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Post by Elle/Ariel/Lara on Jan 4, 2019 14:21:03 GMT -8
Just how much should a person put up with?
Elle « on: Today at 05:18:27 AM » Lookie-Loo
Posts: 18 When you care enough to send the very best
In this business ladies meet a great number of people. The majority are generally nice, average people. Then there are the few that are less than desirable.
When these few take personal information and use it to try to do harm to a lady, just how much should she put up with?
Why do I ask? Because of certain people out there who have been harassing me on certain "other" boards for years. Honestly, I'm fed up. Completely and utterly fed up.
I'm trying to move on with my life. To have the continued negative postings about my working persona, which are really a stab at the "real me"... Im sick of it. This latest posting of the video is the last straw.
Im out of the business, and I have no other "enemies" that I know of. I really feel that one person in particular is making the majority of these posts on his own under multiple aliases.
So.... I'd like to know ... how would the reaction be to websites like:
whoisjff.(JFF, WR Bermuta bob and misc other handles).com or whoisYosemite Sam (Vernon).com do you think?
Of course, complete with pictures that are already on the net... they say mine are already out there, or were so they feel free to post them... would it be any different?
I really do want honest opinions.
For those who truly know me, you know that I would not even consider doing this unless I was pushed completely and utterly too far.
They have found my "too far".
I just want to be left alone. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hugs and Kisses.... In all the very best places (Of course!)
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Post by East Coast Guy on Jan 4, 2019 14:35:49 GMT -8
East Coast Guy Hoser Family Member « Reply #1 on: August 08, 2010, 06:00:51 AM » Posts: 2401 Gender: Male
Just how much should a person put up with?
Elle, your a class act and always will be. Those idiots are just that, idiots. Don't fall into there trap by responding with equal measure. If I were you, I'd try to understand in time they will go away. If you want opinions, try PMing people who are your friends and keep this off the board so they won't know your upset. That's not because your friends wouldn't want to help, but because we wouldn't want to feed anyones perversion on a public forum.
I forget the author of this sage advice but it comes in handy in times like this: Don't argue with an idiot because they will bring you down to there level and beat you with experience.
Good luck with this and also in the real world.
East Coast Guy/Bob
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Post by LoveMeTender on Jan 4, 2019 14:39:35 GMT -8
Just how much should a person put up with?
LoveMeTender
Guest « Reply #2 on: August 08, 2010, 06:06:48 AM »Elle,
I agree with East Coast Guy, don't lower yourself to whatever hole this person or person(s) are in. Take care of yourself.
LMT
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Post by Elle/Ariel/Lara on Jan 4, 2019 14:43:19 GMT -8
I have been doing just what you suggest... for THREE long years
Elle Guest « Reply #3 on: August 08, 2010, 06:19:15 AM » Gentlemen, you are thinking as just such; gentlemen. These two, WR in particular (JFF) has proved himself not to be in his continuing this behavior when he has literally not spoken to me in over three years.
I do not feel that I have much choice left but to fight fire with fire under these circumstances.
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Post by dreamscometrue on Jan 4, 2019 14:46:30 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with?
dreamscometrue Guest « Reply #4 on: August 08, 2010, 06:23:07 AM »perhaps you could take some sort of legal action against him, if you're able to. Apparently this guy is proving that after three years, unless you do something to deter him, he will not stop
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Post by hobie on Jan 4, 2019 14:50:00 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with?
hobie Guest « Reply #5 on: August 08, 2010, 12:59:57 PM » Wish I had some sage advice but I don't. If it has become unbearable (and I understand how that can happen), I would get a lawyer to write a letter informing him of your intent if he does not stop; if it keeps on, consider a cease and desist order or restraining order or whatever. I'm not a lawyer, but they may be the only way to end it. In any case good luck. A fe w a**holes will always ruin things for you.
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Post by Lulz on Jan 4, 2019 14:53:58 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with? Lulz Hoser Family Member Posts: 1003 Gender: Male « Reply #6 on: August 08, 2010, 01:43:03 PM »Elle since you know him, you should post in his name a fake craigslist ad as a gay prostitute. Preferably with his work number as a contact. After 100 calls a day he'll probably back down and/or get fired. ;D
The vern0n bunch is weird, they hate LPIN but they spend all their time talking about it.
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Post by ex_okie on Jan 4, 2019 14:56:49 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with?
ex_okie High Roller Posts: 286 Gender: Male « Reply #7 on: August 08, 2010, 01:52:56 PM »Elle,
Well my first (emotional reaction) is to say f**k his ass up any way you can.....of course my more rational side would ask if you fight fire with fire, will you be falling in to a trap and end up destroying your business & personal relationships anyway.
If there is a way to attack him legally while staying anonymous, that may be a better way to go.
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Post by shooter on Jan 4, 2019 15:01:02 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with?
shooter
Guest « Reply #8 on: August 08, 2010, 03:00:38 PM » Elle:
It is a sad thing you have to face. I don't think you can actually do very much about it. When I was told the link had been posted I went on the board to make sure it was true and then posted about it here, so you would know. It was the first time I ahve read that board is over 7 months, nothing has changed except the format. I think the bigger thing to do is to just ignore the whole thing and get on with you new life. I wish you well in whatever you plan to do.
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Post by sportsman on Jan 4, 2019 15:04:09 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with?
sportsman Guest « Reply #9 on: August 08, 2010, 03:19:01 PM »Elle...you have been facing this problem for many years. Have you thought about changing the rules of engagement?
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Post by CookieMonster\Q on Jan 4, 2019 15:09:37 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with?
CookieMonster\Q Guest « Reply #10 on: August 08, 2010, 03:34:03 PM » Elle, you've always been a great person to hang with. Personally, I'm not of the passivist type and I strongly believe that you fight a bully with a good hard shot straight to the nose, (preferably pushing it into their brain cavity). bullies will always be that way, and you will find that unless you nip it in the bud, these fucking idiots will do anything to get a rise. These idiots post content from our site to their site without any expressed prior approval. I say sue the fuck out of them for anything you can, make their lives a living hell by exposing their personally internet shared information, (which btw, is VERY easy to get, and only share what is already publicly accesible) and then if that does not do enough, then infuse yourself into their lives anonymously to gather intimate details and wait for an opportune moment to use everything in your power to bring them down.
SCREW passivity. Bullies have not, and will not ever go away unless you take action.
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Post by elliott on Jan 4, 2019 15:17:35 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with? elliott High Roller Posts: 321 « Reply #11 on: August 09, 2010, 08:46:14 PM » I've had people threaten my life. If you give them the power, then they win. I only have so much time and effort to give to the scum of the world. So the zen method of dealing with those that shouldn't take up any of your time, is to not give them any of your attention.
Honestly, with more youtube crap being put up faster then anyone could possibly watch, unless its viral, virtually no one has seen it.
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Post by Bobbi on Jan 4, 2019 15:26:47 GMT -8
Re: Just how much should a person put up with? Bobbi Hoser Family Member Posts: 1393 Gender: Female « Reply #12 on: August 10, 2010, 12:14:29 AM » Hobie this is sage advice ,she needs to find out an take whatever legal options are available to her. Playing his game or putting fake ads actually could do her more harm then good... The truth being She really does not know what this persons metal state is Or what they may do if they truly feel threaten... -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- you can live the life you're living or live the life you want.
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Post by Gray Hound on Jan 4, 2019 15:49:29 GMT -8
Sheri's Ranch Memories Gray Hound Hoser Family Member Posts: 510 « on: August 02, 2010, 10:30:28 PM » Edited by request. You should contact the original poster or the webmaster by PM if you have any questions concerning the edit. Some very familiar ladies. Is that Lilly and Kristy Creme (sp)? Sharis Ranch looks great.
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Post by Little Richard on Jan 4, 2019 15:53:39 GMT -8
Re: Sheri's Ranch Memories
« Reply #1 on: August 03, 2010, 07:25:48 AM » Little Richard Guest That video brought back a lot of memories. I recognized Kylie, Lilly, and Dennae. It must be an old video because some of those have not worked there in a while. I noticed there are a lot of Bunny Ranch videos on You Tube too.
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