 8:05 PM pat I think the bottom line is she is telling you one thing and me something else....Why im not sure...I guess all we can do is let it play itself out.
4/16/00 8:02 PM BeanCount I'm not sure they are exactly opposite. I think she was down playing me to you. It's ok, I don't have a problem with that. I still vividly recall her telling me, when we were driving to the restaurant to meet you, that there was to be "absolutely no lovey-dovey" in front of you. She said you two were friends only, but that it would make her uncomfortable.
4/16/00 7:59 PM pat Im reading it now...what she told me and what the email says are totally different
4/16/00 7:58 PM BeanCount I had no intention of hanging around her shoulder did you read that conversation I e-mailed? I think it's the same old thing about not being "obligated", plus me being married and all.
4/16/00 7:57 PM pat Im reading your Email it says the opposite of what she was telling me.
4/16/00 7:56 PM BeanCount It sounds like she wants to go for the original plan, with someone else, or some group, paying for her ticket and room. Maybe it's that same old thing about not wanting to be "obligated" to me? Before Friday, I thought I was just probably going to pick her up at the airport and take her to her hotel, and later to the dinner and to Tara's and the picnic.. I'm not sure what she means by "hangout", as I thought my evenings would be "free".
4/16/00 7:53 PM pat she said she might go to the picnic but didn't commit...What she said she didn't want you hanging around over her shouilder all the time...all you were doing was taking her to the dinner..Tara has a car and would pick her up and she would hang out with her, ..I told her I plan on buying the tickets and getting her a room the other guys would pay me back. She said that was kool...she wants to stay at the Peppermill to go swiming
4/16/00 7:50 PM BeanCount ok, so she doesn't want me to pay for the ticket, but just go to the dinner, and take her over to Tara's to hang out. What about the picnic? Did you send two messages or three? I got two.
4/16/00 7:46 PM pat to get the tickets since he's going to be taking you to the dinner and you 2 are going to be hanging out...She said No the other guys should be buying the ticket...she is just going to the dinner with you....so you shouldnt be paying for the ticket
4/16/00 7:44 PM pat I asked her if she was going to CWM4..She said yes have you talked to those guys about getting me a ticket?..I said well they might not need to if you go with BC...She said Im not going with him Im just going to see him there but will be hanging around with Tara...I said is he taking you to the dinner and going to be driving you around..She said he may go to the dinner but we wont be hanging out together...I said well i think...more
4/16/00 7:40 PM BeanCount Ok.... why?
4/16/00 7:40 PM pat More confused than when I last talked to you
4/16/00 7:40 PM BeanCount More confused than me?
4/16/00 7:39 PM pat Im even more confused
4/16/00 7:39 PM BeanCount Just got here...
4/16/00 7:22 PM pat are you there
4/16/00 12:11 PM BeanCount shit !!! I typed it wrong. (xxx) xxx-xxxx
4/16/00 12:10 PM pat phone is ringing no answer
4/16/00 12:09 PM BeanCount (xxx) xxx-xxx I'm alone now.... but I don't know how much longer.
4/16/00 12:08 PM pat can you call me or me call you?
4/16/00 12:08 PM BeanCount I'm sorry about mentioning you and Nikita....
4/16/00 12:07 PM BeanCount this happened on Friday. I told Niklita that i would call her that night, and I still did..... but I never mentioned CWMC4 to her at all. Sherry said that now that she didn't feel like she "had" to have sex with me, that she wanted too. I don't know what to make of this, but I was honest with her, and told her that yes, I never really stopped wanting to have sex with her also. I'm all weirded out.
4/16/00 12:05 PM pat Now that is interesting...So what are you going to do now
4/16/00 12:04 PM BeanCount sorry about that.... she said that she thought I was coming to CWM4 to see her.... including having sex with her.... but that if I preferred "little queenie" then fine.... I was FLOORED.... big time.... still can't quite figure it out.
4/16/00 12:03 PM pat She isn't suspose to know about me and Nikita yet...You silly boy
4/16/00 12:02 PM BeanCount I was just kidding around with Sherry, and told her that I was going to "lure" her to dinner on Saturday night with you and Nikita, and then I would leave with Nikita... She went off.... and I started getting rapid fire messages...
4/16/00 12:01 PM pat okay so now she has 4 tickets plus 4 rooms...she should have a great time she can also go home everynight and see AD
4/16/00 12:00 PM BeanCount Pat, you're too much... I was just talking to Cowboy, and he says he and Fly are going to kick in for her as well. I already told her I would cover it if they didn't come through.
4/16/00 11:59 AM pat do tell
4/16/00 11:59 AM BeanCount I better fess up to you about what happened before you step in "stick poop".
4/16/00 11:59 AM pat I'm planing on asking Cowboy about it...I plan on buying her a ticket and getting her a room but I am not telling her yet..If some want to kick in and donate kool, if not thats fine too.
4/16/00 11:57 AM BeanCount Pat, she and I talked about it on Friday, and she indicated that she was going. That is why I mentioned the jealousy thing regarding Nikita. We also talked about it just a while ago, and specifically about her getting a free ticket.
4/16/00 11:55 AM pat just got back home..I don't know???50/50 chance I think..I will ask her about it today
4/16/00 9:43 AM BeanCount Do you think Sherry will REALLY be going to CWMC4?
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 13, 2019 10:34:09 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
4/17/00 10:04 PM BeanCount ok.... still reading.... thanks for the file...
4/17/00 10:04 PM pat going to bed
4/17/00 9:57 PM BeanCount ok.... scanning.....
4/17/00 9:57 PM pat its about in the middle i think
4/17/00 9:57 PM BeanCount ok.... just opened the file.
4/17/00 9:56 PM pat I didn't interpret it that way you tell me
4/17/00 9:55 PM BeanCount Oh, I get it.... she thought they were asking if she already had someone paying all her expenses. ok....
4/17/00 9:54 PM pat they just said do you have a date...no reference..she said No..my guess is that she wants everybody to chip in and pay her way.rather than you paying for her is what she said that
4/17/00 9:53 PM BeanCount Was that in reference to the dinner? She told me she's going with me, and I thought she told you that also?
4/17/00 9:51 PM pat not much was said about the cwm4..They asked if she was going..she said she wanted to..they asked if she had a date she said NO
4/17/00 9:50 PM BeanCount Anything interesting in there?
4/17/00 7:19 PM pat I got the lof file from IRC
4/17/00 6:27 PM BeanCount ok.... good night Pat.
4/17/00 6:27 PM pat Yes, im quiting my job and moving to alaske under a new name... I have to eat to Later
4/17/00 6:26 PM BeanCount I'm getting hungry. Did we get all of Sherry's problems solved yet?
4/17/00 6:25 PM BeanCount I found Vicky's post.....
4/17/00 6:24 PM BeanCount I know, and she can start with her ridiculous phone bills.... she does not need call waiting and all the other fancy shit.
4/17/00 6:23 PM pat The spending is her biggest problem..At 9.00 per hour she can make it on her own...She as to be willing to make the sacrifices though....There are lot s of people that do it everyday with 2 or 3 kids.
4/17/00 6:22 PM BeanCount She's going to be dependent ..... at least for a while. Much of the problem, it seems to me, is on the spending side....rather than the earning side. where's vicky's post about Bashful?
4/17/00 6:20 PM pat Do you think she can make it strickly on her own, or will she always be dependent on others to bail her out?
4/17/00 6:19 PM BeanCount Yes, and I agree she needs to be more disciplined and quit taking these days off work. I think she'll make it.... but it will continue to be a difficult struggle. I can't find vicky's post?
4/17/00 6:17 PM pat she is trying but she take a lot of un-neccessary time off...I have told you this before i think...The way I see sherry and I is that we both use each other well
4/17/00 6:15 PM BeanCount I need to re-load....
4/17/00 6:14 PM BeanCount Ok, but wouldn't you agree that she's doing everything she can to earn more money working? She has told me that one of her main goals is to become financially independent. I f I send her money then I have to conclude that I am getting something out of the arrangement. damned if I can figure out what that would be though.... LOL...
4/17/00 6:13 PM pat Boy Vicky just slammed Bashful.
4/17/00 6:12 PM pat I can't agree with that arguement...She has no problem asking for money with some people..Others she doesn't come out and ask but controls the conversation so that they volunteer...I don't think it has anything to do with her feeling bad about it.
4/17/00 6:08 PM BeanCount Pat I don't think Sherry really wants to ask for money, and I think it bothers her a lot to do so. I don't think it's something she is at all proud about, so I understand her reluctance to be upfront and truthful about it.That's why you end up in what is to me a "crazy" situation where she thinks it is more "honorable" to tell you that the $1,000 was paid sex rather than a loan. She wanted you to think she had "earned" the money. I
4/17/00 6:03 PM pat neither have I
4/17/00 6:03 PM BeanCount She is a very good student. I haven't talked to her in quite some time.
4/17/00 6:02 PM pat lots of what she said are things I have posted in the past and also things I told her when we were Emailing
4/17/00 6:01 PM BeanCount Me too.... For every Katherine Leigh or Bree or Jessi Winchester, or hopefully Nakita.... I bet there are a dozen or more Sherry's.... struggling to cope with real life.
4/17/00 5:59 PM pat I thought so to...but I think she will probably get jumped on...
4/17/00 5:58 PM BeanCount Because it makes sense and is well written and thoughtful.
4/17/00 5:58 PM BeanCount Her Engglish is getting much better. I think she is sensitive about it, and has been studying.
4/17/00 5:58 PM pat Good one as in she will catch hell or good one because it makes sense
4/17/00 5:57 PM BeanCount I see her post, and it is a good one.
4/17/00 5:55 PM pat He has cancelled about 3 trips in the last month..I agree with most of your assesment..
vicky is asking for some real flaming i think... 4/17/00 5:53 PM BeanCount Pat, I've thought it through quite a bit more. I think two things are going on. I think she wants me to start "helping out" a few hundred every month. and I think she is jealous of Nikita.... not just with me, but you also.... and for the reasons you said. Next time someone flies to meet someone it will be Sherry though..... I'm not sure about billpayer... just speculating because of that cancelled trip.
4/17/00 5:50 PM pat most of it as slowed down(checks)....I think people caught on..I'm not sure what's going on with billpayer..I think he's out of the picture except for maybe ADs braces..
4/17/00 5:48 PM BeanCount I didn't think she was still getting checks from anyone except billpayer, but I don't know. Maybe we are all flakes? You're right, and I'm not going to defend the lying. It is sort of a mystery to me usually.
4/17/00 5:46 PM pat It could be the married guy thing, i don't think so...Im talking about everybody she lies about.She constantly lies to AD. She is always lying about other posters to them. I think its as to do with lots of people helping her out...She is affraid that if she was honest with them they would tell her to flake off.They probably would too..I know she as told lots of lies to get money from guys..She gets a check then tells me how much of a flake they are
4/17/00 5:43 PM BeanCount and your right about what happens when she gets in a group of people. We're both going to be ignored.
4/17/00 5:40 PM BeanCount ok Pat. The lying bothers me also. I don't know why she does it sometimes when the truth would work just as well or better. If she has lied to you where I am concerned, all I can say is that it doesn't bother me all that much. I still think a lot of it goes back to the married guy thing, and I think it bothers her....
4/17/00 5:37 PM pat NO it was just plain lying...I can't remember the conversation word for word but I know what she was telling me she knew was not true...She has done this lots of time s to me and others, Its like she is affraid to tell me the truth because she thinks I will not be able to handle it..the truth I can handle its the lying that bugs me...
4/17/00 5:35 PM BeanCount and she likes to pretend to be tough and uncaring. It's an act.... You know this..... I'm preaching to the choir.
4/17/00 5:33 PM BeanCount Straight out lies? I intrepreted it as "shading the truth". sometimes Sherry just says things without thinking at all, then backtracks poorly, or even worse, charges ahead. I think she thinks that she doesn't want to go to that picnic, but (like you) I think once she gets there she'll have a good time.
4/17/00 5:30 PM pat I will contact Cowboy sometime this week...See what he has to say...Their is still plenty of time...To be honest I am a little pissed at Sherry for the straight out lies she told me yesterday...I want to let my thoughts settle before I do anything..
4/17/00 5:27 PM BeanCount I don't know who all is in. I am aware of Cowboy, Flyfisher and Woodrow so far. I asked Cowboy if he could send me the IRC log, but he said it got messed up and didn't record. I was gonna ask Fly, but didn't see him online. I think a NICE piece of jewelry is always appreciated.
4/17/00 5:25 PM BeanCount ok.... I told you and Cowboy both that I would participate.... so I will. I leave it up to your discretion as to whether Sherry knows this (my participation) .... or not. I do not plan to mention it to her.
4/17/00 5:24 PM pat who all is involved with this thing..Who is the organizer..Is there one..? What would you suggest we do for her...How about buying her a lie detector...Im mean
4/17/00 5:22 PM BeanCount I also mentioned to Cowboy that I thought there needed to be an award and gift for Sherry at the dinner. He hadn't considered it before, but thought it was a good idea, though tough to top last year's Tessamonial.
4/17/00 5:22 PM pat Actually I don't mind....I plan on getting her air tickets and a room....I will buy them and who ever wants can donate..to cover the cost.
4/17/00 5:20 PM BeanCount I think I will also, at least in talking with Sherry. I wasn't there, but am informed that Sherry was on IRC for a while last night, and the guys talked to her about buying her ticket. The report is that she was enthusiastic and even agreed to go to the picnic for a while. Cowboy ICQ'd me to see if I was making the reservations or him. I told him to contact you. I know you thank me for this....
4/17/00 5:17 PM pat Actually I'm glad, I haven't talked to her today, but will see her tomorrow..I did a lot of thinking about this today..I think I will put the CWM4 subject on the back burner for awhile....
4/17/00 5:15 PM BeanCount Nothing weird today.... Just talked about jobs, resumes, grocery shopping & weather. Ho hum..
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 14, 2019 10:37:47 GMT -8
Conversation between Bean Count and Pat on ICQ 1999
Posted by Pat and Bean CountJun 12, 2019 at 12:24pm ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
4/18/00 10:16 PM BeanCount Do you need the address to send the $100? 4/18/00 10:14 PM BeanCount Pat (ICQ#4227432) Wrote: she is going to be gone most of today..then tomorrow they a re going to the Aquatic center with a lady from work..I say she wont clean
4/18/00 10:13 PM BeanCount She'll clean... she wants to make as good an impression as she can. damn, does Ad have some objection to women visiting also.... or was he traumatized by Jessica? LOL....
4/18/00 10:12 PM BeanCount Pat (ICQ#4227432) Wrote: I dont think so...Her house cleaning as gone downhill the last few month...her folks are coming over today I asked her if she was going to clean up the place she said NO.. She told me she will be staying with her for the 3 weeks except a couple of days in Seattle..
4/18/00 10:10 PM BeanCount She's nervous and keyed up about the visit.... apparently this is a last-minute deal, and a big surprise to Sherry. I'd wager that she will be cleaning and getting ready like a white tornado. Not a good time to get in her way!!! LOL....
4/18/00 9:43 PM pat night
4/18/00 9:43 PM BeanCount I think it's Rozhan. Not sure, but Sherry hasn't been correcting me on that spelling. You are a pervert, and no way I would let that sweet lady know you are doing this. LOL... Good night...
4/18/00 9:41 PM BeanCount You're right about that. the real reason for her going is that, and to see Tia and Tessa and all the rest. She's too volatile for us to be able to predict. For me I know that Nikita would be a "sure thing", and would make the whole trip worthwhile for me. I know I'm going to have a great time in Las Vegas, and that will only make me see it that way even more.
4/18/00 9:41 PM pat I have to go to bed..I think I will use rozjad or whatever her name is for my masturbation fantasy...Dont tell her..
4/18/00 9:39 PM BeanCount We're trying to make everything black and white, and it's probably really a bunch of shades of gray. Maybe even Sherry doesn't really know what she wants to do.....
4/18/00 9:38 PM pat The thing that leads me to think she will go as nothing to do with you or me...She will go because she wants to see Tara..and the baby...the rest is just icing on the cake...How she acts and who she hangs out with will depend on her mood at that time and how well she is getting along with either one of us.
4/18/00 9:35 PM BeanCount Again fair enough, and I appreciate your comments. I know there is a lot to that, because she hardly ever mentions you to me anymore also, and she always used to. In my mind I can't decide whether I would like CWMC4 better if Sherry goes or does not go, but I think it would be really nasty of her to cancel out when she has already committed to go, and knows that people are going to spend money on her.
4/18/00 9:32 PM pat it's a miserable time for me..If Nikita goes I don't give a shit what Sherry does.
4/18/00 9:31 PM pat Before we weren't communicating..You and I....... now she knows we do..So she as to walk a tight rope..She will not comment to me about you one way or the other. I have also spent hours with her and face to face..I do not know the answer..WHo is she feeding a line of shit to??? I think Cwm4 will give us both a lot of answers..If Nikita does not go to CWM4 i wont go... I don't want to go knowing that the possibility of Sherry being a jerk and making
4/18/00 9:29 PM BeanCount I need Nikita tonight. Please send her.... LOL.... everyone needs someone like Nikita.
4/18/00 9:28 PM BeanCount Do you think it would be wise to start the conversation with her by asking her if she has a conscience at all? j/k.... but it has crossed my mind a few times today.
4/18/00 9:27 PM BeanCount ok.... fair enough. Maybe in fairness to her her opinion might change from time to time. Have you had knowledge of the amount of communication I have had with her? Almost daily communication for a year plus several months. Hundreds of e-mails and ICQ conversations. If this is all a game to her, she has invested a lot of time. LOL.....
4/18/00 9:23 PM BeanCount I can see why you had concluded before that I was lying. You know her much better than you know me. I can also better understand now why you would be so angry at the possibility that she is lying to you.... or to both of us.
4/18/00 9:24 PM pat My silence is thinking.....she as told me things recently and some several month ago..They don't all agree...I'm hesitant to say anything because I don't want to say anything unless I'm sure its accurate
4/18/00 9:22 PM BeanCount Again no comment from you..... no challenge to what I said. Your silence speaks volumes to me. Ok, that's only a couple of weeks from now.
4/18/00 9:20 PM pat 2nd week of May.I think
4/18/00 9:20 PM BeanCount when are you planning to buy tickets?
4/18/00 9:19 PM BeanCount I think Sherry has consistently told you that she doesn't care much for me, so naturally you assumed when I quit sending money that she wouldn't want to have anything to do with me. You told me that, without telling me that she probably has said bad things about me, or has made lots of negative comments..... so I conclude that I'm the one being lied to.
4/18/00 9:18 PM pat What ever you do do it before i buy the tickets...If it turns into a blow out..Sherry may just say fuck it and not go..
4/18/00 9:16 PM BeanCount No matter what happens, I can assure you that I will be completely straightforward and honest with Nikita about what's going on. I may as well do that, as I already told her all of the rest of the story, including the financial support. this will just have to be an "update". Now do I really want to confront sherry on this, and all the potential unpleasantness that may ensue.... that's the question for me. I think I'm the one being lied to.
4/18/00 9:13 PM pat My guess is Nikita will ask you about Sat, night...I think you should make sure she understands you may not be able to make it.
4/18/00 9:12 PM BeanCount I bet when I see Nikita that she will already be figuring on seeing you for the two days you have in mind. My other option is to wait, and say nothing to either lady. I predict that Sherry will ask me for money before I even go to Las Vegas...
4/18/00 9:10 PM pat the way i see it..She is in a bind, IF she is lying to you and you find out she may lose your financial help...If she is lying to me she looses her wheels and the help i give her and AD ...I will wait till after I see Nikita and she gives me the finale YES on CWM4
4/18/00 9:08 PM BeanCount I need to do it this week.
4/18/00 9:07 PM BeanCount I agree. Yesterday you were convinced she was lying to you. Today I convinced myself that she was lying to me. She calls it "leading me on", and has admitted doing it in the past, but it is not "leading me on".... it is straight lying.
4/18/00 9:06 PM pat are you going to do it while her friend is here...Or wait till she leaves..
4/18/00 9:05 PM BeanCount It would bother me too.... but that has been what I have been thinking today, and that's why I'm leaning towards getting clarification and/or not changing what my original "plans" were.
4/18/00 9:05 PM pat YEs I considered that..I just want the truth...One thing for sure is she is lying to one of us...
4/18/00 9:03 PM BeanCount Did you ever consider the possibility that she's not lying to you at all.... but only to me? Maybe the truth is that she doesn't like me at all, but is just going to do the dinner thing, and maybe even have sex, just to see if I'll start "helping out" again.
4/18/00 9:03 PM pat No i wont tell her about the ICQ history....I m not sure what I'm going to say...I will ask her to tell me the truth and that I know she has been lying to me.
4/18/00 9:01 PM BeanCount You're not going to tell her I sent that ICQ history I hope? I have no problem regarding the phone call.... and our own conversations.
4/18/00 9:02 PM pat I know your kidding but that would bother me more than having sex with her..Easy for me to sex since I am not sexually attracted to her.
4/18/00 9:00 PM BeanCount Well I've been thinking about it, and I don't see why I should change my plans. I'm considering your suggestio0n that I ask Sherry to clarify what she has in mind for Friday AND Saturday nights. Does she just want me for sex, but not to hang around and be seen with? Just going to use me, and discard me? LOL....
4/18/00 8:58 PM pat by the time CWM4 comes around we may not even be speaking...If I email her what I have been thinking..I may be dead
4/18/00 8:57 PM BeanCount If she does go.... have you started writing your speech yet? LOL....
4/18/00 8:57 PM pat Its posible
4/18/00 8:57 PM BeanCount This will be great!!! All these people will pitch in on flights and a room and a gift and some kind of award.... then she doesn't even go.
4/18/00 8:57 PM pat Thats the problem..She tells you one thing me something else..these are the lies I'm talking about...I thought you were going to tell Nikita that you wont be able to commit to Saturday
4/18/00 8:55 PM BeanCount Oh.... ok... well if she only wants me for Friday night, then it sounds like I am available for Saturday. Back to the original plan then.... I'll either go to a brothel on Friday night... or else I will "save" myself for Nikita.
4/18/00 8:54 PM pat In the car she said she had vacation coming in May, but she would save it for this summer to go to Germany
4/18/00 8:52 PM BeanCount How can she do that? She gets no vacation time until one year goes by. That's what she told me, and I know that is standard policy at most places.
4/18/00 8:53 PM pat The conversation we had at the pool when I asked her what her plans were...She told you that you would be hanging out together..She told me she didn't want you hanging around her ..except for the dinner..
4/18/00 8:50 PM BeanCount You are hanging yourself if that was a reference to the cleaning. You did not inform me that you were taping that call, so I'm gonna have to hire GP to sue you now. I'll be asking for $100 in the lawsuit.... LOL... What did she lie to you about?
4/18/00 8:51 PM pat Tonight she was talking about going to Germany this summer...I'm thinking to myself..Would she say fuck it to CWM and decide to go to Germany instead?
4/18/00 8:49 PM BeanCount What I think she lied to me about is wanting to have sex with me, or being willing to.... or whatever the hell that was. I think she'll find some last second excuse why that won't happen. I've been lied to about this many times before, and something always happens....
4/18/00 8:48 PM pat I have it on tape on my answering machine....
4/18/00 8:47 PM BeanCount What did she lie to you about? I hope you made your comments about the cleaning in ICQ, and not on the telephone, because I have not cleared history for several days......
4/18/00 8:45 PM pat NO NO NO, stop trying to weasel out ..You owe me and I want my money NOW!!!! I had plans on writing a long HFP Email to sherry about CWM4 and her lying to me..I think I will wait till after the visit...AD did not go..
4/18/00 8:43 PM BeanCount Ad didn't go to the airport then?
4/18/00 8:43 PM BeanCount Hey Pal, if we bet $100, then you lost, because you said she was not going to clean up!!! I thought about the Friday conversation with Sherry. I don't know why she objects to me being with Nikita, but it sorta is grating on me.
4/18/00 8:42 PM pat He just said Hi to her outside..then showed off a little being a wise guy..Then went back to playing Basketball
4/18/00 8:41 PM BeanCount The concern today was that AD would not think he's getting enough attention, and would act like a jerk around Rozhan. that was Sherry's word "jerk". She said AD does this all the time. I told her he'd probably get bored with the two of them and just go hang with his buddies.
4/18/00 8:38 PM BeanCount I don't understand what you are saying about $100?
4/18/00 8:40 PM pat .We just wont tell Sherry she can just knock on the door at 4:00 AM stoned and coked out..See how Sherry likes it. LOL YES that $100.00 from the bet we made..I said the house would be clean you said it wouldn't be..Pay up you cheap weasel
4/18/00 8:37 PM BeanCount He said Woodrow was hearing from Jessica, and she wanted him to find a room for her at CWMC4. He (woodrow) was supposedly going to ask Sherry if she minded sharing at the Peppermill.
4/18/00 8:36 PM pat the house was very clean..you me $100.00
4/18/00 8:35 PM BeanCount I was funning you.... LOL.... sherry would kill you if you did consider it. I talked to Cowboy yesterday and told him what you said about buying tickets and room for Sherry. He thinks maybe Curious and Border Bandit might chip in also.
4/18/00 8:34 PM pat I would not even consider anything like that...I think she is very cute..and seemed really sweet
4/18/00 8:33 PM BeanCount Cool. sounds like you like Rozhan... LOL... You know she's married?
4/18/00 8:31 PM pat She wont smoke around AD..We didn't talk about it..my guess though...She is welcome to smoke around me and with me anytime she wants...
4/18/00 8:30 PM BeanCount glad she got there ok.... She's going to let her smoke around AD? or even have it in the apt.? This surprises me.
4/18/00 8:28 PM pat Ive never seen Sherry in such a giddy mood....She was really happy about her friend being here..She's a doll..Cute as hell...One of her 1st questions was do you have any Pot..I thought Sherry might not like that, I said KOOL...Sherry said she might be able to get her some...This is my kind of girl..Don't mention the Pot thing to sherry. I dont know if i was suspose to repeat that
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 15, 2019 11:19:13 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
4/19/00 7:46 PM BeanCount good night Pat yes, it's great.... LOL...
4/19/00 7:46 PM BeanCount I need a break. LIfe was simpler when Sherry wanted to be a platonic friend, and I was allowed to have sex and talk about it, and it wasn't flaunting. That's another solution ya know, and the simplist of all. Just tell Sherry thanks, but no thanks.
4/19/00 7:44 PM pat Ok now that we have resolved all the problems of CWM4...We now understand UB and Stretcher I think I can go relax..Isn't the internet great? good night
4/19/00 7:42 PM BeanCount yeah, just read it. His mother was psychotic, and stabbed him in the tummy with a fork. That's why he beats up women.... always with an open hand though.... so therefore this is not to be considered as abuse.
4/19/00 7:41 PM pat did you see Bashfuls answer?..I like it........ it explains a lot about stretcher
4/19/00 7:39 PM BeanCount Is this the one who is the assistant DA.... or the cop..... or the lawyer? How come he is the only one without a job, and going to college in his late 20's? This guy has a lot of brothers. I think his parents were fuckers.
4/19/00 7:37 PM pat Im envious..of Stretcher..He has the truth his brother gave it to him.
4/19/00 7:36 PM BeanCount UB doesn't fuck girls.... Well maybe in the ass if he's drunk enough. Stretcher is a college student. He's all smart now.
4/19/00 7:34 PM pat spagetti warehouse for dinner tomorrow night...she will let me know if i will be needed this weekend....She has decided to fuck UB on Saturday night instead.
4/19/00 7:32 PM BeanCount Who is going to be with their cousin? What is for dinner tomorrow? Please ask Sherry if she will fuck me Friday or Saturday, or both. I would ask, but I have a headache from considering all the possibilities.
4/19/00 7:29 PM pat I think in going to take the ladies to dinner tomorrow night....This weekend she is going to be with her cousin ...my taxi business may suffer.
4/19/00 7:27 PM BeanCount It's fun !!!! I've been repeating that lately, and I'm starting to believe it.
4/19/00 7:26 PM pat isnt life difficult sometimes....?
4/19/00 7:25 PM BeanCount Let's see here. If I have sex with Sherry on Friday and Saturday, then I'll cancel with Nikita, and tell Sherry so I get extra Brownie points. If I only have sex with Sherry on Friday, then I'll keep the appointment with Nikita and tell Sherry about it, but not in a flaunting way. If Sherry doesn't put out at all, then I will have sex wth Nikita several times, and tell Sherry in a flaunting way. I'm just being silly here....
4/19/00 7:21 PM BeanCount I just read you UB comment. ROFL.... What a clueless dork.
4/19/00 7:20 PM pat That would be the best..see what she says...if nothing else you can still meet up with nikita on Sunday...If sherry falls through and Nikita isn't booked you can still meet up with her on Sat...If you see Nikita on Sunday would you let sherry know?
4/19/00 7:18 PM BeanCount I have no idea what I'm going to do. There is no "correct" thing to do,so far as I can tell. I know I'm going to tell Nikita the whole thing.
4/19/00 7:14 PM pat are you going to tell sherry you asked ..nikita for Saturday night...you can't commit to both of them..You could but it wouldn't be very nice
4/19/00 7:12 PM BeanCount From your questions, i was thinking that you don't think there's anything to be gained by my asking Sherry to clarify things. I was thinking along those lines a couple days ago. I don't think Sherry cares much how what she does may affect other people. This is why there is a good chance that I will ask Nikita for Saturday night, and see where the chip fall about Friday and/or Saturday with Sherry.
4/19/00 7:09 PM pat I emailed Cowbot tonight.
4/19/00 7:09 PM pat my plan is to not say anything to sherry until after Rozhad leaves and I have talked to Nikita....
4/19/00 7:07 PM BeanCount yes, I have. You are asking good questions though. I have mixed emotions about who should pay for Sherry's expenses. I think I know how she is looking at it, but if i were you I'd see it the way you might.
4/19/00 7:05 PM pat have you noticed I have been playing devils advocate with you tonight..?
4/19/00 7:03 PM pat actually a package deal for 2 is not much more than a package deal for 1..They fuck you if you go as a single.
4/19/00 7:01 PM BeanCount UB is clueless.... You are mean to slam him. Don't be surprised if I pile on....
4/19/00 7:02 PM pat yes Im paying for her trip..I told her I would pay for the flight change if she stays longer...She said NO she would pay for the change and extra days.
4/19/00 7:01 PM BeanCount Are you paying for Nikita's flights? do I owe you money if I have sex with her? Can she stay an extra day or two for this purpose?
4/19/00 7:00 PM pat i was slamming UB and he thought it was a joke
4/19/00 6:59 PM BeanCount In her mind, the "group" is paying for her tickets so that she can go to the dinner and picnic, and also do what she really wants to do, which is visit Tara and other friends. Whether she has sex or not is not part of that equation to Sherry.... it just happens or doesn't happen.
4/19/00 6:59 PM pat I dont think Sherry ever feels obligated..She does what she wants
4/19/00 6:57 PM BeanCount Are you saying you don't follow the logic about feeling "obligated" to have sex with me, vs. just wanting to for the heck of it? I admit I don't follow it too well either, and I've heard it a few times now. If I pay for everything she will feel obligated.
4/19/00 6:58 PM pat Ive got the solution...You pay for Nikitas trip but we wont tell her,,she will have sex with me...the other guys will re-emburse me for sherrys trip...
4/19/00 6:54 PM BeanCount I also told Cowboy that I would pay for the flights/room/dinner. He seems to want to do it this way though.
4/19/00 6:54 PM pat the money is not the problem with me...it's more of a principle thing...If we pay then you give us the money back but dont tell her...isn't that being dishonest.. If you can only have sex with her if someone else pays ...That seem strange to me
4/19/00 6:53 PM BeanCount Ha ha ha.... I thought billpayer was the big bucks guy... I handle the medium sized shit.... Btw she originally told me that billpayer would reimburse me the several months rent I paid. Then later she said he said no. Wanna bet whether she ever asked him or not?
4/19/00 6:51 PM BeanCount No, I don't agree that you are paying for my sex, you are paying for her transportation and her sex. I have NO problem paying you and the others if this is how you feel. Will I have to kiss and tell?
4/19/00 6:50 PM pat your the big bucks guy..I handle the small shit
4/19/00 6:49 PM BeanCount She never asks me for $20..... that would make no sense unless she can wait for it to be mailed. She usually wants $100 to $300..... except when she was unemployed, then it was much higher.
4/19/00 6:48 PM pat If we pay and she goes and you have sex ...Aren't we paying for your sex?
4/19/00 6:47 PM BeanCount I have no problem paying.... but she seems to have a problem with it. Ok dinner & dancing then.....
4/19/00 6:48 PM pat 20.00 or so yes..If she pays me back next pay day....im not going to run up a 300.00 debt again though 4/19/00 6:46 PM BeanCount What are you going to do when she asks for a loan? My answer if you ask me this is I don't know.... Wimping out, I know...
4/19/00 6:46 PM pat NO wrong about the dancing and stuff..I think you should pay..Even if all she does is go to the dinner.
4/19/00 6:45 PM BeanCount Wrong about paying? I agree, no way to be sure until then.... unless she backs out sooner than the last minute.
4/19/00 6:43 PM pat i think your wrong...but no matter what she says we still wont know until CWM4....
4/19/00 6:42 PM BeanCount Under those circumstances I believe I should. I think the conversation will accomplish her telling me that she has changed her mind back to "no sex". Dinner maybe, and dancing no.
4/19/00 6:40 PM pat OK I'm confused so what is this little talk going to accomplish...? you wont have the answers till cwm4....If she says yes she wants sex and she will go to the dinner and you 2 are going dancing...Do you think you should pay for her trip?
4/19/00 6:39 PM BeanCount I built a bridge and got over it..... as she suggested, but then when I came back for a brief visit she dynamited the bridge. Why??
4/19/00 6:37 PM BeanCount Saying and DOING are two entirely different things with Sherry. I'd be happy with doing, and very unhappy with saying and then not doing. Not saying and not doing would be ok.
4/19/00 6:35 PM pat so if she says she will go dancing and have sex with you..Then you will be a happy camper?
4/19/00 6:35 PM BeanCount I wanna know if that is just all talk.... or real? I want her not to jerk me around.... either way.
4/19/00 6:33 PM BeanCount I definitely thought my evenings would be free. Dancing? Sex?
4/19/00 6:33 PM pat what answer are you looking for...what do you expect out of the trip???
4/19/00 6:32 PM BeanCount No, I wouldn't believe that, and don't expect her to say that. She had said she would like to spend some time, not most. Then the sex part was added after. I expect her to spend a lot of time with Tara and other friends..... without me there, so I agree with not hanging on her shoulder.
4/19/00 6:28 PM BeanCount What's she going to say if I use the same line? That "flaunting" line came awful quick. We only talked about Nikita 3 other times, always when she brought up the subject, and never more than a couple of ICQ messages.
4/19/00 6:29 PM pat Thats your call....I have No opinion on this one way or the other...If she says yes Im serious and want to spend most of my time with you at CWM4.will you believe her
4/19/00 6:27 PM BeanCount I'm going to immediately ask her for clarification about last Friday's conversation. I've re-read that a couple more times, and I think it's pretty clear that she is just leading me on, and going to back out at the last second. If it hadn't already happened several times, then I wouldn't think this. This time is the most blatant though.
4/19/00 6:25 PM pat I have actually told her that before...she seemed ok with it.
4/19/00 6:24 PM BeanCount Tell her you're saving it for Nikita..... then stand back or get ready to run. LOL.... I'm waiting too....
4/19/00 6:23 PM pat Actaully she has been extra nice to me for about a week now...I keep waiting for the BIG question? can I borrow some money...
4/19/00 6:21 PM BeanCount That was nice of her. She's going to need you to do a lot of driving the next three weeks. It's "be cynical day". LOL....
4/19/00 6:19 PM pat she ICQed me and left a message on the recorder thanking me for picking up her friend yesterday..I do that type of stuff all the time but she usually just says thanks when I leave...This added phone and ICQ thing was quite a pleasant surprise.. NO she can't afford the day off. but that as never stoped her before..
4/19/00 6:15 PM BeanCount I don't know about that? I only talked to her briefly this morning, and she told me she was going to play hooky again to show Rozhan around some. I asked her if she could afford this,and she said she could afford to miss one day. I figure that cost her at least $65 in take home pay. I didn't realize she had that extra $65 every month....
4/19/00 6:13 PM pat did sherry take a "be Nice" pill today/
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 16, 2019 11:53:21 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
4/30/00 7:50 PM pat are you home yet
4/25/00 6:19 PM pat are you there?
4/22/00 11:31 AM BeanCount I've read them. No, I don't think its Sidey. this guy writes too well to be Sidey. It's obviously someone who has been around awhile..... maybe a regular poster, and maybe not
4/21/00 10:40 PM pat Hey Mr writing analysis..Read some of Fly on the wall's post and tell me if you think it's Sidewinder
4/21/00 5:15 PM BeanCount Anyway, I'm leaving here now..... and I don't know why she's asking me these questions since she asked them all before also.
4/21/00 5:14 PM BeanCount The questions are about LV. I think she wants me to say that I wish it was her, but that wouldn't be true.
4/21/00 5:13 PM pat going to reno or LV
4/21/00 5:13 PM BeanCount Oh yah, before I forget. Sherry has been questioning me today in e-mails about when I'm going, and how Nikita is getting there, etc...... referring to her as "queenie" each time. Other than this she is being extremely nice, and has not even hinted at needing or wanting money or anything else.
4/21/00 5:08 PM pat OK
4/21/00 5:08 PM BeanCount Time to go home. I'll talk to you later..... Please rent a room with a jacuzzi....
4/21/00 4:54 PM BeanCount Check into travelocity.com. They list most of the airlines, and will give you the straight skinny....
4/21/00 4:53 PM pat Im going Southwest...The others are no longer going straight to Reno..according to the TA ..you have to fly to Seatle then down to Reno..That sucks
4/21/00 4:51 PM BeanCount It's quite often cheaper to do your own deal, especially on something like this. On airlines I would check Southwest and also Alaska Air. They're both online..
4/21/00 4:49 PM pat fuckers
4/21/00 4:49 PM BeanCount That's the T.A. commission....
4/21/00 4:48 PM pat I called them they quoted me 10.00 less than the travel agent
4/21/00 4:42 PM BeanCount The standard rooms in the tower are quite nice. They have a low-rise part that is older and not nearly as nice, so you will want to stay away from that.
4/21/00 4:41 PM pat I'm going to call them...the standard room should have everything I need ..I would think
4/21/00 4:40 PM BeanCount That price range sounds about right. The $122 is probably the weekend rate on a "standard" room.
4/21/00 4:39 PM pat I 'm looking at their web site it says 59.00 to 149.00 the travel agent told me 122.00
4/21/00 4:37 PM BeanCount It doesn't matter.... she can stay with me. (just joking again, as I'll be staying with her, so please get a nice room.)
4/21/00 4:35 PM pat they aren't listed with the travel packages you have to buy, but separately.This was just day one of getting a ball park price...I'm not sure if I should get Sherry a double or single
4/21/00 4:33 PM BeanCount Fly her to Sacto. She can ride with me then. (I'm just joking) hmmmm, seems strange on the rooms though. I wonder why this is so??
4/21/00 4:31 PM pat I went hotel and airline shopping today...The price as gone way up....also very limited on flights...
4/21/00 4:30 PM BeanCount It varies a lot.... I think they double the rates (or more) on weekends. I think I have paid from around $40 per night clear up to around $140 per night.
4/21/00 4:29 PM pat what did you pay??
4/21/00 4:29 PM BeanCount Yes, several times.
4/21/00 4:28 PM pat Have you ever stayed at the Pepper Mill
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 17, 2019 8:19:14 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/1/00 7:30 PM BeanCount OK.... bye..
5/1/00 7:30 PM pat me too..talk to ya later..I wish it was Saturday
5/1/00 7:29 PM BeanCount I gotta go..
5/1/00 7:28 PM BeanCount Looks like it's you and me for dinner on Saturday then. LOL
5/1/00 7:27 PM BeanCount Please let me do it Pat, as I want to change the credit card that they charge to one that doesn't get billed here at my home address. I think $200 is a good figure. If the pool of cash is not large enough, then I will make sure it is. I want Sherry's presents to be at least as $$$$ as Tessa's.
5/1/00 7:28 PM pat either way you can by me dinner Sat...I will be alone if your with Nikita ill have dinner with you 2 ..if your with sherry i can have dinner with you 2...your stuck with dinner with me either way..Neither one would dare to refuse to have me eat with you guys ..would they..?
5/1/00 7:25 PM BeanCount Pat, I figure that if Sherry spends the night.... or a significant portion of it with me on Friday, that she will probably want to get away with her friends on Saturday evening, so maybe I can buy you that dinner then, along with Nikita. Maybe I am just being selfish in wanting things to work out for me?
5/1/00 7:24 PM pat can i charge $200.00 for a gift certificate their on your account..You be reinburested out of whatever money comes in...
5/1/00 7:22 PM BeanCount I agree it is smart to pre-purchase. I already have an account at Art Media.... and Sherry has buying authority on that account, so if you would like to use that it's ok with me. Your call. I e-mailed Cowboy that I am in on this, but I didn't say how much $$$.
5/1/00 7:19 PM pat I guess it will depend on how much money is donated..I want to have it bought before I leave though..I dont want to go running around with nikita shopping for Sherry...Plus i wont have the time there
5/1/00 7:17 PM BeanCount Those are very good suggestions. Jewelry is usually a very good gift.... but I honestly don't know how Sherry feels about it. I know she likes to wear a lot of rings.
5/1/00 7:15 PM BeanCount That is the attitude I am taking. I think part of this is that Sherry keeps changing her mind, and/or doesn't really know what she wants to do. As you have said, she is probably just saying what she thinks we want to hear also, or just answering "off the cuff" without thinking that it is inconsistent.
5/1/00 7:16 PM pat twice with shawna and I think it was march last time I saw her...I will probably see her this weekend and 2 more time before CWM4..I'm selfish... any suggestions for a sherry present..I'm thinking a money order from the art store and a nice personal gift
5/1/00 7:13 PM BeanCount I thought you saw her some time in April.... maybe it was twice that month? I think you saw her 3 times after I saw her the one time.... once with Shawna Ray, and once at her place.... plus one other time, but I could be mistaken about this??
5/1/00 7:13 PM pat she lied to one of us..or both of us...along the way...The thing to do would be to just forget it and let whatever will be ..BE..easier said than done.
5/1/00 7:11 PM BeanCount Is it possible she is not lying.... in your mind?
5/1/00 7:11 PM pat I am in a real need of a Nikita fix...this is the longest i have gone without being with her since we met I think...I have 3 month to go and I'm all ready having anxiety attacks about cwm4..I will have a nervous break down if I don't kool it ..I need to relax
5/1/00 7:09 PM BeanCount Sherry does not know about Saturday at this point. somehow I need to figure out how to bring that up to her. at this point, I am thinking of just telling her straight up. If that makes her not want to get together on Saturday.... then so be it.... as I still think that is 50/50 at best.
5/1/00 7:09 PM pat work as been a real stresser lately...also all this stuff about sherry and who she is lying to or not was getting to me..
5/1/00 7:06 PM BeanCount What were you depressed about?
5/1/00 7:07 PM pat does she know about Saturday...? If we all go back on sunday we will all be on the same flight
5/1/00 7:06 PM BeanCount second I asked Shery if she really wanted to get together on Friday..... and she replied that she did, but thought maybe i wouldn't want to after this Las Vegas trip. I said that I still did...
5/1/00 7:05 PM BeanCount Yes, there was a part two. Hang on, and I'll get it and send again....
5/1/00 7:05 PM pat She talks real nice about Nikita around me...I was very depressed this weekend, and she suggested I call my little friend.in a nice way
5/1/00 7:04 PM pat I got dumped by my ISp i saw part 1 was their a part 2
5/1/00 7:01 PM BeanCount I don't think anything ugly will happen. I e-mailed Sherry today about two things. First I asked her why she kept referring to Nikita as "queenie". she replied that she didn't mean anything bad, and thinks Nikita is really nice. More....
5/1/00 6:59 PM pat If she said you were for sure then she will follow thru..I know Fly was planining to ask her about Sat...I plan on having a long talk with her on Saturday..I want to go with her but I do have some fears about something ugly happening with you me sherry and her their.
5/1/00 6:57 PM BeanCount uh oh.... I thought I was in there for Saturday....
5/1/00 6:56 PM pat she emailed me yesterday and said it a sure thing for CWM4..Im hers for thurs. and Friday. she as also got several request for Sat...
5/1/00 6:54 PM BeanCount yes.... but she figures that will be Friday. I told her everything. She was very concerned at first, but as she thought about it she could see where Sherry may be coming from. She told me she definitely wants to go now.... just to see how it all works out. LOL....
5/1/00 6:52 PM pat does she know you might have another date?
5/1/00 6:51 PM BeanCount She told me. May 6. I envy you living so close. I tentatively booked for Saturday at CWMC4.
5/1/00 6:50 PM pat I will see her Saturday..I'm over due..
5/1/00 6:50 PM BeanCount Yes, and more so......
5/1/00 6:49 PM pat was she as fun as you remembered her?
5/1/00 1:07 PM BeanCount Yeah.... I got home Saturday night. I wasn't online because my sister (the nice one) has been visiting and staying in the guestroom..... where the computer is. It went GREAT!!!!!
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 17, 2019 16:03:56 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/2/00 8:33 PM BeanCount ok Pat, I understand that..... you have helped me to accept the good and the bad, so I thank you for that.
5/2/00 8:32 PM pat you had nothing to do with whatever happens with me and Sherry...Its mostly me and being able to handle my feelings about Sherry..an excepting her with the good and bad traits..CWM4 brings out my most negative thoughts because of my CWM2 experience..I was hurt real bad at that one, i know its over and forgoten but I still worry...Bye
5/2/00 8:28 PM BeanCount good night Pat. I am sorry that my dealings with Sherry may be negatively impacting your friendship. I truly believe that Sherry regards you as one of her best friends, and appreciates all you have done for her. Talk to Nikita, as I said she has good insights....
5/2/00 8:26 PM pat I just want to talk about my feelings on me and Sherry..See what her take is..She will give me honest answers and can look at it from a neutral perspective..I was under the impresion she had a good time in So cal...She readily admits she is a very jealous person. Im going to go relax a little..I got home at 7:00 and i want to go to bed early. good night
5/2/00 8:22 PM BeanCount She's quite good... good insights. Sounded like she had not such a good time with Steve in SoCal.... He has a roving eye...., so I'm not too sure where that stands. What do you need advice about?
5/2/00 8:21 PM pat I plan on talking to her about the whole thing too...She has asked me about her boy friend Steve in the past..on advice and just general discussion..So its her turn to advise me now,,
5/2/00 8:17 PM BeanCount I thank you for giving her my e-mail address..... Those two days were incredible. It was Nikita who told me what Sherry was probably thinking., and how to deal with it.
5/2/00 8:15 PM pat yea the good part of the day was when I got home I had an email from her...She is looking forward to her spanking...She says I am her "agent" now...she feels some security meeting guys through me...I have had several emails from guys that ask me about her.
5/2/00 8:13 PM BeanCount That sucks!!! I don't have to deal with the public.... and usually get to do most of the yelling. LOL... Think of Nikita this Saturday, that will cheer you up. I asked her today if she was so open about telling things to everyone. she said only to you, Dopey and me. That made me feel like I was in damn fine company. What a total sweetheart she is!!!
5/2/00 8:11 PM pat awful day at work..Mostly work politics..lousy impossible job i had today..Getting yelled at by a customer 1st thing this morning, for someone elses mistake...You know that normal everyday stuff...That starts your day off right.
5/2/00 8:09 PM BeanCount You can count on Fly, woodrow, Bashful, me, curious, Rocktroll, BB, Boo? Bad day at work?
5/2/00 8:08 PM pat I think so too..I just emaild him this morning..so it will take a few days before people respond.
5/2/00 8:07 PM BeanCount He's found a girlfriend.... a former working girl. sounds interesting. I'm sure some others will come through for Sherry.
5/2/00 8:07 PM pat Im having trouble smiling to day..Its been one hell of a day...This is good news i couldn't handle bad news today.
5/2/00 8:06 PM BeanCount I had a big smile today.... could hardly wait to tell Nikita and you....
5/2/00 8:06 PM pat No nothing about a girl friend...just about who responded so far
5/2/00 8:05 PM BeanCount Did you get both messages from Cowboy.... including the one about his girlfriend?
5/2/00 8:05 PM pat sounds kool to me...This seems like it might just work out.
5/2/00 8:01 PM BeanCount Lemme know when you receive the e-mails, and what you think.
5/2/00 8:01 PM pat I got the emails..reading now
5/2/00 7:57 PM BeanCount I see that too.... but haven't read yet. Hang on for mail from me to you....
5/2/00 7:56 PM pat I opened my email and got a email from Cowboy...so far only 2 responses on the sherry thing...
5/2/00 7:53 PM BeanCount oh.... well I figured you would forward Nikita to me at CWMC4. I solidified the Saturday overnight with her.... inclucing a dinner with you.
5/2/00 7:53 PM pat xxxxxxx@xxxxxx.com
5/2/00 7:52 PM BeanCount as usual I'm real wordy, and explaining everything.... and sherry is all one-liners. hang on, I hafta open xxxxxxx. Is it xxxxxxxxxx.com?
5/2/00 7:51 PM pat but i would rather you forwarded me Nikita
5/2/00 7:51 PM pat sure
5/2/00 7:51 PM BeanCount oh.... didn't know you were online. want me to forward the exchange?
5/2/00 7:49 PM pat and then what happened
5/2/00 7:48 PM BeanCount ok.... I can't deliver that..... but i had a good e-mail exchange with sherry today. we'd been skirting around the issue of my trip to L.V. and sorta flirting. she sent me a message saying that she was slightly jealous.... I figured that was a good opening to just ask her straight up about Friday and Saturday.
5/2/00 7:19 PM pat do tell what's the magic formula for a CWM4..blast... The only thing i can think of is 3 nights and 4 days with nikita with me.
5/2/00 5:15 PM BeanCount I solved all the problems today.... not kidding. CWMC4 will be a blast. Details to follow...
5/2/00 5:13 PM BeanCount You there Pat?
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 18, 2019 8:23:46 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/3/00 9:30 PM BeanCount good night... 5/3/00 9:29 PM pat could be I'm not sure..I usually get mine back in 6 weeks...I have to go to bed..good night
5/3/00 9:29 PM BeanCount I'm not sure.... sometime in March. It said 10 to 12 weeks possibly.
5/3/00 9:28 PM pat I dont know if it has or not, but i do know she has been spending a lot of money the last 2 weeks...How long as it been since she sent it in.
5/3/00 9:27 PM BeanCount No, she said it didn't come yet. She hasn't mentioned the futon to me.
5/3/00 9:26 PM pat i think she got it and spent it...june 1 she needs $300.00 for the Futton
5/3/00 9:25 PM BeanCount that must be payday. The Oregon refund is still out there somewhere too. $265.
5/3/00 9:24 PM pat she said she will pay me back Friday
5/3/00 9:23 PM BeanCount I know, I'm gonna "lend" the rent deposit. guys like you and me never learn....
5/3/00 9:22 PM BeanCount You did good. For one thing, I seriously doubt if Sherry wants me blabbing about her, and for another I don't need it either.
5/3/00 9:23 PM pat she is broke again..She borrowed $20.00 from me tonight
5/3/00 9:21 PM pat I didn't mention the Sherry thing..Just told him i would be with Nikita thur and fri..That you would be with her Sat.
5/3/00 9:20 PM BeanCount Woodrow knows I'm up to something, but doesn't know about the Sherry thing.... and I don't feel like telling him, and having to explain myself..... etc., etc, etc. I like Woodrow, but don't want to get into that with him.
5/3/00 9:19 PM pat thats what I told him...
5/3/00 9:18 PM BeanCount Woodrow is full of shit. I told Nikita in Vegas that I was assuming she would be with you on Thursday and Friday nights. She told me she thought that would be the case also.
5/3/00 9:17 PM pat I think maybe so...I didn't mention the nikita thing to her
5/3/00 9:16 PM BeanCount ok.... never minding. LOL.... You know I never came right out and told Sherry I was booking Nikita for Saturday. I'm starting to suspect that she hasn't figured it out.... despite my talking all around the subject. Are you thinking the same thing?
5/3/00 9:15 PM pat Ive always thought you were loosing it...Woodrow told me today if I wanted to be with Nikita at CWM4 id better hurry because you had her for the whole weekend
5/3/00 9:15 PM BeanCount No, I don't know them.
5/3/00 9:14 PM BeanCount I think I ICQ'ed her about the room earlier from the office. that is when I confused her, but I think I got it straight with her just a few minutes ago. I can see why you were confused. You probably thought I was "losing it"
5/3/00 9:14 PM pat never mind
5/3/00 9:13 PM pat do you know the call letters for Southwest airlines
5/3/00 9:12 PM BeanCount That's a good one you pulled on her !!!! LOL....
5/3/00 9:12 PM pat OH she told me this at dinner tonight about you getting her a room..she said you emailed her about it.
5/3/00 9:11 PM BeanCount That conversation was just a few minutes ago....
5/3/00 9:11 PM pat I told her he never called..although he did...She thinks he coped out on her now
5/3/00 9:10 PM BeanCount That was it on the room issue. she also told me about the cats, and getting Woodrow to prank you today.
5/3/00 9:10 PM pat Now I'm really confused..she must have been sleeping when you had that conversation
5/3/00 9:09 PM BeanCount Sherry (ICQ#13072320) Wrote: I understand
5/3/00 9:09 PM BeanCount I need to have a room where I am the registered guest for one thing, in case of any emergency here, and someone needs to contact me. Remember this was the same way in Portland at that place. Also I need a room for Saturday. Anyway I reserved a jacuzzi suite. They are pretty cheap in Reno.
5/3/00 9:09 PM BeanCount Sherry (ICQ#13072320) Wrote: oh ok....I get it...ha ah
5/3/00 9:08 PM BeanCount You don't..... the group is buying you airfare and lodging, and Pat is making the arrangements for you. the room I got today was for me. am I making any sense?
5/3/00 9:08 PM BeanCount Sherry (ICQ#13072320) Wrote: uuhhh...why do I need 2 rooms???
5/3/00 9:08 PM BeanCount Pat is supposed to.... that would be the room "the group" is getting for you. I got a room today also, by coincidence.
5/3/00 9:08 PM BeanCount Sherry (ICQ#13072320) Wrote: why would there be? Pat thinks he is getting me a room....I'm lost
5/3/00 9:08 PM BeanCount Was there confusion about the room I got today?
5/3/00 9:08 PM pat OK
5/3/00 9:07 PM BeanCount I'm going to forward the exchange we had about the room.... see if it's confusing to you.
5/3/00 9:06 PM pat I dont know i was confused when she told me you bought the room
5/3/00 9:06 PM BeanCount Yeah I agree. I probably need to call her. What I told her was that I needed a room in my name.... as I told you, and that I needed a room for Saturday night. She replied that she understood, but I'm wondering if she really does.
5/3/00 9:03 PM pat I told her i would get her a room..I asked if she wanted a doubl or single she said she didn't care...You might want to make sure you are both on the same wave lenth
5/3/00 9:02 PM BeanCount Yes I know.... I told her that dinner would be with you I figured, but the over nighter would be a bit too crowded with you. I wimped out on explaining all that to Sherry in ICQ, but maybe I should give her a call?? It's not clear to me how she got confused about the room. Was she thinking we (she and I) would be sleeping in the same room? I have no problem with that on Friday.... but Saturday I would.
5/3/00 8:58 PM pat plus Saturday night could be a problem...You and Nikita cannot stay with me..
5/3/00 8:57 PM BeanCount I explained the room thing to Sherry. I need to have a room in my own name.... in case of an emergency here at home. Plus I obviously can't let the group pay for a room for Sherry and then stay in it myself.
5/3/00 8:44 PM BeanCount No, thank you... Not even a goldfish?
5/3/00 8:45 PM pat sherry Wrote: hi pat, it's me Trevor......you make me want to be a better cat.
5/3/00 8:43 PM pat do you need 2 cats?
5/3/00 8:42 PM pat no pets
5/3/00 8:42 PM BeanCount Can't they live in the new place?
5/3/00 8:42 PM pat she says it will take that long for them to get use to being away..then I can let them rome the neighborhood and all i have to do is put food out by the door.
5/3/00 8:40 PM BeanCount Why two weeks.... sounds like some kind of quarantine or something.
5/3/00 8:39 PM pat thats what I thought....She wants me to babysit her cats for 2 weeks when she moves..I told her i would think about it...They have to stay in the house for 2 weeks
5/3/00 8:37 PM BeanCount she has it right, and that is a mis-understanding if she thought I was talking about getting her room today. I only got the one.
5/3/00 8:35 PM pat NO she told me she was going to the dinner Friday but Saturday she wanted to be on her own...I told her i was geting her room and that you got yours..She said he told me he got mine...
5/3/00 8:34 PM BeanCount Does she think she's staying with me? won't that get a bit crowded on Saturday. I think you are bullshittin' me?
5/3/00 8:33 PM BeanCount Was it part of a package deal with air tix?
5/3/00 8:33 PM pat I was trying to scare you....Sherry told me you got her room today...I said No he got his room..She said NO he got mine....I didn't do it yet ..
5/3/00 8:31 PM BeanCount cool, I got mine today. I spoke to William, the gay guy.
5/3/00 8:31 PM pat I got Sherry's room reservation today
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 19, 2019 11:04:35 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/5/00 10:43 PM BeanCount good night Pat. Aren't you glad that we have it all figured out now? LOL...
5/5/00 10:41 PM pat ok good night
5/5/00 10:41 PM BeanCount ok.... tell her I said Hi, and that I'm still smiling.
5/5/00 10:39 PM pat I have to get to bed ..Big day tomorrow
5/5/00 10:39 PM pat your welcome
5/5/00 10:38 PM BeanCount fine, thank you
5/5/00 10:38 PM pat is that the top of the line...
5/5/00 10:37 PM BeanCount I got a "grand jacuzzi suite.... I think it's $149 per night.... or something close to that.
5/5/00 10:37 PM pat hi my Garys wife how are you tonight
5/5/00 10:37 PM BeanCount Write a message saying hello to my wife.... she wants to know who I am talking to.....
5/5/00 10:36 PM pat how much did you pay for your room?
5/5/00 10:36 PM BeanCount OK.... I guess he is still trolling for people to participate... I'll pay a double or triple share, or whatever you think is fair.
5/5/00 10:34 PM pat very few...only Southwest flies N/S anymore the rest go to seatlle or salt lake... Im not sure yet..I will book it next week. I will pay nikitas...I will Email cowboy with total cost for room and air sometime next week
5/5/00 10:33 PM BeanCount How much was Sherry's airfare? You say I don't need to share with Nakita's?
5/5/00 10:32 PM BeanCount Maybe I'll book her for Sunday night? Then again, she may be exhausted and need a break. Are there several non-stop flights?
5/5/00 10:31 PM pat My flight home is at 1:35..we are on different flights..Nikitas is unknown yet..depends if she books for sunday night or monday
5/5/00 10:30 PM BeanCount ok.... I told her I would pick her up at the airport, and return her there if necessary. Will you all be on the flight home? Who is sitting by whom? LOL....
5/5/00 10:28 PM pat sherry will be getting to Reno at 12:15 and leaving on Sunday at 5:45
5/5/00 10:27 PM BeanCount That sounds like a good plan. She is still worried about the BBQ, because it is more open to the public. Maybe you can advise her better than I could. She is ok with the dinner I'm sure.
5/5/00 10:25 PM pat I was planing on taking Nikita to the BQ...After that she would be on her own....I will talk to her tomorow about this.
5/5/00 10:23 PM BeanCount No, no times discussed. I'm in the pool for Sherry as you know. I'll do whatever you think is fair there, but remember we have to keep that on the QT, as she didn't want me to pay.... so she won't be beholden to me, or something?
5/5/00 10:21 PM pat have you 2 talked about a time you were suspose to meet.? Not for nikita but you should pay a good part of the fair for Sherry..
5/5/00 10:19 PM BeanCount It's not going to be easy.... I realize. do you think I should help pay the airfare?
5/5/00 10:18 PM BeanCount NO!!!! LOL..... I was hoping for afternoon???
5/5/00 10:16 PM pat I was going to turn her over to you at midnight?...lol
5/5/00 10:15 PM BeanCount hmmmm..... I don't know, but I don't really expect Sherry to come. would you feel awkward or bad about bringing her, and she leaves with me.... or is it better if I bring her?
5/5/00 10:14 PM pat So am i bringing Nikita to the sat dinner or are you?? will it be me and nikita meeting you and Sherry or you and Nikita meeting me and Sherry/
5/5/00 10:13 PM BeanCount oh, ok.... just those two times. One pretty good, and the other a disaster. the thing is I KNOW Nakita is a sure thing great time
5/5/00 10:12 PM BeanCount Sherry will be invited to the dinner on Saturday. Whether she goes or not is up to her. I fully expect her to spend the day and evening with Tara and her other friends..... Geez, now I can't wait to go to see how it all turns out.
5/5/00 10:11 PM pat I was just speaking about the times you actually met...
5/5/00 10:10 PM BeanCount I guess you never heard about the other times.... that got called off. My favorite was because she had to take the cat to the vetnerian.... then she asked me for the money for the vet. One of the few times I said no.
5/5/00 10:10 PM pat is sherry going to the dinner on Saturday?.Yes i hope to introduce them...She always wishes me well when i tell her im going to see Nikita..It will be strange though...Niether one of us has really seen each other with a different date.
5/5/00 10:07 PM BeanCount Will you be introducing Nakita to Sherry at the dinner? what about dinner on Saturday?
5/5/00 10:08 PM pat well lets see you met her 1 time and it was Ok ..you met her the 2nd time and it was a disaster...50 50 sounds about right...I think it might depend on who she meets at the dinner...and how much attention they pay to her.
5/5/00 10:05 PM BeanCount Rohzan .... LOL I think her visit has been really good for Sherry.... I hope her departure won't be too much of a letdown, and throw Sherry into a funk.
5/5/00 10:04 PM BeanCount In the back of my mind is this nagging doubt that Sherry is going to really disappoint me on Friday at CWMC4. It's just that she has done it several times..... If that happens I am really going to "need" Nakita on Saturday.
5/5/00 10:03 PM pat Rajod is due back tomorrow...She is going to miss her alot when she leaves..She is the only really close girl friend she as had around in a long time...
5/5/00 10:02 PM BeanCount She's been in a good mood for a while. Nice to me also....
5/5/00 10:01 PM pat we went to sinco de Mayo tonight...I think I need to go puke.. Sherry as been amazingly nice to me lately...Its making me nervous...
5/5/00 10:00 PM BeanCount I'm torn by this Sherry thing.... as it relates to Nakita. I feel like I am treading on ice. can you tell?
5/5/00 10:00 PM BeanCount NO... By telling him what a great guy he is, but that there are just no "vibes" there, and she would rather be friends than have him as a client. She's afraid he will write bad things about her, but I told her that she has so many admirers that he would be drowned out, or too embarrassed to write anything bad.
5/5/00 9:58 PM pat yea something suttle like ..FUCK NO you idiot
5/5/00 9:57 PM BeanCount We talked about Geo at some length. She doesn't want to see him again. I advised her of a way to let him down gently. I hope she does that.
5/5/00 9:56 PM pat your about the 6th out of 7 including myself..that has said she is the best ever...The only dummy being Geo
5/5/00 9:55 PM BeanCount I got a message from Sherry about this also. I told her to just sit tight, as perhaps the lady went out for a while. I have my fingers crossed tightly for her. This sounds like a great opportunity for Sherry to get started on a real career!!!
5/5/00 9:53 PM BeanCount Nakita thinks we're hilarious with all this intrigue. She told me she can't wait for CWMC4..... just to see how it all turns out. I owe her a lenghty e-mail about my impressions of the Las Vegas trip. She remarked that I was "spoiling" her, but I think she deserves to be spoiled. I told her she was "the best ever", and I meant it.... better than Katherine..... at least to me. Not as "skilled" perhaps, but way more "real" and down to earth.
5/5/00 9:52 PM pat the 2nd interview wasn't as positive...They were suppose to call tonight and let her know one way or the other..They called but didn't leave a message..Just the ladies cell #..she called but got user not available...I don''t know what that means ..Did she get the job or not.
5/5/00 9:49 PM BeanCount I probably would.... just to avoid a big hassle/confrontation. If it happens, I'll contact you and Nakita immediately. I know that Nakita is a "sure thing".
5/5/00 9:47 PM BeanCount I think that seeing Nakita just might be the highlight of cwmc4 for me. I have thought that for a long time, and the Las Vegas trip just makes me think it more. The whole issue with Sherry has caught me by surprise. I am being greedy too, because I want my cake (Sherry) and eat it too (Nakita)..... this is a horrible metaphor, but I hope you know what I'm saying.... LOL...
5/5/00 9:47 PM pat I'll talk to her about it tomorrow..I all ready have her for thurs and Fri...If Sherry does wake up on Saturday morning and says she wants to stay with you Saturday night..would you cancel with Nikita
5/5/00 9:44 PM BeanCount ok, I was wondering where you were coming from. You are thinking that perhaps Sherry will want to stay with me for a second night, and I am thinking she won't even stay for one. LOL.... I am in my pessimistic mood now. I also don't really want to go to a brothel, but who knows? Whatever we say now, it will probably change. Why don't you go ahead and book Nakita for Thurs. & Fri., and we can "play it by ear" if that is ok with Nakita.
5/5/00 9:40 PM pat yes! i was being greedy...I figured you and sherry might hook up Saturday night ..If that is the case I would want to see if Nikita will stay with me...To be honest with you I think Sat. night might be boring for me..I have No desire to go get laid in the Brothels..So I was going to ask Nikita about Sat. I wanted your take on it 1st..
5/5/00 5:24 PM BeanCount I know that was a legitimate question, so why am I feeling like a shithead for answering the way I did? Different subject: It is almost certain that sherry found a new job today.... and the pay starts at $12 per hour!!!! She should be at her 2nd interview for this job right now. Keep your fingers crossed.
5/5/00 5:21 PM BeanCount Having said that, though, I am curious about what you are thinking now. Are you thinking about flying down Friday instead of Thursday?
5/5/00 5:20 PM BeanCount You asked me an honest question, and I'll give you an honest answer..... as best I can. Yes, I would likely be somewhat upset, as I believe that she and I already have an "arrangement" for Saturday. Are you getting greedy? LOL.... Btw... I still think Sherry is at best a 50/50 for Friday. Maybe I'm just a pessimist, but she's backed out too many times before.
5/5/00 5:03 PM pat I'm going to be gone till about 10 tonight..will be up and about in AM...I have a question for you...If i wanted to have Nikita Sat night also would you be upset...Its only a question...I would only do it if you were ok with it.
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 19, 2019 17:05:12 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/7/00 2:42 PM BeanCount I saw that. Later... 5/7/00 2:38 PM pat ok woodrow just called UB GAY..bye
5/7/00 2:38 PM BeanCount From that I assume that you are talking about Nikita, and you are 100% correct. I really enjoyed just walking around with her, having meals and talking, etc. I gotta go....
5/7/00 2:36 PM pat OH shit i wonder who did....it just disappeared..the bottom line was she is great to have sex with and great to just hang out with
5/7/00 2:35 PM BeanCount No, didn't get it....
5/7/00 2:35 PM pat did you just get half a message from me??I fucked up i think
5/7/00 2:32 PM BeanCount I could be wrong about the Board. Not really sure..... I'll check.
5/7/00 2:31 PM BeanCount I've seen her three times now.... once in-house, and twice off the books. all have been fantastic!!! All three times there has never been a lull in the conversation..... and I find that amazing.
5/7/00 2:30 PM pat I dont remember seeing it on the board..Only a few people i know have it and she okeyed all of those...
5/7/00 2:29 PM BeanCount I haven't given her e-mail address to anyone..... but I think I may have seen it posted on the Board? I kinda remember seeing it, and being surprised.
5/7/00 2:29 PM pat I have never had a bad time or anything but a great time with her...Even when I'm in a bummer mood her magic gets me feeling real good
5/7/00 2:27 PM BeanCount I guess... and it's too bad. Nikita was really worried that I would cancel? I had a helluva time in Las Vegas..... It was better than I ever could have imagined.
5/7/00 2:25 PM BeanCount A work trip to Reno? You said she'd be there on the 12th....
5/7/00 2:27 PM pat have you given Nikitas email address to anybody???she has gotten a couple of emails from guys she doesn't know...She wants to keep her Emails to just the guys she knows. She starts the 12th...but has an arrangement on wed. and thursday is doctor and check in day
5/7/00 2:25 PM BeanCount She was fine at the airport. It was perfectly logical for her to get testy with people trying to be served first when she was in line before them. That Alaska ticket counter was all fucked up with people working at supposedly closed stations....
5/7/00 2:24 PM pat its what she is attracted to...She will pick out guys when I'm with her..I haven't seen one yet that i would call a catch.
5/7/00 2:23 PM BeanCount Hippy boy was before me. He called her one time after, because he was homeless and wanted to sleep on her sofa. She turned him down.... rather harshly as I recall. Where does she find losers like that? LOL....
5/7/00 2:22 PM pat she will be in Reno Wednesday...then she wont have much email access
5/7/00 2:21 PM BeanCount Why did you mention that I would hear from Nikita before Wednesday? Is there some significance to that day?
5/7/00 2:22 PM pat Nikita mentioned you got to see one side of her temper at the airport while buying tickets...She can get nasty
5/7/00 2:20 PM BeanCount I agree on the enhancement. I think she is great as is... and told her so. she may be doing it for more than business reasons.... like to help her self-esteem.
5/7/00 2:20 PM pat That's probably true...Hippy boy is the only other guy she has gone out with...Their was one other guy but I dont think they had sex...
5/7/00 2:19 PM BeanCount Sherry told me in an e-mail..... and I believe her..... that she has not had sex with another person since having sex with me.... that is over a year ago. I didn't ask her why she has chosen to be celibate so long... but I probably will later. I think her obsession with trying to please Ad is part of the problem.
5/7/00 2:18 PM pat I told her to think about it a lot...I don't recommend it...but its for her to decide...I told her if she is only doing it to increase business i don't think that is a good idea..
5/7/00 2:17 PM BeanCount Yes, she mentioned the breast enhancement the first time I was with her. In Vegas she said she wanted to put off the decision for a while.
5/7/00 2:16 PM BeanCount that's what I'm thinking.... but in the e-mail to her I mentioned that flights from Sacto. to Portland are very inexpensive. Southwest and Alaska have fare wars all the time on that route.
5/7/00 2:15 PM pat did she talk to you about her thinking about breast enlargements
5/7/00 2:15 PM BeanCount I thought her acne was much better also.... she has to go off the accutane for a while.... then start it back up.
5/7/00 2:14 PM pat sure
5/7/00 2:14 PM BeanCount Can you keep a very big secret?? NO ONE MUST KNOW !!!!! It's about Sherry and sex.....
5/7/00 2:14 PM pat the best times might be before her Reno stay or right after..
5/7/00 2:13 PM BeanCount I would greatly prefer to see her away from the brothel.... She has me very spoiled.
5/7/00 2:13 PM pat I was very impressed with Nikita when she answered the door in a peek a boo negligee...she was really looking good last night..Her acne is really improved..
5/7/00 2:11 PM BeanCount I will not change my mind. Sherry has been a good friend for a while now. I have been with other LPIN's in that time frame, with no jealous reaction from her. I think her reaction related more to the trip.... rather than Nikita. As far as sex goes.... Sherry is not in Nikita's league.....
5/7/00 2:10 PM pat she will be in reno from the 12th to the 22nd.. then home for 2 weeks then back to Reno..She is not sure about July...I plan on seeing her on may 27th or June 3
5/7/00 2:08 PM BeanCount I also do not want to wait until July to see Nikita again. I'm putting my devious mind to work to figure out a way to see her between now and then.
5/7/00 2:09 PM pat you should get a reply before Wed. she had some concerns about you changing your mind at the last moment..
5/7/00 2:07 PM BeanCount That is my intention.... to be with Nikita Saturday night. I feel that if Sherry objects in any way it would not be right or fair.... I also think I need to make my intentions known to Sherry well in advance of CWMC4. I sent Nikita a long-winded e-mail about the Las Vegas trip just about an hour ago. In there I also mentioned the Saturday at CWMC4.
5/7/00 2:04 PM pat we talked about Sat..She will email you about that...She wants to make sure if you book you will be there, no matter what sherry decides.
5/7/00 2:02 PM BeanCount I think I'm definitely booked for an over nighter on Saturday with her. A couple of times I've thought that I should tell sherry about it, and let the chips fall where they may. Gonna tell me what those answers were?
5/7/00 1:59 PM pat I will definitely be with her on thursday and at the dinner friday...The picnic we will play by ear...Im feeling confidant that the whole thing will go well...We had a lot of the same questions for each other and were in agreement about the answers.
5/7/00 1:56 PM BeanCount Did you get everything straightened out? I'm depending on you.
5/7/00 1:55 PM pat you, sherry,cwm4,sex,me an nikita
5/7/00 1:54 PM BeanCount That sounds familiar. LOL... What did you talk about?
5/7/00 1:53 PM pat we fucked we sucked..we spanked...then talked alot
5/7/00 1:53 PM BeanCount I can't wait for your report...
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 20, 2019 12:37:32 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/9/00 9:03 PM BeanCount yup....
5/9/00 9:03 PM pat makes sense to me..skip work then ask for a raise... Good night
5/9/00 9:02 PM BeanCount Something will happen to fuck it up. It will need constant care, attention and nursing. LOL.... Good night Pat.... Sherry ICQ'ed me that she is going to ask for a raise tomorrow....
5/9/00 9:00 PM pat with CWM4 all taken care of no more problems..what are we going to talk about for the next 70 days..kind of like the old married folks after the kids leave I have to get to bed this is going to be the month from hell at work
5/9/00 9:00 PM BeanCount I don't believe I will have that opportunity. At a restaurant Sherry has been fine. I was remembering a room service meal that she devoured. She was certainly hungry..... LOL...
5/9/00 8:58 PM pat tell me about it..we have been eating together about once a week for 4 yrs...actually she does have good table manners..you want an eating experience take AD to dinner sometime
5/9/00 8:56 PM BeanCount I've seen her eat... Not a pretty sight.
5/9/00 8:56 PM pat Sherry will eat a raw stake..blood dripping
5/9/00 8:54 PM BeanCount I'm not sure what he was thinking. The idea of deposits is to discourage people from reserving, and then cancelling out after the order is placed with the restaurant. I doubt if he gets many deposits. Most serious people will pay in full.
5/9/00 8:52 PM BeanCount Yah... I got that one from him too, but he ICQ'ed that Curious was in that same night.
5/9/00 8:53 PM pat It doesn't make sense to make payments on a 27.00 item...Do we get a discount if we pay it all at once...saving IB all that bookkeeping
5/9/00 8:51 PM BeanCount oh.... the way IB wrote that it makes it look like two payments are required.... one a deposit, then final payment. I'm gonna pay it all at once.... same as you.
5/9/00 8:51 PM pat the last email from Cowboy was may 3 to people Bashful and rocktrol
5/9/00 8:50 PM pat it is..i was just using ball park figure
5/9/00 8:49 PM BeanCount I thought it was $27 per person? I better go back and read the fine print....
5/9/00 8:48 PM pat I all ready made mine and Nikitas....I will send the check this weekend..I requested a hamburger and fries....30.00 hamburger it better be good.
5/9/00 8:47 PM BeanCount me neither... He's on the road working now. Sometimes he's on ICQ late at night. I'll look for him, and ask about it. Also IB has posted that dinner reservations can be made now.
5/9/00 8:46 PM pat NO! haven't heard from him in a while...
5/9/00 8:45 PM BeanCount Do you know how much he has so far?
5/9/00 8:44 PM pat I figured around 500.00.....200.00 for gift certificate..and a 300.00 gift....I figure we could by her a 1 hr party with one of the donators
5/9/00 8:42 PM BeanCount On the gift.... I told Cowboy that whatever he collected, I would make up the difference to get it to $550. That was the amount collected for Tessa. BIG talk by me..... but I think it should be done "right".... or not at all.
5/9/00 8:40 PM pat I emailed Cowboy gave him the cost of Sherrys trip..$406.00 I haven't heard anything back yet...I also asked him for a ball park figure of how much he thought we might get towards the gift
5/9/00 8:39 PM BeanCount Yeah, that conversation would probably go nowhere fast. LOL.... Keep track of what I owe on all your arrangements. I guess it sorta depends on how many people are in the "Sherry pool"?
5/9/00 8:36 PM pat I dont want to wait till the last moment to get my cash...We are being bought out at the end of May....It could cause some delays....I dont think Nikita would except the excuse ..Sorry sweety the market fell I can't pay you
5/9/00 8:34 PM BeanCount Why June 15?
5/9/00 8:34 PM pat they go up and down like a yoyo,,in the long run they have done good...I'm hoping that it goes back up by june 15th...or else i will have to sell for whatever its at.
5/9/00 8:33 PM BeanCount I wasn't aware that telco stocks were so volatile. LOL....
5/9/00 8:32 PM pat I was planning of funding my CWM4 by selling some freebie stock the company gave me..I put in a sale order in for 75..00 when it was at 73.00..It is now 64.00 boy do i know how to play the market.... Your right about missing work...the fastest way to get fired...
5/9/00 8:31 PM BeanCount Maybe I should be like Billpayer and ask her to fly here. I'll put her up in a nice hotel, and get some "payback".... j/k, but it has crossed my mind.
5/9/00 8:30 PM BeanCount You may be right. There was NO news on the job front today.... just her own mood swings at play. I hope she gets that job, as it sounded like a good career opportunity. She needs to get self-discipline, and start taking these jobs seriously. Being absent so often is the kiss of death.....
5/9/00 8:28 PM BeanCount Yah.... went out and partied.... movie and ?? with Rohzan again last night. They got home after midnight.... that's when Rohzan came online. (Like I can talk, I stayed up until 1:00 am), but I was at work at 8.
5/9/00 8:28 PM pat Today she didn't sound too possitve about the new job...I don't think it will make a difference....10.00 or 20.00 per hour she will still be broke and the bills won't be paid
5/9/00 8:26 PM BeanCount Her spending is out of control... She can't seem to grasp that controlling the spending is the way to get her finances under control. As you pointed out, lots of people make a go on $9 per hour.... even single moms with kids.
5/9/00 8:25 PM pat not to mention that she took the day off without pay today...
5/9/00 8:24 PM BeanCount I'll ask her at the dinner, really loudly. Could be the start of a food fight. I think she's going to ask me to "help" with her moving costs also.. she just casually tossed out a figure of $165 and said she was getting "stressed' about the move and paying her bills. She just told me yesterday that she spent a ton of money over the weekend entertaining Rozhan. She just got paid on Friday, and apparently didn't
pay her bills, except rent?
5/9/00 8:20 PM BeanCount Sherry is waaaaaaaay more expensive than Nikita, and
I don't get sucked or fucked..... and if/when I do I don't enjoy it . Maybe Nikita is right, and there is something inside me that "needs" this.....
5/9/00 8:20 PM pat just wait till right before the CWM4 dinner and ask her for it then...That should make for an exciting time...lol
5/9/00 8:19 PM BeanCount Today she asked me about the Oregon refund of $265. I gave her the 800 number to call to inquire on it. she called, and they told her she should have it in two weeks. She said she needs that money in order to pay for her futon.... COMPLETELY IGNORING THE FACT THAT SHE PROMISED TO PAY ME THE $115 FROM THAT SAME REFUND. Of course I was supposed to get the $115 from the $2,600 refund also.
5/9/00 8:17 PM pat pretty close..I could live without the money, but would rather not....I think she will pay me back...I will loan it but if she doesn't pay back I will be very very very pissed. I got sherry, Nikita and myself all booked..About a $1000.00 total
5/9/00 8:14 PM BeanCount lemme guess.... that would be your Nikita party money, and you're shit out of luck if you don't get paid back in time? That's a pretty good deal actually... at least you have A CHANCE of getting repaid.
5/9/00 8:12 PM pat wrongO..she want to borrow $600.00 on the 27th for her new rent..will pay me back 0n the 5th of june
5/9/00 8:11 PM BeanCount ok, I'll take a shot at it. Whether to confront Sherry about the deceit before or after cwm?
5/9/00 8:08 PM pat i have a decision to make any guesses on what it might be
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5/8/00 6:19 PM BeanCount Pat.... call her now.
5/8/00 5:26 PM pat xxx xxx xxxx
5/8/00 5:25 PM BeanCount that's plenty early enough..... (xxx) xxx-xxxx or I can call you at -? All alone here now....
5/8/00 5:24 PM pat she scheduled to arrive at 12:15..I'm going to call the airline in a few minutes to confirm the flights.
5/8/00 5:23 PM BeanCount I'm assuming so.... but as you have taught me well, nothing is EVER a done deal where Sherry is concerned. LOL....
5/8/00 5:22 PM pat I thought the dinner was a done deal?
5/8/00 5:22 PM BeanCount If Sherry decides ultimately to go to the dinner, I'm going to surprise her with a shopping trip that Friday (if her flight is early enough) to get her a new dress & etc. to wear. Keep this a secret from her, ok?
5/8/00 5:20 PM BeanCount I haven't talked to Nikita yet today. I'm waiting for everyone to clear out of here first. Just one guy plus me as of now. Yep I thought it worked out well. If Sherry doesn't go... or changes her mind.... or whatever, then I'm back to where I was before, and that is fine with me. You take Nikita TO the BBQ.... I'll take her FROM the BBQ??? I'm sure we'll figure something out.... including dinner.
5/8/00 5:17 PM pat Have you talked to nikita yet? I think this is the best solution...I have to call her tonight too..I'm booking the flight and hotel room.... me and nikita on Thursday and Friday you with her on Sat..we can work out the change over later..
5/8/00 5:15 PM BeanCount Had to beat the 5:30 pickup...
5/8/00 5:14 PM BeanCount I'm back....
5/8/00 5:07 PM pat ok
5/8/00 5:07 PM BeanCount Hey Pat.... I'll be back in a few minutes. I need to go to the post office....
5/8/00 5:05 PM pat hello
5/8/00 4:18 PM BeanCount I sent an e-mail to your xxxxxxx account.
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 21, 2019 10:09:12 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/14/00 5:54 PM BeanCount ok Pat.... talk to ya later. GREAT PICS !!! 5/14/00 5:53 PM pat It takes about half an hour from Sherrys house...We went and had steak and eggs then headed out...The big breakfast was a mistake just before a climb.. I have to get some laundry done and rest..My body will be very sore in the morning
5/14/00 5:52 PM BeanCount How far is it to drive?
5/14/00 5:51 PM BeanCount ROFL, ROFL, ROFL..... I would suggest that UB (and a few others) be seated in a different restaurant..... Yes, I'm the one that told Sherry about the boy/girl/boy/girl arrangement. That should keep you away from UB.... or would it? LOL...
5/14/00 5:50 PM pat actually the weather was perfect for the climb..Not to hot but very nice
5/14/00 5:49 PM pat sherry said that he wanted to seat boy girl boy girl...I think it should be 1st come 1st serve and we pick our own seats...I don't want to get stuck next to UB like I did last year
5/14/00 5:48 PM BeanCount It was cloudy at the falls?
5/14/00 5:48 PM BeanCount I don't know, but I bet he assumed it was Sherry. I think we crossed him up. LOL.... I asked him to seat you and Nikita by Sherry and I. (he was thinking of having assigned seating.)
5/14/00 5:46 PM pat So I wonder who he thought I was taking?
5/14/00 5:45 PM BeanCount It will take a while to get that long. Looks kinda short to me.... IB was all over me to tell him who I was taking to the dinner. I finally told him after he guessed Bree and Nikita. He seemed really happy that Sherry is coming.
5/14/00 5:44 PM pat i like it she is letting it grow then will braide it
5/14/00 5:43 PM BeanCount NO, she didn't tell me.... This is my first look at her "new" hair.... I think it looks good..
5/14/00 5:42 PM pat did she tell you she dyed her hair..Its bright red with blonde streaks
5/14/00 5:41 PM pat being a kid with is buddies...
5/14/00 5:41 PM BeanCount She looks very relaxed and happy in these three pictures she sent me!!! These are now three of my favorites of her. where is Ad?
5/14/00 5:40 PM pat YES! this weekend was one of the best I've had with Sherry in a long time...We spent all our time alone without AD...Today was a blast
5/14/00 5:38 PM BeanCount oh.... Is this the "official" vote now?
5/14/00 5:38 PM pat they want an Email address....I'm not sure how they keep track
5/14/00 5:37 PM BeanCount No, I Haven't voted yet. Do I only get one vote.... or one vote per ISP? LOL... I have two ISP's here, and a third one at work.
5/14/00 5:36 PM pat have you voted yet? Kittys and Nikita
5/14/00 5:35 PM BeanCount No.... I think it's down. Woodrow couldn't get on either. This morning it was really slow loading...
5/14/00 5:34 PM pat have you been able to get on the board ?
5/14/00 5:33 PM pat I didn't get a chance to touch them up yet..Some are a little dark
5/14/00 5:32 PM BeanCount LOL..... I've received two of them so far..... Your camera takes very nice pics.....
5/14/00 5:32 PM pat Im exhausted..Sherry wore me out..We took 46 pics..
5/14/00 5:29 PM BeanCount Yikes !!! the whole month?
5/14/00 5:29 PM pat month from hell wont be over till end of may
5/14/00 5:28 PM BeanCount How you doing btw? Got through the work week from hell?
5/14/00 5:18 PM BeanCount I have it Pat.... thanks anyway....
5/14/00 5:16 PM BeanCount Wait... she's sending them by e-mail.
5/14/00 5:15 PM pat hang on
5/14/00 5:13 PM BeanCount Pat, would you please send the pictures from Sherry. I'm having trouble receiving and viewing. Thanks...
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5/11/00 7:03 PM BeanCount If it does..... uh.... it was nice knowing ya. Tell Nikita I said bye.... LOL.... Good night...
5/11/00 7:02 PM BeanCount I guess... Nice summary. LOL....
5/11/00 7:02 PM pat OK..have fun...don't get hit in the head with a foul ball..It might knock some sense into you.. Bye
5/11/00 7:01 PM BeanCount I gotta get going.... going to a baseball game. Have a nice evening Pat.
5/11/00 7:01 PM pat 10 yrs in a whore house will do this to you..money party sex and drugs...she doesn't party, have sex or do drugs...Hasn't kicked the money thing yet though
5/11/00 7:00 PM BeanCount Was she rich in a previous life? Where did she get these spending habits? She really lacks self-discipline. Sexist remark, but she needs a man to take care of her.
5/11/00 6:58 PM BeanCount $60 a moth on rentals..... that's a hell of a lot, isn't it??
5/11/00 6:59 PM pat no afternoon flight.... Yes and she always returns them late and get s fines..There goes those priorities
5/11/00 6:57 PM BeanCount Usually those fees are $75..... She would miss the dinner. was there an afternoon flight in case she can only get half a day off? I'm not sure why we're thinking this.... she will call in sick.... she does it all the time. LOL....
5/11/00 6:57 PM pat when we went to Cinco de Mayo she spent close to 60.00 that nigh just on rides...plus she spend about 60.00 a month on movie rentals..
5/11/00 6:56 PM BeanCount I don't doubt that. she told me she spent way too much while Rohzan was here.... but felt that she might not see her again for a long time, so that justified it in her mind.
5/11/00 6:56 PM pat their is one at 7:00PM, but a fee for the change..If it's even available
5/11/00 6:54 PM BeanCount I'm not sure. Was there a later flight???
5/11/00 6:55 PM pat she doesn't get paid again till..June 5th...what is she going to do between now and then...I'll bet she as spent 200.00 to 300.00 in the last 2 weeks on entertainment
5/11/00 6:53 PM BeanCount She could have paid three month's worth with that day's pay. Will she ever learn how the world works? I keep talking, but doubt if much is sinking in.
5/11/00 6:52 PM BeanCount You mentioned that work would be brutal. she went and played basketball last evening with a group of women and kids. she claims not to be sore today, but I didn't believe her.
5/11/00 6:52 PM pat what happens if she gets another job and she can't get that friday off for CWM4? Orgys loose a lot of intimicy...Thats the best part of being with Nikita
5/11/00 6:51 PM BeanCount Last I talked to him he wasn't sure. They were talking about having some sort of orgy on Saturday night..... fly wanted me to bring Nikita. I am a greedy motherfucker, and I'm not sharing. She told me that although she enjoys two girl parties sometimes, group scenes are not something she is interested in. I'm also not interested..... at least when it comes to her.
5/11/00 6:50 PM pat the one day she took off work could have paid for a lot of that ISP fee
5/11/00 6:49 PM pat she didn't mention that to me..I talked to her earlier tonight...I cancelled our dinner this week..Work as got me really worn out.
5/11/00 6:48 PM BeanCount Sherry got her ISP cut off..... for non-payment.
5/11/00 6:48 PM pat so he isn't going to stay in the condo...
5/11/00 6:47 PM BeanCount I'm with you on that one.... I'd rather be alone and naked. LOL He offered his place in the condo to me. I had to respectfully decline.
5/11/00 6:46 PM pat he is staying with fly and those guys at the condo....Personally I would think that sucks..If I'm going to have a lady with me I would much rather be alone with her..
5/11/00 6:45 PM BeanCount It's possible she'll come with him for at least part of CWMC4.
5/11/00 6:44 PM BeanCount Yeah, he's involved with Crystal, a former working girl who later owned the Stardust? in Ely or Elko.... or someplace like that.
5/11/00 6:43 PM pat he's in a relationship now isn't he?....he's probably more concerned about that than whats going to happen at CWM4..he'll come around when the time gets closer..
5/11/00 6:41 PM BeanCount I haven't seen him online.... but then I've been going to bed early.
5/11/00 6:41 PM pat no haven't heard a thing
5/11/00 6:40 PM BeanCount Did you hear back from Cowboy yet?
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 22, 2019 11:34:09 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/15/00 7:05 PM BeanCount I'm eating now.... pizza. Talk to you later....
5/15/00 7:04 PM pat I got to go my body is sore...I need to go eat..
5/15/00 7:04 PM BeanCount Yeah, he was fucking with you.... I told him in an e-mail, and asked him to seat you two by Sherry and I, because I think the conversation would be interesting.
5/15/00 7:01 PM pat so why didn't he know?? was he fucking with me... .HE said he would participate on the Sherry thing, but didn't sound to enthusiastic about it.
5/15/00 7:00 PM BeanCount I already told him who you were bringing. didn't know it was still a secret....
5/15/00 6:59 PM pat he guessed Nikita or Shwana Ray...I told him it was secret stuff...I would surprise him..He called me an ASSHOLE
5/15/00 6:58 PM BeanCount Whom did he think you were bringing to the dinner??
5/15/00 6:55 PM BeanCount Tell IB that my "friend" Stretcher will be calling him about the seating arrangements.
5/15/00 6:54 PM pat we have it figured out you and sherry will be sitting next to Champagne and UB
5/15/00 6:52 PM BeanCount I think a drawing is a bit much.... but who knows maybe it would be fun.
5/15/00 6:51 PM BeanCount Apparently that hasn't worked in the past.... including people (IB) not being able to sit with their dates. If it's boy/girl you won't have to worry about sitting next to UB.
5/15/00 6:50 PM pat he's talking about having a drawing to sellect the seats.
5/15/00 6:50 PM pat I think it should be open seating...
5/15/00 6:49 PM BeanCount I think boy/girl is a good idea. What's wrong with it in your opinion?
5/15/00 6:48 PM pat I'm talking to Ib about the seating..He seems stuck on the boy girl idea
5/15/00 6:46 PM BeanCount No, no trouble.... just interesting to me how she selectively tells you things.
5/15/00 6:44 PM pat If I say YES will I be in trouble...She told me because she though you told me.
5/15/00 6:43 PM BeanCount You knew I paid the ISP?
5/15/00 6:40 PM BeanCount I talked to him a few days ago.... He said he hadn't done any more on it. He figures to see Big Bamboo in Chicago, and will try to wrangle a contribution from him.... Otherwise no news.
5/15/00 6:39 PM pat Have you heard from Cowboy lately
5/15/00 6:37 PM BeanCount She already thinks that... why spoil the image you worked so hard to build? LOL....
5/15/00 6:34 PM BeanCount NO.... she was 6-months behind. I just brought it current. She hadn't paid since January they said. I had paid then also, but didn't realize that I wasn't bringing it current then.....
5/15/00 6:34 PM pat I have to go change my password now...She may see all the porno stuff i get in my mail and think I'm a pervert
5/15/00 6:32 PM pat I know..did you get her 6 month worth..It's lots cheaper that way..
5/15/00 6:31 PM BeanCount Yes, she said today it was back on.... I paid it for her Pat.
5/15/00 6:31 PM pat do you know if she got her ISP working yet..
5/15/00 6:29 PM BeanCount I don't think you have anything to worry about.
5/15/00 6:28 PM BeanCount she hasn't said anything to me that would indicate she knows anything is up. she might, because she thinks I am out of the loop....
5/15/00 6:28 PM pat YEs! I think its all going to be KOOL...I still worry that some rich fucker is going to fall for her and make her an offer she can't refuse and I will be alone..I'm so insecure
5/15/00 6:26 PM BeanCount Nope.... I told her that you were safe. LOL... I also told her that I owed you a debt of gratitude for the "introduction service", and that I would wait until you had firmed up your CWMC4 plans before I firmed up mine. It all worked out.....
5/15/00 6:26 PM pat Do you think Sherry knows she is getting a gift?
5/15/00 6:24 PM pat You didn't tell her I was obsessed with her did you????Thats a joke
5/15/00 6:23 PM BeanCount Ok... well the local guy named Steve is obsessed.... or that was my take anyway, and she seemed concerned. We had a long discussion about guys getting obsessed. He was her example, and wanted my opinion. she seemed mostly concerned with some things he said in e-mail, and about draining him financially. I could only advise her to be careful..
5/15/00 6:19 PM pat both of them are named Steve
5/15/00 6:19 PM BeanCount She said he's a nice guy, but "something missing". I think it's the same guy... can't really be sure I guess. What was/is her boyfriend's name. Maybe his name is Steve, and I'm getting the story and the name crossed.
5/15/00 6:17 PM BeanCount That's the guy, Steve! She's worried that she is "draining him".... I told her she is not responsible if a guy wants to spend his money, but she said he says "weird" things sometimes. She didn't really elaborate.... except to say he talks about their "relationship" all the time....
5/15/00 6:16 PM pat we have talked about him before..She seemed fine with him..
5/15/00 6:15 PM BeanCount That must be the guy she meant.... He lives up there, and comes in all the time, and when she's not there e-mails her every day.... sometimes more than once. We talked a lot about guys getting obsessed. .
5/15/00 6:15 PM pat I don't think so...This is the guy she books with out of the house..His name is Steve..He seems ok to me post has Motoman on the board
5/15/00 6:13 PM BeanCount Is this the guy that e-mails her every day?? She told me she was really concerned about that guy. He thinks he is in a relationship with her.
5/15/00 6:13 PM pat make that 2 dozen times..I just reread his Email
5/15/00 6:11 PM pat One of her regulars has been emailing me...He is really hooked on her also...He will have a field report on her on ABs site soon..He has partied with her about a dozen times..
5/15/00 6:10 PM BeanCount I'm thinking that if she knows it's a bunch of people paying, she is LESS LIKELY to cancel out. I may call later tonight to Kitty's. I am weak.... LOL...
5/15/00 6:08 PM pat I paid for them all ready didn't have to, but didn't want to take a chance of it being booked..They are non refundable tickets.
5/15/00 6:07 PM BeanCount I hope Sherry doesn't back out. Did you already have to pay for the tix?
5/15/00 6:05 PM pat I ICQed him..am waiting for a reply.
5/15/00 6:05 PM BeanCount I'll start checking in a couple of days... Did you e-mail IB about this?
5/15/00 6:04 PM pat I mailed it a week ago and just got it back today...
5/15/00 6:04 PM BeanCount I mailed it on Friday.... I haven't been to the P.O. since then....
5/15/00 6:03 PM pat looks like Mr Paul enjoyed himself with our little friend...Did you mail in your Dinner money yet..I got mine back today post marked "NOT KNOWN"..
5/15/00 6:01 PM BeanCount I didn't know I couldn't vote on it... I guess I could have read the instructions. I almost called Kitty's today.... was thinking about a Thursday or Friday rendesvous..... will power won out.... for today anyhow.
5/15/00 5:59 PM pat you can't vote for that anyway..Only the ladies can vote for the John of the year...I think I may get 1 vote or maybe 2..If Gp allows Sherrys vote to count.
5/15/00 5:58 PM BeanCount I left the John of the year one blank... I would have voted for you, but I don't think you went to LPIN at all?
5/15/00 5:57 PM pat who did you vote for??DUH like I don't know
5/15/00 5:56 PM BeanCount I voted today.....
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 23, 2019 10:47:34 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/19/00 6:21 PM BeanCount I couldn't wait.... I made an appointment for Monday.
5/18/00 9:53 PM BeanCount Breasts Pat. Her breasts looked nice. LOL.. Quite a contrast between the two e-mails. The one from Nikita was very nice, while the one from Sherry just said, "Where in the hell are you today" That was it.
5/18/00 8:13 PM pat I got a nice letter from Nikita too....I also had dinner with Sherry...her tits sure looked good tonight. you could see the nipples right through her sweater...
5/18/00 6:08 PM BeanCount When I got back from lunch today I had two new e-mails in my Hotmail inbox, One from Sherry and one from Nikita.
5/16/00 8:06 PM BeanCount Me too... good night.
5/16/00 8:05 PM pat I have to get off here...time to eat.... good night
5/16/00 8:04 PM BeanCount Yah.... still trying to figure that out. LOL.... She thinks we're hilarious in the way we talk about or refer to each other. She thinks Sherry is fascinating in a way.
5/16/00 8:02 PM pat she knew you were OK, .....Remenber i told her all those lies about you...
5/16/00 8:01 PM BeanCount Ya know I'm still amazed that Nakita agreed to that over nighter when we just met. sometimes I am very, very lucky.... that was a perfect example.
5/16/00 7:58 PM BeanCount No, sage 2. Last I knew Wednesday through Sunday, 2 pm to 2 am. Make sure it's Kat, not Catlin. Catlin is gorgeous redhead.... but kinda aloof.
5/16/00 7:57 PM pat she works at Kit Kat right.....
5/16/00 7:56 PM BeanCount She would do that I'm sure..... but not a whole hour. She's just your type physically.... small, long blonde hair, thin.... beautiful small perky breasts, tiny ass.....
5/16/00 7:54 PM pat she doesn't do oral....if I offered her $250.00 would it be insulting her...just a quick slam bam thank you mam...to find out more about her.
5/16/00 7:52 PM BeanCount They all are from Oregon. It's something in the water there. LOL.... Kat is from Portland, but I think she said she is moving, or already has, to the Reno area.
5/16/00 7:51 PM pat if i go it will be to see if I can find someone that lives in the Portland area.
5/16/00 7:50 PM BeanCount If I go to the houses at all it will only be to look around and maybe meet some ladies. I still would like to party with Kat at Sage2 again. I want to find out if some "rules" (kissing and oral on her) could be broken away from the house. Physically she is a real doll..
5/16/00 7:48 PM pat out of the brothels yes..My wife....I think it will be a long time before I find another working lady that meets Nikita's expertise....I am thinking about maybe Sat night at CWM4 ..Checking out the houses though.
5/16/00 7:46 PM BeanCount I sorta like being a regular. The only other time I was a regular was with Andrea. She was fun.... but not nearly as cuddly as Nikita, but then who is.... no one I've ever been involved with in or out of brothels.
5/16/00 7:44 PM pat a regular is a guy that pays good and sees her outside the house...you have talked to her about seeing her several times a year..that makes you a regular
5/16/00 7:42 PM BeanCount Am I a regular? I've seen her twice, three times if you count the visit at Kitty's. I sorta considered that an a continuation of the previous night. I saw Catlin of Sage 2 in between, but that was pretty unfullfilling by comparison. Nakita has spoiled me.... set the bar really high.
5/16/00 7:39 PM BeanCount I've been anticipating a catfight. I'll have to read later, as I'm not alone here.
5/16/00 7:39 PM pat She doesn't mind the regulars calling her...she just gets annoyed with the guys she doesn't know well.
5/16/00 7:38 PM BeanCount I better call tomorrow then, or e-mail... or both, LOL. She keeps saying that I'm not much of a pest, and should call more, but I don't want to BECOME a pest.
5/16/00 7:38 PM pat Jessie just dinged Tessa
5/16/00 7:37 PM pat I don,t know..I think Thursdays....
5/16/00 7:36 PM BeanCount When is her day off? I thought I would maybe telephone her at Kitty's.
5/16/00 7:35 PM pat I think so..You may want to make an appointment...or email her..She may be checking her email on her day off..
5/16/00 7:34 PM BeanCount Is Monday her last night working at Kitty's? If so I'm thinking about going up that day and spend a few hours. Maybe I will.... maybe not. probably 50/50. I'm really spoiled now, and would really prefer to see her away from Kitty's.
5/16/00 7:32 PM pat she will be back home on the 23rd...I will probably see her on the 3rd I think
5/16/00 7:31 PM BeanCount NO, wanted to know why I parked the car out on the street instead of in the garage.... Because my transmission is going out or something.... no reverse. Gotta take it in to the shop in the morning. This is so depressing that I will need a Nakita party to recover. Any excuse.....
5/16/00 7:29 PM pat did they page you on the mic and say time to renegotiate
5/16/00 7:28 PM BeanCount I got interrupted....
5/16/00 7:24 PM BeanCount I figured that... but sherry is likely to make the same offer to many people.
5/16/00 7:22 PM pat yes 2 beds....RIS wont show.
5/16/00 7:22 PM BeanCount Hope you got a double room....
5/16/00 7:22 PM pat she called Sherry..
5/16/00 7:21 PM BeanCount She mentioned that she talked to her, but I assumed it was ICQ. Who called whom?
5/16/00 7:18 PM BeanCount Are you kidding??? Not a good idea....
5/16/00 7:18 PM pat I got Sherry a non smoking room just to piss her off.
5/16/00 7:17 PM BeanCount It's not my rule on the house. Wife's rule. I don't mind it much myself ususlly. I got a smoking's ok room at the Peppermill for Sherry and Nakita.
5/16/00 7:16 PM BeanCount That's funny.... I followed the instructions exactly, on account I am a good little boy. I don't walk into the crosswalk until that sign tells me to.
5/16/00 7:15 PM pat then i wont ride in your car or go in your fucking house.
5/16/00 7:14 PM BeanCount Ya can't smoke in my car.... No one ever has. House is a smoke-free zone too.
5/16/00 7:14 PM pat I put C/O Shery Bystander
5/16/00 7:13 PM BeanCount What was your clever way of addressing the dinner payment?
5/16/00 7:14 PM pat she told me she thought the 1st lady liked her but not the 2nd one..
5/16/00 7:13 PM BeanCount Not yet.... they told her it would be Thursday before they get back to her. She's pessimistic about that one now.... but doesn't really have any new information.
5/16/00 7:13 PM pat I used to be a advid NON smoker...I hated smokers i wouldn't let them in my house or my car...now im a chimney
5/16/00 7:12 PM BeanCount I know.... just fuckin' with ya. LOL... I never had much desire to smoke.
5/16/00 7:11 PM pat did she hear back from the other job?
5/16/00 7:10 PM BeanCount I thought they might give her a dollar or two.... Anyway, she'll keep looking....
5/16/00 7:11 PM pat I know the you was a general you...
5/16/00 7:10 PM BeanCount I don't smoke....
5/16/00 7:09 PM pat I'm not surprised....I didn't think she would
5/16/00 7:09 PM BeanCount Sherry didn't get her raise.... 5/16/00 7:08 PM BeanCount Couldn't get it to work. Woodrow told me about it.
5/16/00 7:09 PM pat its only fun when we flame each other..The rest of the time its boring....kinda like smoking you know its stupid and will eventually kill you, but you do it anyway.
5/16/00 7:07 PM BeanCount Why does everyone seem to take this so seriously? I thought this was entertainment, or fun, or something ....
5/16/00 7:07 PM pat did you play the UB music that Tessa posted
5/16/00 7:05 PM pat If it is I have insulted a lot of ladies?
5/16/00 7:05 PM BeanCount Yep.... Is $200 an insult? LOL.....
5/16/00 7:04 PM pat busy board today...
5/16/00 1:22 PM BeanCount You seem to have riled up UB.... buddy boy. He always "beat(s) to a different drummer".... whether people like him or not. ROFL, ROFL, ROFL. I wonder if he ever marches to the beat of a different drummer? LOL....
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Jun 24, 2019 10:26:08 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
5/21/00 3:41 PM BeanCount ok Pat.... Talk to you later.... despite her not wanting me too.. LOL... have a good week, as best you can. I'm going to talk about both of you a lot tomorrow.
5/21/00 3:40 PM pat i have to go...Long week ahead....I just want to relax a little..2 trips back and force to sherrys wore me out
5/21/00 3:38 PM BeanCount That's a lot of it.... She realizes that she is 10 years behind, and it frustrates her.
5/21/00 3:37 PM pat I think she will find the same situation in the new job..She wants too much too soon
5/21/00 3:36 PM BeanCount She doesn't feel she can advance there, and they pay the people above her lousy also. I agree that the spending habits are the problem. I try to coach her.... but I think it all goes in one ear and out the other.
5/21/00 3:34 PM pat $12.00per hour wont make any difference one way or the other ..Just more for her to blow....I hope these guys are a serious company...If they go out of business in 2 month that will put her in a bad situation..I think the job she has now is stable and as a room for advancement..
5/21/00 3:32 PM BeanCount Yeah, she said 30% routine office work, and 70% advertising and web design and maintenance. seems made to order for her.... No customer service or telephones/receptionist.
5/21/00 3:31 PM pat it seems like something she could get interested in...Health nuts..also some web design stuff
5/21/00 3:30 PM BeanCount I think they will... she described their office as being really disorganized like they need help right away.... We're talking about her again.... LOL...
5/21/00 3:28 PM pat it will depend on what the other job requires...If they want her right away or not...
5/21/00 3:27 PM BeanCount ok.... that's a Monday. If she gets the new job it may be sooner.... as they give her a final check. She plans to give 2-weeks notice, but they may not ask or want her to stay.
5/21/00 3:25 PM pat she told me june 5th i would get it.
5/21/00 3:24 PM BeanCount She should. I think her payday is Friday after next...
5/21/00 3:22 PM BeanCount I thought it was due June 1... she'll get the refund by then...
5/21/00 3:23 PM pat I need her to pay me back on time for the rent...Thats a lot of money to me right now..especially with all the tickets and stuff i bought all ready...I hate the stock market
5/21/00 3:21 PM BeanCount ok... then am I allowed to say that I'll cover the movers?
5/21/00 3:21 PM pat the payment is due though....
5/21/00 3:21 PM BeanCount I don't see how having a futon on move-in day is a necessity?
5/21/00 3:21 PM pat did today your not allowed to ask that
5/21/00 3:20 PM BeanCount I wonder if I'm allowed to ask you about things that she already told me? Well here goes... are you going to lend her the rent money until payday.
5/21/00 3:20 PM pat what if it doesn't get here in time...
5/21/00 3:19 PM BeanCount She expects to pay for the futon mostly from the Oregon refund. It should be coming any day. She called two weeks ago, and they said two weeks...
5/21/00 3:17 PM pat he may I'm not sure....She definitely needs to do that..She is flat broke now...june 1 her futton is due and the moving fee next week
5/21/00 3:16 PM BeanCount Damn I hope she gets that... but still she needs to control spending. I thought Ad's father paid for the bus pass?
5/21/00 3:15 PM pat that saves $50.00 a month right there...Her new job interview called today..said 2 ladies left in the running her and 1 other...he still needs to check her references
5/21/00 3:14 PM BeanCount He'll be able to walk to school?
5/21/00 3:13 PM pat AD even seems happy about it...
5/21/00 3:13 PM BeanCount I'm happy for her....
5/21/00 3:12 PM pat today was my last trip to Sherry drug neighborhood...Now I have to start going to the NO parking neighborhood
5/21/00 3:10 PM BeanCount Yes, still going tomorrow. Ok, it's totally his call.....
5/21/00 3:08 PM BeanCount thanks, if I see cowboy, I'll pass that along.
5/21/00 3:09 PM pat so are you still going to see Nikita on Monday..I didn't presure him...If he wants to fine if not that's his choice..He has all ready helped her a lot with money
5/21/00 3:08 PM BeanCount So what?? He could contribute still. I knew I wasn't going to CWMC3, yet I contributed to Tessa.... despite her boyfriend. I thought he was a friend of Sherry?
5/21/00 3:07 PM pat xxxxxxxxxxmail.com
5/21/00 3:07 PM pat he has a girl friend now..He is thinking of going to Hawaii that week
5/21/00 3:06 PM BeanCount Well we do talk about many things as you know. Mostly Nikita lately... my earlier reference to cuddling was about Nikita tomorrow btw. why is elliott not playing?
5/21/00 3:03 PM BeanCount I talked to him yesterday... He plans to e-mail you. Among other things he's trying to get elliott's e-mail address.
5/21/00 3:04 PM pat I know she doesn't...She told me i shouldn't be talking to you....I told her we are friends and we talk ...she quized me about what..I just told her stuff... Elliott isn't playing i asked him about it.
5/21/00 3:03 PM BeanCount Bottom line is she is almost militantly opposed to anyone trying to get her to do ANYTHING that isn't her idea... as she puts it... "to hem her in". and she doesn't want you and I to discuss her.... well too bad.
5/21/00 3:01 PM pat I still haven't heard from Cowboy
5/21/00 3:01 PM BeanCount ok, then I apologize (silently) to her. She didn't like all the "planning" that went on re CWMC4. She doesn't seem to realize that some planning is necessary.... and that you are right in the middle of it.... out of necessity.
5/21/00 2:59 PM pat she didn't mention anything to me...But from the way the conversations have been going lately I suspected something
5/21/00 2:57 PM BeanCount Damn Pat she assured me that she wouldn't mention anything to you, and just e-mailed that she hadn't. She obviously did. Yeah she screamed at me yesterday....
5/21/00 2:56 PM BeanCount Phoning you to put the cat on the line.... sheesh
5/21/00 2:55 PM pat have you been given any instructions on what we are aloud to talk about
5/21/00 2:45 PM BeanCount Why do you say that? definitely.
5/21/00 2:43 PM pat maybe
5/21/00 2:43 PM BeanCount Cuddle and pet? By this time tomorrow......
5/21/00 2:42 PM pat yes she is..she is the only one that will let you cuddle and pet her
5/21/00 2:41 PM BeanCount I think Sebastian was the gay one. You got the one that scratched me. That cat is not tame.
5/21/00 2:40 PM pat Sebastian..got adopted by one of her neighbors...he's been gone awhile. Trevor went Awol..I got the kitty Eve or some silly name like that...I'm going to call her little pussy
5/21/00 2:38 PM BeanCount Didn't she used to have three cats? Sebastion, Trevor & the little kitten whose name i can't remember, but which scratched my hands up?
5/21/00 2:37 PM pat its a female
5/21/00 2:37 PM BeanCount You mean the gay one?
5/21/00 2:36 PM pat I'm glad,,,,i got the nice one
5/21/00 2:36 PM BeanCount Yes, but you lucked out, and one cat decided to go AWOL rather than be banished to Beaverton. LOL...
5/21/00 2:34 PM pat I'm a cat owner now
5/20/00 11:26 AM BeanCount ok.... talk to you later.
5/20/00 11:26 AM pat gotta go window repair guys are here
5/20/00 11:24 AM BeanCount That is somewhat surprising. Wouldn't that be pretty expensive?
5/20/00 11:22 AM pat she wanted to know if we could go to some resort this weekend or next in Eugene..We would stop by and pick up my little friend(Nikita) and all go have a good time...
5/20/00 11:21 AM BeanCount NO, you and I haven't talked for a while. What did she say? I like the way Nikita "drains " me... LOL....
5/20/00 11:20 AM pat I hope to see her in a couple of weeks...Even if she is draining me.... Did i tell you what Sherry said the other day..Shocked me.
5/20/00 11:18 AM BeanCount She was concerned that she was "draining" him.... I told her it's not her concern. On Wednesday she said she wasn't worried about that now.
5/20/00 11:14 AM pat Im not sure what he does...He told me once but i forgot...He seems to have a little money or ZERO in his savings account..He spends a lot at the brothels and out of the Brothels..
5/20/00 11:12 AM BeanCount Most motocross drivers/racers are very short. Yeah, she said he is OK..... Does he have a night job or something? He has seen her several times already since she's been there.... always in the daytime.
5/20/00 11:10 AM pat I think he is OK..I have had several emails with him..seems like a nice guy to me...He is one of us "the short people"
5/20/00 11:09 AM BeanCount Yes, I thought of that... When I called her on Wednesday she said that she really needs to go home on Tuesday. Monday is her last day working there at Kitty's.... It's good that she is busy and making the $$$$. If she says that our appt is "good" still through 4 or 5, then I'll drive up. Steve (Motoman) was the guy she was concerned about the avalanche of e-mail from him. She said she's not as concerned now.
5/20/00 11:03 AM BeanCount Did you get that? My ICQ is flaking out on me.
5/20/00 11:05 AM pat have you thought about going a day later after her last day at kitty's..Your the boss you can take off whenever you want. looks like our OTP is getting too popular...
5/20/00 11:02 AM BeanCount I have an appointment... I thought it was from noon to 4 or 5. She said she preferred an out date so we could talk "openly". I have a room reserved. I think I need to call again. It's not worth it to drive 3 hours for a two or three hour party.... then drive three hours back. I cannot spend the night this time.
5/20/00 10:59 AM pat I think their will be a waiting line...She tells me she has had her best run yet this time..The board has several post about guys that went to see her or are wanting to
5/20/00 10:58 AM BeanCount It looks like the house is the only way this time. Now I see Steve is crowding my time...
5/20/00 10:56 AM pat So are you going to see nikita at the house or the fun way
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