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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 21, 2019 15:39:41 GMT -8
Note from Admin: This is a conversation between Bean Count and Pat. It covers August 04 1999 to April 09 2001. You will notice it takes several different turns from good buddies to harsh enemies. If you decide to read this, you have to read each individual post from the bottom up. You also have to be able to endure silly mean spirited name calling from 2 midgets. I find it to be excellent reading if you want something to read to help you get to sleep.
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
12/23/9 10:26 PM BeanCount Ok. good night Pat. 12/23/9 10:25 PM pat probably won't be until after Xmas now..I'm in NO hurry for it...going to go to bed..long day for me today..
12/23/9 10:24 PM BeanCount Deliveries? You want me to order Dominos? You should have received that M.O. I mailed it Monday. Lemme know if it doesn't come soon.
12/23/9 10:22 PM pat Don't you do deliveries.. I'll check on the Tv tomorow..I didn't get the check yet.Xmas is probably got the mail slowed down.
12/23/9 10:20 PM BeanCount Ok, I'll see what she says about it ... if anything. When you coming down here for your dinner?
12/23/9 10:19 PM pat It could be broke..She nevver said anything to me though..but she's been busy and so have i so we havent talked much the last 2 or 3 days until today.
12/23/9 10:17 PM BeanCount No outside antenna? (for my book, LOL..) I checked history. It was Monday.
12/23/9 10:16 PM pat That maybe..She never mentioned it to me..I was just asuming it worked..I didn't try it tonight..Its always been shitty though..They only get 1 station good.
12/23/9 10:15 PM BeanCount I think it was night before last.... or thereabouts. Not really sure.
12/23/9 10:14 PM pat when was that
12/23/9 10:14 PM BeanCount I guess so.... She said that the picture wouldn't come on at all. Audio was ok....but no video. Musta fixed itself....
12/23/9 10:13 PM pat I didn't either..Sherry said ask them..they were very nice about it...
12/23/9 10:13 PM BeanCount Got your money back? That is really cool. I didn't even know that was possible. I need to take you along to do my negotiating.
12/23/9 10:12 PM pat shitty credit is putting it mildly
12/23/9 10:11 PM BeanCount A book? LOL..... No, but was considering helping with a new TV. She says she has really shitty credit. Rent-to-own is a total ripoff.
12/23/9 10:12 PM pat we didn't go look at lights..she never even brought it up... went to a movie and sat their 20 minutes ..we all thought it sucked and went and got our money back
12/23/9 10:09 PM pat everything is working..Are you writing a book?
12/23/9 10:08 PM BeanCount Did they get the TV back working?
12/23/9 10:08 PM pat I'm going over at about 10..we are hoping to be their by 11:00
12/23/9 10:08 PM BeanCount Do they have an early train tomorrow?
12/23/9 10:08 PM pat I know how...I was surprised he moved the tv and vcr and stereo by himself..The Tv is heavy
12/23/9 10:07 PM BeanCount I see... Kinda wondered about that. Do you rewire stereos also?
12/23/9 10:05 PM pat him and his buddy did it..They also moved everything back out...I did the computor desk..He did everything else.
12/23/9 10:04 PM BeanCount How in the heck was Ad able to move everything into the kitchen by himself?
12/23/9 10:03 PM pat We spent most of the afternoon putting the house back together after the rug peolple left...
12/23/9 10:02 PM BeanCount You Frenchmen are all too clever. LOL.... Thanks Pat. Now I really do owe you that dinner.
12/23/9 10:01 PM pat i had small codes on all the presents ..I gave it to her and pointed to the BC on the tag..I also told her.
12/23/9 10:00 PM BeanCount Sounds good. Thanks for the report. a question for you.... How were you able to say that the fountain was from me....with Ad being there? Just curious... LOL...
12/23/9 9:58 PM pat pretty good..she liked most everything..only one thing didn't fit..a dress suit I bought her..
12/23/9 9:57 PM BeanCount Well? How did it go...
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Post by Pat and Bean Coun on Apr 22, 2019 13:21:14 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
12/24/9 10:01 PM BeanCount sorry.... got interrupted. Talk to ya later Pat.
12/24/9 9:47 PM pat Its been an interesting conversation ..but i'm going to bag it for now....going to go relax and watch some TV.
12/24/9 9:45 PM BeanCount yep short
12/24/9 9:43 PM pat are they short..forget the fat one ..I like thin
12/24/9 9:42 PM pat sad about being very popular but also knowing he is a real ass at times....He knows that what he does is wrong and hurts is mom and others but doesn't know how to control it.
12/24/9 9:41 PM BeanCount The nice one is nice looking.... the bitch one is fat and ugly. I have better hair than either one...no joke!! LOL..
12/24/9 9:40 PM BeanCount They are both single btw.
12/24/9 9:40 PM BeanCount That is quite a comment coming from her. Do you think he is sad? About what?
12/24/9 9:40 PM pat do they need a strong man to take care of them..Are they better looking than you?
12/24/9 9:39 PM BeanCount Pat, I have two sisters. The bitch one is 43 next week. The nice one is 56.
12/24/9 9:38 PM pat so how old his your sister? is she single
12/24/9 9:37 PM BeanCount That's a normal reaction on her part. I know that my sister is a total bitch.... but if you say so then I'll have to kill ya.
12/24/9 9:38 PM pat I knew you had kids ..not there ages..I also know some other 12 yr olds ..they are much more behaved...She surprised me this morning when she said ...AD s friends seem a lot nicer than he is...She feels he is very sad that is why he is like that
12/24/9 9:36 PM BeanCount Pat, did you know that I have two sons? One is exactly AD's age.
12/24/9 9:35 PM BeanCount Are you kidding? She'd kill me too. This conversation is between you and I ..... only.
12/24/9 9:36 PM pat I know him and have given advise..Sometimes it gets me in trouble..She doesn't always like what I have to say...She knows he can be a brat but doesn't want others saying it.
12/24/9 9:34 PM BeanCount Sherry has kept me fairly well informed on his problems at school and elsewhere. Sometimes she has asked for advice on what to do, or asks if I agree with what she has done. I'm a tad uneasy about it sometimes, but I try to give her the best advice I can....without knowing the boy at all.
12/24/9 9:33 PM pat She would kill me if she knew we were discussing this..Not a word to her about our conversation.
12/24/9 9:30 PM pat He can be a wonderful and charming kid...when he wants to be.. but he does have this thing about always wanting things his way..he loves to play jokes on you but as a real problem when others do it to him..He makes friends easy..very likeable but looses a lot of them because of his attitude..He has been in his share of trouble at school too.
12/24/9 9:29 PM BeanCount Everything that you just said is why I agreed to help her out financially, and why I ever got involved in the first place. Plus I didn't want you to lose your bachelor pad, because I need to live vicariously through your exploits. LOL....
12/24/9 9:27 PM BeanCount Is he really that bad? Maybe it's a good thing she doesn't want him to meet or know about me. LOL.... I know this is a serious subject Pat... but sometimes a little humor can help a bit. I'm sure he gets a little dose of reality every day at school.
12/24/9 9:27 PM pat I agree with that...She does more than many parents about being involved with his school and other activities. She has not just sat around and tried to live off the state..She is always seeking ways to get a job and make a better life for her and AD..
12/24/9 9:24 PM BeanCount I want things to work out for her Pat. She seems to me to be trying the best that she can.
12/24/9 9:24 PM pat Im sure they did too..or will have by the time they get with the family..but it doesn't fix the deep rooted problems that Ad will have when he gets into the real world..He his going to be in shock when he finds out the rest of the world doesn't revolve around him....
12/24/9 9:21 PM BeanCount I bet they got it all worked out.
12/24/9 9:20 PM pat Ad his a lot like his mom..He gets mad and has tantrums...but they go away fast and your is buddy again the next time he sees you...
12/24/9 9:18 PM BeanCount By Monday I'm sure it all will have passed, and it will be as though nothing was amiss. That would be the usual pattern. LOL...
12/24/9 9:15 PM BeanCount I don't think you're in trouble at all. she always says nice things about you....
12/24/9 9:16 PM pat I can't say for sure....Maybe something happened last night..Ad was still sleeping when I got there.
12/24/9 9:14 PM BeanCount Sounds like it was a bad scene. I hope they got it worked out on the train ride down.... The conversation this morning was a two liner about the weather.... then she just abruptly left. No comment about any presents.... No Merry Christmas.... nothing. I didn't know what to make of it. You sure there wasn't trouble brewing already?
12/24/9 9:13 PM pat shit I'm in deep trouble then..I think I'm pretty nice to her....I do it because I want to. I don't look for anything in return...except appreciation and a friend to do things with.
12/24/9 9:11 PM BeanCount She's never really turned on me. She has told me that she has problems dealing with people who are nice to her.
12/24/9 9:10 PM pat It happened after she talked to you...I got their at about 9:30....all was fine until after AD opened his presents....He just said he wasn't going and then the war was on.
12/24/9 9:09 PM BeanCount I thought you knew about the trip that she pulled out of at the last minute? From my perspective you are a great friend to her, and I think she appreciates it. To be honest with you I don't have any idea what she thinks about me. I didn't know about the problems there this morning. I think it may partially explain the short conversation we had this morning.
12/24/9 9:03 PM BeanCount I said that wrong Pat. I'm not wary of her word necessarily.... but I am wary of putting myself in a vulnerable position again.
12/24/9 9:04 PM pat I'm not sure exactly what that was all about..Sherry and I are best of buddies,,but i also realize that she can at times turn on you real quick...I always have a shield up protecting myself from getting to close...You know I have been their before. I take our friendship day by day...Knowing it can end anytime
12/24/9 8:59 PM BeanCount You are probably right Pat, but she has a tremendous guilt complex about leaving him for extended times when she was working at the Mustang. She left me high and dry back in July and cost me several hundred dollars.... rather than have him spend 48 hours at a relatives house...other than his dad. To be honest with you, I have been wary of taking her word for things since then.
12/24/9 8:55 PM BeanCount I know it happens. I'm from a "broken" home. There were five of us boys...plus two sisters. It can work out, but it is tough sometimes.
12/24/9 8:55 PM pat I think she is giving up some of her best years just to try and make AD happy...I also think its a mistake...
12/24/9 8:54 PM BeanCount I see..... Well I think she must agree with your assessment. I don't know..... but I knew there was something real strange about the lengths she is willing to go to not have AD think she has male friends.
12/24/9 8:53 PM pat nothing..it is very normal in families with kids in seperated homes...You can only hope that he grows up and realizes what is right and wrong
12/24/9 8:52 PM BeanCount This is not good Pat, but I don't have any idea what anyone could do.
12/24/9 8:52 PM pat I might have put that idea in her head...I have been saying it for a long time...Its true but I don't want my thoughts creating any grief for her.
12/24/9 8:50 PM BeanCount You mean you told her to do what she thinks is best? Why feel guilty about that?
12/24/9 8:50 PM pat Yes and Ad is a master at using his dad against her...
12/24/9 8:49 PM BeanCount His dad talks rudely to Sherry.... right in front of AD. That is no good....
12/24/9 8:49 PM pat Im feeling guilty now..I have told her that on several occasions
12/24/9 8:48 PM BeanCount Will she be able to handle Ad in 2 or 3 years? She has told me that she knows she is responsible for some of his bad behavior towards her... because she has been really inconsistent in discipline. She said she goes from no discipline to too much....and can't find a happy medium. I didn't know what to tell her, just reassured her to try to do what she thinks is right.
12/24/9 8:45 PM pat Yes he's out.
12/24/9 8:45 PM BeanCount Oh boy...... that is really too bad. Given the guilt complex that she is already dealing with regarding AD..... that has to be devastating to her. Did the father get out of jail then?
12/24/9 8:42 PM pat He wanted to go to his dads instead of to her family for Xmas..She gave him all his Xmas gifts and he complained about them..I think she was hurt.. She did stand her ground and we got him to the train station in tears.
12/24/9 8:41 PM BeanCount A major battle? About what.... He seems to be grounded pretty regularly..... I didn't hear anything from you.
12/24/9 8:40 PM pat I didn't even mess with it this morning..It was a very rushed morning and their was a major battle going on with AD and sherry..I didn't tell you that.
12/24/9 8:38 PM BeanCount Yeah, that's what she said. No video at all. She thinks it's the tube, but doesn't sound right that it would go out all of a sudden. Did you notice if there was a re-set button?
12/24/9 8:36 PM pat your right the TV is broke
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 23, 2019 14:13:27 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
12/27/9 1:42 PM BeanCount I agree about the gangbanging. I'm just glad I didn't go off on Flymaster also. I went to bed instead. LOL.. Ok... Yeah I had no clue what Tessa wanted from Bashful... and vice versa. I could have asked, but didn't think of it. Now ya got me wondering what the heck you are talking about. LOL... anyway, back to work time. Later Pat...
12/27/9 1:42 PM pat I just hate it when the board all jumps in to rescue the ladies..I think they can fight their own battles..I have tried very hard to not say anything when Sherry gets jumped on. I don't think I have done it since Sidewinder left... bye
12/27/9 1:38 PM BeanCount I agree with you Pat. He has been baiting Tessa for quite some time (just like Ootie was baiting Sherry), and she finally did say something mildly abrasive. I felt he had it coming.... and his response to her was uncalled for. I was ICQ'ing with her at the time btw... and she did ask me to post. It was late... and I was cranky.... and I went too far.
12/27/9 1:37 PM pat No this is something that I think actually started the whole Email thing between Bashful and Tessa..Can't say anything until i talk to sherry..It wasn't pretty though
12/27/9 1:35 PM BeanCount Maybe it's Cowboy? I aM CowboY. He's changed his e-mail a couple of times lately... so I don't think it's current. Anyway he's listed on the public list. Is this about his e-mail regarding IB? He's on ICQ a lot if you need to get in touch.
12/27/9 1:36 PM pat but the gang banging doesn't accomplish much...Especially when some that were doing it were hidden handles that argued the exact opposite at other times..
12/27/9 1:34 PM pat You have a point, but I didn't read it that way..I think he was just being a wise ass..and trying to inject some humor even if it wasn't funny...He has also said he loves her very much and his family... . I think this board needs more people willing to argue the other side of many issues..FlyMaster, Mack, and IE do this..If alll we get on here is how great the brothels are we are not getting the whole picture. We don't have to agree with them
12/27/9 1:28 PM BeanCount sorry.... I got interrupted also. I have no idea who imcy is?? I.E. has posted derogatory comments about his own wife. Despite what anyone may conclude about my own actions.... I find that to be in very poor taste.
12/27/9 1:21 PM pat do you know who imcy@hotmail.com is? ..I think i'm the only one that thinks IE is ok..His way of posting can be insulting but he brings out some good points.. sorry phone call came in
12/27/9 1:15 PM BeanCount I went over the line in my post to I.E. Contemplating some sort of apology regarding the comments about his wife. Of course I only know about her weight, their lack of trying different sexual positions, and the way she talks to him..... because of his posts (in very poor taste IMHO) about her on the Board. the part about Stretcher and ass kicking was a joke.... but if he hasn't been here that long, then he wouldn't have understood that.
12/25/9 12:12 PM BeanCount Ok later...
12/25/9 12:11 PM BeanCount Now go get some Christmas dinner..... but try not to get any fatter..... LOL..
12/25/9 12:11 PM BeanCount I know that is true.... but we muddle through somehow. I gotta go, but want to say thanks once again for all you did. Thank you Pat.
12/25/9 12:11 PM pat getting ready to go to Xmnas celebration #3..I'm been a lucky guy this year..GO figure talk to you latter
12/25/9 12:08 PM BeanCount Keep the change Pat. It was for your labor.. Ha ha .... You didn't know I lived at your house? Ever hear any strange noises at night?
12/25/9 12:08 PM pat KOOL!...I personaly hate ICQ, but i have enjoyed our chats..I think it is very hard for me to exxpress what i'm thinking in this format..It is very easy to write something that is misundrrestood..
12/25/9 12:07 PM BeanCount I have enjoyed our little ICQ chats. They have helped me to understand a lot better about where Sherry is coming from sometimes. This has helped me to be more patient with her, and will hopefully lead to me being a better friend to her. Also I feel I know you better...and that is not so bad. LOL...
12/25/9 12:05 PM pat merry Christmas to you too..I got your check today..do you need the change back? We have something in comman ..You and I have the same address..Your return address on the envelope.
12/25/9 12:04 PM BeanCount Merry Christmas Pat.
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Post by Admin on Apr 24, 2019 15:56:59 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
12/28/9 10:04 PM pat I'm not looking for any love relationships....Besides they give me character. I have an ugly smile put its a friendly one... Im going to bed....talk to ya later
12/28/9 10:02 PM BeanCount Ok. later Pat.. I think you just have a fear of dentists and a low pain threshold? LOL....
12/28/9 9:58 PM BeanCount I wasn't talking in terms of whoring.... just in general. I didn't realize you were such an old man. I thought you were 50.
12/28/9 9:56 PM pat Im 53 yrs old..I aint going to win any beauty contest no matter what I do..If they want me its going to have to be for my wonderful personality..Besides 99% of all whores don't care what you look like..
12/28/9 9:54 PM BeanCount I'll go check it out later. Why not get a partial upper plate? My brother got his teeth shot out with a BB gun when we were kids. He has a partial plate.... 4 teeth I think.
12/28/9 9:50 PM pat Its about 2 years old or more before Shawna Ray
12/28/9 9:50 PM BeanCount Well I guess so. Shit Pat, now I gotta go look at all your field reports.
12/28/9 9:49 PM pat she was cute and I really wanted to party with her...That kind of killed the mood
12/28/9 9:47 PM BeanCount That's a funny story Pat. Scary? I bet she was high...
12/28/9 9:45 PM BeanCount Did you bite her? Was it way extra?
12/28/9 9:46 PM pat I think its in one of my field reports..I forget which one..They scared her she just pointed and said they were scary
12/28/9 9:44 PM pat Its a long story some other time...She didn't like my teeth...
12/28/9 9:44 PM BeanCount No, I didn't hear anything.
12/28/9 9:43 PM pat Ok now you hit a soft spot..My teeth..You heard about what Jennifer said to me at the OBR
12/28/9 9:41 PM BeanCount Isn't it just because of the dental work which you are deferring?
12/28/9 9:41 PM pat ask Sherry about it sometimes..she thinks its funny too...I do to it doesn't bother me..
12/28/9 9:40 PM BeanCount The little snot....
12/28/9 9:39 PM pat He will try and ask me questions where the answer is 3 ..just so he can mimic me afterwards.
12/28/9 9:39 PM BeanCount Tell him you are from Brooklyn.... and that he talks funny.
12/28/9 9:38 PM pat No problem..Ad is always in my case about my 3s..Twees
12/28/9 9:37 PM BeanCount Viagra helps you to talk and pronounce r's and l's? I hope you realize I am just funnin' ya...
12/28/9 9:36 PM pat lisp, can't say Rs and Ls..Viagra only helps a little
12/28/9 9:35 PM BeanCount can't talk? can't fuck?
12/28/9 9:34 PM pat cant spell cant hear cant talk cant fuck.. What a loser
12/28/9 9:34 PM BeanCount I have noticed your acute hearing problems...
12/28/9 9:33 PM pat I cant hear you
12/28/9 9:33 PM BeanCount I still like the NGE theory. He has posted a couple of times since he left.... It's Snow....
12/28/9 9:31 PM pat thats the spirit
12/28/9 9:30 PM BeanCount Well I guess I don't need to know....
12/28/9 9:28 PM pat i cant hear you
12/28/9 9:28 PM BeanCount Stretcher?
12/28/9 9:27 PM pat I have promised sorry..I think its actually really easy to figure out if you read is post ...I'll bet Tessa knows
12/28/9 9:26 PM BeanCount It's not really a rule....
12/28/9 9:26 PM pat Since when have I obeyed rules?
12/28/9 9:25 PM BeanCount Ya have to tell me if I guess it. I think that is a rule....
12/28/9 9:25 PM pat I cant hear you
12/28/9 9:24 PM BeanCount another guess. Nice Guy Eddie.
12/28/9 9:24 PM pat you get wet dummy
12/28/9 9:23 PM BeanCount Oh, this is a cleansing ritual. You can do this anytime....doesn't have to be New Years. What if it rains?
12/28/9 9:22 PM pat No we make a big hole in the back yard and you write down all the bad things that happened to you and burn them..then you burn some possesion..some sort of sacrifice..I don't get it put I play along
12/28/9 9:21 PM BeanCount Fire burning thing? Did she build one of those goddesses?
12/28/9 9:19 PM BeanCount No. You know what I mean.... about how his lips quiver for 15 seconds before any sound comes out, plus the stuttering. You just speak with a lisp.... LOL... J/K
12/28/9 9:20 PM pat sherry wanted me to come down and do the fire burning thing in the back yard..I told her No she can come here and with Ad and his buddies and we could do it in the fire place..she didn't like that idea
12/28/9 9:18 PM BeanCount When I was in college I worked at a gasoline station. I worked all the holidays. New Years Eve was the only one that scared me. Just think, the behavior that I saw was from the people who were sober enough to know that they needed gas. I always stay in that night.
12/28/9 9:17 PM pat that was me at cwm2 with the speech nipederment
12/28/9 9:16 PM BeanCount When I met him at CWM2 I thought he was just a normal guy with a speech impediment. Then when I was talking to Tessa last January she just tells me out of the blue that he is a likely candidate to go postal. I told her that didn't seem at all likely to me. Just the first in a long list of times where she was right, and I was wrong, about people.
12/28/9 9:14 PM pat LOL..I think the mayor was a jerk for doing that....Portlanders are smart they will party even if it will kill them....I'm staying home and going to bed
12/28/9 9:13 PM BeanCount Seattle has cancelled their New Year's celebration. Is Portland willing to stand tall in the face of this horrible threat of international terrorism. (See, this proves I read something other than the GP message board) Now back to the sucking and fucking and UB tormenting....
12/28/9 9:12 PM pat I don't get him..Its like he is walking under a black cloud..where ever he goes it rains on him
12/28/9 9:11 PM BeanCount Yeah.... kinda. Still, I keep thinking that one of these times UB will wise up.... but then he doesn't.
12/28/9 9:09 PM pat I dont know that....I think they both sound kind of dumb
12/28/9 9:09 PM BeanCount No, why is this person tormenting UB?
12/28/9 9:08 PM pat why not
12/28/9 9:08 PM BeanCount Why?
12/28/9 9:08 PM pat my lips are sealed
12/28/9 9:07 PM BeanCount Oh, it's Klatch?
12/28/9 9:07 PM pat Nope....I like him about as much as UB, but I am sworn to silence
12/28/9 9:06 PM BeanCount Are you kidding?
12/28/9 9:06 PM pat I know..I can't say though...
12/28/9 9:05 PM BeanCount Who is UB's latest tormenter? He says he KNOWS who it is.
12/28/9 6:16 PM pat ok
12/28/9 6:15 PM BeanCount Wasn't planning to...
12/28/9 6:13 PM pat are you going to go to the botom of the board
12/28/9 6:13 PM BeanCount none of them... LOL.
12/28/9 6:11 PM pat so which imposter are you
12/28/9 6:10 PM BeanCount ok.... It won't be me. I've contributed too much to this latest fiasco already. *hanging head in shame*
12/28/9 6:10 PM pat we'll see
12/28/9 6:09 PM BeanCount Well give your planned answer to the imposter then. Who knows it could be me?
12/28/9 6:08 PM pat I think your right, but an imitator might...I don't think I have any credibility
12/28/9 6:07 PM BeanCount He's not going to. My prediction...
12/28/9 6:06 PM pat I ain't saying unless he responds with his fight song...It wouldn't make sense unless he does.
12/28/9 6:05 PM BeanCount What would that be?
12/28/9 6:04 PM BeanCount It crossed my mind that it might be Tessa.... I hope it wasn't. She should have been at work... I think
12/28/9 6:04 PM pat No but if he responds that way I have an answer waiting
12/28/9 6:03 PM BeanCount That would be fun.... Wait'll he asks you what your preferences are in weapons. You'll think you have suddenly landed a role in a bad Kung Fu movie.....
12/28/9 6:03 PM pat I was hoping to have UB give me some shit I think he caught on
12/28/9 6:02 PM BeanCount I really didn't think it was you....unless you all of a sudden you are using a spellchecker. LOL...
12/28/9 6:02 PM pat I want to see if Stretcher is going to come up here and kick my ass
12/28/9 6:01 PM pat NO just seeing what people say..so far You and Sherry thought I might have..don't tell anyone
12/28/9 6:00 PM BeanCount did ya really do those posts?
12/28/9 2:06 PM pat bye
12/28/9 2:06 PM BeanCount Back to work time. Later Pat...
12/28/9 2:03 PM BeanCount That asshole... See his latest queer ass attempt to taunt Sherry. I can't believe she has gone out of her way trying to be nice to such a dork...
12/28/9 2:02 PM pat UB will have this figured out soon I'm sure..lol..hacker
12/28/9 2:00 PM BeanCount could be.... and in fact is the most likely thing.
12/28/9 1:59 PM BeanCount Nothing wrong with using contractors... make sure you get an independent one. LOL...
12/28/9 1:59 PM pat I think their are more than one...Someone started then someone else joined it just for the fun of it.
12/28/9 1:58 PM BeanCount The board nonsense is definitely by Flymaster. Flymaster's first post was a blast at Tessa, in response to a Stretcher post. He then blasted Sherry, Tessa, and Flyfisher.... the very same people who had criticized I.E. I'm not gonna say any more until I study and compare the writing styles.
12/28/9 1:57 PM pat i gotta go trying to find a contractor to do some repairs for me..I'm such a lazy fucker
12/28/9 1:56 PM BeanCount So do I Pat. Our "deal was pretty simple. He ICQ'ed me to say that he would stop making threats against me on the board if I would stop taunting him and making fun of his intellect and such. I said ok to that. Then he saw my ICQ history with Tessa, and figured out that he had nothing to be so crazy jealous about.
12/28/9 1:52 PM pat i still think he's a big dumb asshole
12/28/9 1:51 PM BeanCount Trust me... no one on Earth thinks it is stranger than me.
12/28/9 1:51 PM BeanCount I think his apology there covers it. IMHO that is a legitimate post.
12/28/9 1:50 PM pat are you and Stretcher an item now..Strange bedfellows
12/28/9 1:49 PM BeanCount He ICQ'ed me because he said she wouldn't respond to messages he had sent. Not sure, but I think she may have him blocked.
12/28/9 1:48 PM BeanCount Not really... lol.. I just haven't discussed it with her. It has been my experience that it is sometimes best to discuss things a bit with Sherry before just buying her things. Sometimes she already has something else in mind...
12/28/9 1:48 PM pat I think he all ready did on the board...Who knows today anyone may be someone else. why would you apologize for him..He should be the one to do it.
12/28/9 1:46 PM BeanCount Stretcher ICQ'ed me last night to ask me if I would apologize to Sherry for some flip remarks he made on the board. I told him I didn't think his apology would be accepted. Think I should pass it along anyway?
12/28/9 1:45 PM pat NO am I not suspose to say anything...Is this one of those BC secrets
12/28/9 1:45 PM BeanCount No, I haven't... Just noted some really good sales in the after Christmas advertisements that come with the newspaper. You didn't say anything to Sherry about this did you?
12/28/9 1:43 PM pat have you been TV shoping?
12/28/9 1:43 PM BeanCount ok Pat. I respect that decision. I hate secrets.... unless they are "my" secrets, or unless I'm in the "know". LOL...
12/28/9 1:40 PM pat if it was me i would say, its about sherry and she doesn't want to say so I will hold off.
12/28/9 1:39 PM BeanCount So who sent the e-mails? If you don't want to say, you will have company.... namely Sherry, Tessa, & Stretcher of all people. Who are you all trying to protect? and why?
12/28/9 1:37 PM pat that was Curious..He didn't send it just a receiver
12/28/9 1:36 PM BeanCount So who is imcy@hotmail.com ?
12/28/9 1:29 PM BeanCount I don't know about that.... I left some people hanging last night when my computer crashed. They were all responses to the last thing I said and didn't make a whole lot of sense today. I don't have that history here.
12/28/9 1:27 PM pat it must be nice to be popular
12/28/9 1:27 PM BeanCount Just picked up my food and got back... Had a whole shitload of ICQ messages here. Haven't checked the board yet.... but will do that now.
12/28/9 1:25 PM pat how's it going..Interesting board Huh
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 25, 2019 13:11:32 GMT -8
12/29/9 2:02 PM pat Bye
12/29/9 2:01 PM BeanCount Back to work for me. Later....
12/29/9 1:51 PM BeanCount That's what I figured. LOL. Paranoia is a good policy at times.
12/29/9 1:50 PM pat YES!..Could be embarassing
12/29/9 1:49 PM BeanCount I bet. Do I need to be alone to view/listen?
12/29/9 1:49 PM pat you to I think you will enjoy the sound
12/29/9 1:48 PM BeanCount Ok.... I have a look here in a bit, and a listen later.
Happy New Year to you Pat!!! 12/29/9 1:47 PM pat No just a funny one
12/29/9 1:46 PM BeanCount I'm at work.... just finishing lunch. No sound card in this computer. I'll try it at home. Did you find one that gets naked?
12/29/9 1:45 PM pat You have mail at Yahoo acct. let me know if sound worked
12/29/9 1:29 PM pat OK bye
12/29/9 1:29 PM BeanCount Kewl, whatever works for ya!!! Back to work for me now. Later....
12/29/9 1:27 PM pat the advantage of being alone..If the house is a dumb no one cares..I do chores when I'm in the mood...It s easy to please myself..just look the other way and pretend it isn't their..
12/29/9 1:25 PM BeanCount Oh.... Well you have no one to nag you, er..uh I mean remind you, to get things done.
12/29/9 1:24 PM pat NO it only happened one time windy rainy day...About 5 yrs ago..I like to procrastinate..Figure its time to finaly fix it...
12/29/9 1:23 PM BeanCount Yeah, you mentioned that you were looking for a contractor. I take it you got the leaky roof(?) fixed. I had to have major roof work done recently. Expensive..... ouch!!
12/29/9 1:21 PM pat Maybe, did I tell you that..I have one wall that needs repair..rain leaked in one day now has some dry rot
12/29/9 1:19 PM BeanCount Are you having some work done at your house?
12/29/9 1:15 PM BeanCount Nope. Do you think I'm a dope? Nevermind, don't answer that... I have a fragile ego.
12/29/9 1:15 PM pat I lied to you yesterday..the story about my teeth is not in the reports....did you suffer through all my reports looking for it.
12/29/9 1:13 PM BeanCount No.... but I can be testy at times. LOL.. Every once in a while people may think I'm testes..... but those people are dicks.
12/29/9 1:11 PM pat are you test
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 26, 2019 13:38:22 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
1/5/00 7:22 PM BeanCount bye bye
1/5/00 7:22 PM BeanCount I was really disappointed with francois. I thought maybe a smut peddler was sending me a message. Turns out it was a smut consumer.....
1/5/00 7:21 PM pat As Sidey would say..I have to go now Im tired of playing with you..bye
1/5/00 7:20 PM BeanCount It's ok.... happens all of the time.
1/5/00 7:20 PM BeanCount good, my directions to them were kinda fuzzy, but my description of the place was .......vivid. LOL...
1/5/00 7:20 PM pat sorry Virginia
1/5/00 7:19 PM BeanCount LOL... Guinea. Never call me Ginny pat... it is a nickname for Virginia.
1/5/00 7:19 PM pat yes
1/5/00 7:18 PM BeanCount Did the Dominos pizza guy show up?
1/5/00 7:18 PM pat Just wanted to see if my old computer ICQ was working...Figured you were a good Ginny Pig
1/5/00 7:17 PM BeanCount great... I would expect nothing less than that from you. Now why is franchois harrassing me?
1/5/00 7:16 PM pat 2 computers 2 phone lines..Im buying another computer this week sometime too...
1/5/00 7:16 PM BeanCount right.... and nothing more too I bet.
1/5/00 7:15 PM BeanCount How do you have them both online at the same time? Is it two computers?
1/5/00 7:15 PM pat I would expect nothing less from you....
1/5/00 7:15 PM BeanCount ok... I have a second identity also, but with the same name. I have that orphan because I'm a screw up on ICQ, so when I mess up so bad that I lose the regular one, then the backup is still there. I realize this is sick, but what can I do? LOL...
1/5/00 7:13 PM pat Leave him on..I might want to contact you from their sometime....Only a few priviliged people have Francois on their ICQ list
1/5/00 7:12 PM BeanCount Ok, so you won't mind if I delete his scrawny ass? Testing sending messages to yourself?
1/5/00 7:11 PM pat I was testing some shit..It worked..I put francois to bed he wont bother you anymore
1/5/00 7:10 PM BeanCount What's up Pat?
1/5/00 7:09 PM BeanCount I know you go by Francois(e) some times.
1/5/00 7:09 PM pat did you know who it was..
1/5/00 7:08 PM BeanCount your alter ego?
1/5/00 7:08 PM pat some guy named Francois
1/5/00 7:08 PM BeanCount Hey Pat. By who.... Why?
1/5/00 7:07 PM pat im being harrassed on ICQ
1/1/00 11:43 AM BeanCount Bea....b.....Count? Did I lay those eggs? LOL....
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 27, 2019 10:10:40 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
1/6/00 8:59 PM BeanCount good night Pat... and thanks. 1/6/00 8:58 PM pat good night
1/6/00 8:58 PM BeanCount Probably all moot...... at the time I wrote and sent the e-mail I was ready to just give up.... unable to overcome the sex thing. You are right though, I will wait and see..
1/6/00 8:56 PM pat I'm going to go hit the sac..I suggest you just wait and see what she does...Let her make the 1st move on whether you 2 start talking again.
1/6/00 8:48 PM BeanCount Well that's good. Damn, now I'm curious about your perceptions.....
1/6/00 8:46 PM BeanCount ok, well I'll call ya some time then.
1/6/00 8:46 PM pat NO she has never called you a liar..
1/6/00 8:45 PM BeanCount I guess the big question would be, does she think I'm the world's biggest liar.... for explaining to her the way I have my reasons for helping her out. Pat, it makes no sense.... LPIN is waaayyyy cheaper.
1/6/00 8:45 PM pat Now were getting in a touchy area...I don't think I want to go there right now...I might by phone but not ICQ...I also don't have any real answers only feelings I perceive.
1/6/00 8:43 PM BeanCount I've never been a smoker.... so must yield to your experience. My father tried to quit for 45 years.....
1/6/00 8:41 PM BeanCount Do you have an impression of what she thinks.... or has thought... of me. For example: am I some kind of sex fiend? am I stupid or dense?. Tell it like it is.... I can stand to hear it.
1/6/00 8:41 PM pat I wasn't that nice...I told her if she is going to quit She can't have 1 or 2 either quit or don't but every time she lights up its like starting over...I bought her the Patch but saturday she kept wanting to bum a smoke from me.I told her she can't quit that way..
1/6/00 8:39 PM BeanCount Yes, I know about the smoking. She was down on herself because she smoked at work on Monday. I don't know what happened after that. I tried to encourage her, and suggested not being so hard on herself.... since she doesn't need to prove anything to anyone. After that was all downhill....over the cliff. LOL..
1/6/00 8:39 PM pat SHe doesn't tell me all just about all..A lot has to do if AD is around or not when were talking..I'm not sure why she didn't mention the dinner...Maybe because she was having 2nd thoughts or just not sure it was going to happen
1/6/00 8:37 PM BeanCount I could look it up, but I first mentioned this trip to her maybe 10 days ago. I mentioned the dinner, and shopping for a new TV then. Probably the whole conversation between she and i was maybe 10-15 IRC messages or e-mails.
1/6/00 8:36 PM pat I wrote her a letter on Monday I think..It was my opinion on what she needs to do if she really wants to quit smoking...I'm not sure how she took it..She didn't respond...But tonight she seemed OK, except Ad was sick and she is really edgy with the quit smoking thing
1/6/00 8:35 PM BeanCount It got cancelled (finally) on Tuesday..... but my e-mail masterpiece was sent yesterday afternoon.
1/6/00 8:34 PM pat I didn't know about the dinner until a few minutes ago...But i haven't talked to her much this week..Until tonight we went to Basketball and dinner
1/6/00 8:33 PM BeanCount I didn't want to tell you until I knew when.... I knew I was going to Reno, and I have been checking all these flight schedules from there and from Sacto...... and she kept wanting to change it around. I mentioned the dinner thing to her several times.
1/6/00 8:32 PM pat last night was the 1st I heard about it.
1/6/00 8:31 PM BeanCount I ask the second question, because I e-mailed her on Sunday that I wasn't coming, because it seemed like she didn't want me too... Her response to that was to come up on the 14th, rather than just agree that I wasn't coming. Later it all disintegrated.
1/6/00 8:30 PM pat last night she asked if You had told me that you were coming up here..Then told me you were going to but you guys had a disagreement...
1/6/00 8:29 PM BeanCount Pat you have told me that you knew beforehand that when I came up in October that it wouldn't go well. How did you know that? Also if you don't mind, when were you told that I wasn't coming?
1/6/00 8:25 PM BeanCount When you sent the "fuck you", I thought it was from her at first.
1/6/00 8:27 PM pat Hard telling..She comes and goes..Especially now that she is going through the smoking thing....I know their was a time when she told me she didn't ever want to see me again ..I said Kool i feel the same way...But today were buddies again...Next week we might hate each other..hard telling what will happen with you 2
1/6/00 8:24 PM BeanCount I haven't heard a response..... and like I said, I figured I might not.
1/6/00 8:24 PM BeanCount At this time I figure that there is a 50/50 chance that I will never hear from her again...... but that would only be true if I correctly figured where she was coming from. From your tone, she didn't give you this idea..... or so it sounds.
1/6/00 8:23 PM pat If I write something I always send it..Even if i Know it will put me in deep shit..It was what I was feeling at the time..The other party will either except it and understand or tell me to get fucked...But at least they heard my true feelings...
1/6/00 8:21 PM BeanCount I understand Pat. Sometimes I over-react. Ever notice that?? LOL.... On this particular e-mail I waited 24 hours to send it..... but ultimately sent it anyway.
1/6/00 8:19 PM BeanCount I'm having second thoughts about the e-mail.
1/6/00 8:19 PM pat You can send it..I probably wont respond to it though...Only because I am really trying to walk the plank on this one...
1/6/00 8:17 PM BeanCount I have thought that was possible...... that she was misinterpreting, or not believing, what I was saying, and that I have misinterpreted where she is coming from and her meaning. I suggested that I could call, but her response was... well, sorta hostile. LOL.... I'm sure you know what I mean. I would not mind sharing my e-mail to her with you???
1/6/00 8:14 PM pat I don't think so...Like in the movie Kool hand Luke..What we have here is a failure to communicate
1/6/00 8:13 PM BeanCount ok Pat. There is no way you could piss me off though. I would respect your opinion. I really feel that I have been and continue to botch things badly.
1/6/00 8:11 PM BeanCount That was a 7:20 flight..... She didn't know that I would be coming from Reno.... weather permitting. I wrote a really long e-mail to her.... basically saying that I was sorry that she linked the money for rent and the gifts and everything that way, but that if that is the case then it is wrong for me to send any more.
1/6/00 8:12 PM pat I don't know what to say...She has told me a little about the conversation...I'm trying to stay neutral....I think i'll let you 2 ash this one out on your own.No matter what i say I'm bound to piss 1 of you off...I will just stay out of this one..
1/6/00 8:07 PM BeanCount She was scared to death (apparently) that I would want to have sex..... which I didn't want to. She had it down to my picking her up at 5 from work.... and then needing to catch a 7:20 flight to leave. Your dinner was totally scrapped. Anyway, I don't think I can overcome this "you're treating me like a whore" thing..... no matter what I do or say.
1/6/00 8:03 PM pat I was being PC..I don't know too much except that you to couldn't agree on a time schedule.
1/6/00 8:02 PM BeanCount Ok, so then you are up to date. Little bit more than a "disagreement" Pat. I couldn't figure out what she was doing.... changing the time around repeatedly.....
1/6/00 7:59 PM pat I heard that you might, but you and Sherry had a disagreement...
1/6/00 7:58 PM BeanCount oh.... well that makes me feel better about it then....
1/6/00 7:58 PM BeanCount Did you know I was coming up on the afternoon/eve of the 14th? I was going to fly up from Reno for just one day.... but that is off. You will have to wait for your dinner.
1/6/00 7:57 PM pat No that was the 1st one from Pat the other one was from Francois
1/6/00 7:56 PM BeanCount Making it a habit now?
1/6/00 7:55 PM pat fuck you
1/6/00 7:55 PM BeanCount I was expecting a "fuck you".
1/6/00 7:54 PM BeanCount I thought this was a good line: Not intimately.... as you do.
1/6/00 7:53 PM BeanCount I have that forwarding shit down....
1/6/00 7:54 PM pat Yes! it was meant to startle you..I think it worked...I knew that I would tell you or you would know who it was eventually
1/6/00 7:53 PM BeanCount Yes, I know that is correct. Francois opening line was: "fuck you". Did I misinterpret that?
1/6/00 7:52 PM pat Sounds pissy to me
1/6/00 7:51 PM BeanCount Who are you, and what are you talking about?
1/6/00 7:50 PM BeanCount That was my next line..... Who are you, and what do you want..... or something like that.
1/6/00 7:51 PM pat with printed word its harder to tell what the other guys means ...but sometimes you just get a feeling he ain't being nice...Sometimes thats why people get so serious on the board..a comment meant as a joke .some people take as an insult
1/6/00 7:49 PM BeanCount I just said excuse me.... Do I say that when I get pissed? Yep I do, but how did you know that? LOL....
1/6/00 7:49 PM pat you said something like ..What do you want dude?
1/6/00 7:48 PM BeanCount really, I don't even remember how I responded...... Now I hafta go check..
1/6/00 6:41 PM BeanCount .... I mean when he was just a number, before I saw the name.
1/6/00 6:40 PM BeanCount You probably didn't know that Francois really did startle me yesterday?
1/6/00 7:47 PM pat I thought it did...from yuour 1st response you sounded pissed
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 28, 2019 10:20:55 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
1/10/00 6:10 PM BeanCount Ok Pat..... since that is working so well...... not!!!
1/10/00 6:09 PM pat OK! Just do what you think is best
1/10/00 6:08 PM BeanCount It's ok Pat....... You are too much of a realist.... LOL.... some of us like to believe that we are always doing the right things.... and for the right reasons. At a minimum, you have caused me to think about and re-examine my own motives and actions. I don't have it all figured out yet, but I do think this thinking is a good thing. That is why I thanked you..
1/10/00 6:06 PM pat thats what I'm thinking...maybe too negative....I think i better let you guys work it out and stay out of it
1/10/00 6:05 PM BeanCount Some of what you said was fairly negative.... or at least I interpreted it that way. I couldn't really dispute anything you said though.
1/10/00 6:03 PM BeanCount I would like to keep it that way also....
1/10/00 6:02 PM pat Nope..She doesn't know we talked..I would like to keep it that way...
1/10/00 6:01 PM BeanCount It's cool... Did you hear anything? Now I'm being nosy.
1/10/00 6:00 PM pat Im just being nosy
1/10/00 6:00 PM BeanCount I haven't heard from her...... and she didn't hear from me.
1/10/00 5:59 PM pat fine! are you and Sherry talking again
1/10/00 5:59 PM BeanCount Doing swell.... How's about yourself?
1/10/00 5:58 PM pat well hows it going
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1/7/00 6:08 PM BeanCount ok.... exiting now... 1/7/00 6:08 PM pat i'll call you get off the line
1/7/00 6:08 PM BeanCount just lookin' for an opinion.
1/7/00 6:07 PM BeanCount I can call right now.... or you can call me at (xxx) xxx-xxxx? One phone line here.... so would have to get off here.
1/7/00 6:07 PM pat probably..not sure if I can help though ..Just can give you my opinion
1/7/00 6:06 PM BeanCount I was contemplating another e-mail.... but perhaps it would be best to talk to you first.
1/7/00 6:06 PM pat xxx-xxx-xxxx
1/7/00 6:05 PM BeanCount I usually get up at 5;45.... but not on saturdays. I'm going into the office until noon tomorrow. What is your phone no.?
1/7/00 6:04 PM pat either way is fine with me..I get up early
1/7/00 6:04 PM BeanCount ok, I can call.... or else a quick call right now?
1/7/00 6:04 PM pat I should be until about 10:00
1/7/00 6:03 PM BeanCount Will you be home in the morning?
1/7/00 6:03 PM pat I thought this whole thing over and came to some conclusions myself..Too complicated to explain on ICQ
1/7/00 6:01 PM BeanCount Not really sure..... except to say that it is certainly possible that I may have misinterpreted. ..... and that it would be pretty easy to misinterpret what I wrote too.
1/7/00 6:00 PM pat Yes! and what did you come up with
1/7/00 5:59 PM BeanCount I've been thinking about what you said yesterday..... about miscommunication, interpreting things based upon assumptions that are wrong.
1/7/00 5:59 PM pat hello
1/7/00 5:58 PM BeanCount you there Pat?
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 28, 2019 11:11:07 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
1/13/00 6:51 PM pat bye
1/13/00 6:51 PM BeanCount Okay Pat. Hope that works out..... From what you have said (and others) they both sound like great gals.... real sweethearts. Talk to you later......
1/13/00 6:50 PM pat Feb 12th..They are both excited about it so they tell me..Im scared...Have fun in Reno
1/13/00 6:49 PM BeanCount Sheriden is on my list also...... but I've never seen her. There needs to be some sort of physical attraction. Starvation is getting close....... I should sign off now. Have a great weekend Pat. When is the Nikita, Shawna Ray 'n Pat extravaganza gonna take place?
1/13/00 6:46 PM pat It is? not for me...Sheridan sounds like she could be fun..I don't know her but several guys really seem to like her...Have you died of starvation yet
1/13/00 6:45 PM BeanCount I'm not overly interested....... but after talking to her again.... who knows? I'm spending Friday and Saturday nights for sure.... and possibly Sunday as well since Monday is a holiday.
1/13/00 6:44 PM pat She does out of house parties...when she isn't working..Are you going to be there more than one night...You might be able to arrange something...if your interested
1/13/00 6:42 PM BeanCount No, she WAS #1 on my list back then. I didn't party with her..... and don't think she is available this weekend. Ya never know though....
1/13/00 6:40 PM pat I haven't gotten into any sports this year..Im usually a big football fan and follow the Blazers but have ignored it all this year.. So if she is #1 on your list why not party again?
1/13/00 6:39 PM BeanCount Yes I did, way back in April of 98 she was #1 on my list..... but I never made it to the Mustang....... have never seen the place.
1/13/00 6:38 PM BeanCount Speaking of basketball, I'm gonna watch the Kings play San Antonio tonight on TV. Lets see if Sacto can do what Portland couldn't. I never was much of a fan before, but becoming one now.
1/13/00 6:37 PM pat Yes! they will probably do an outdate..Ever think about partying with Tia
1/13/00 6:37 PM BeanCount I don't think I've ever even had any kind of exchange with him on the board. I think Tia is coming to the dinner with Fly.
1/13/00 6:37 PM pat she is at basketball practice with AD..should be home around 8:00
1/13/00 6:35 PM BeanCount I need to go eat. Starving..... Was hoping Sherry would be here and we could at least get over the awkwardness just a bit. You know what I mean by awkwardness? after you have an argument, and you think you are right 100%, but on reflection you realize maybe you weren't. I'm guessing Sherry and I are both there. Sometimes it is hard to say "sorry, I misunderstood".
1/13/00 6:35 PM pat He is very serious...I talked to him on the phone once up here..and then met him at CWM3..I wasn't impressed...My opinion are partially based on what Sherry and Tia told me about him..Tia partied with him when she came up here...I don't really know him well at all but I just get bad vibes from him.. ..
1/13/00 6:31 PM BeanCount Sherry doesn't seem to like him either. He used to live up there somewhere. What makes him a jerk? All I see is his posts. From them I conclude that he doesn't have much of a sense of humor.
1/13/00 6:30 PM pat He's a kool guy...Still a kid but I like him..Seems to have his head on straight...Geo99 is the only one that I know is going that I think is a jerk
1/13/00 6:28 PM BeanCount I may do that...... though I don't know him very well at all.
1/13/00 6:27 PM pat If XXX shows up hang with him..He's a fun guy in the brothels..I like to sit and just watch him with is one liners with the ladies
1/13/00 6:27 PM BeanCount I don't think he's gonna be there. I talk to Fly on ICQ regularly, and looking forward to seeing him again, and also Mark and Bree. I think they are the only ones that I have met that will be there. Coincidentally, they are the first three CWM'ers that I met.
1/13/00 6:24 PM pat He might be there?...He's been hidding but I wouldn't be surprised if he showed up..Him and Fly and Ib are good buddies..
1/13/00 6:23 PM BeanCount yeah.....' cept that didn't "read" as being sincere. I'm a tough little motherfucker to please......
1/13/00 6:22 PM BeanCount I'm leaving when I get my work done tomorrow.... hoping for right after lunch. UB is on that short list that I thought you were going to ask about. I need to hang out with Dopey.... so I don't just fuck the first whore I see. LOL....
1/13/00 6:21 PM pat Thank you!!! Do you feel better now?
1/13/00 6:20 PM BeanCount I know you are not gonna respond to this directly, but one of the things that was bugging me was something you mentioned. I do get enjoyment.... quite a bit in fact from helping her, but I would like to have the feeling that it is appreciated. I don't want or need anything tangible, but a thank you now and again is nice.
1/13/00 6:20 PM pat When you leaving for Reno??? say hi to everyone for me....It should be a fun time for all of you...Too bad UB won't be there I know you wanted to hang out with him..Get some pointers
1/13/00 6:18 PM BeanCount Yet another reason to come to Portland. Maybe I'll add that to the list for Sherry to show her all the reasons for me to come to Portland and not have sex with her. LOL.....
1/13/00 6:17 PM pat Its one of the best places for strip clups..I've seen a lot of them ..Other that the ones overseas Portland is the most liberal I've seen and very hot ladies.
1/13/00 6:15 PM BeanCount only one lap dance? He told me that Portland was the strip capital of the U.S.
1/13/00 6:14 PM pat He's a cool dude..Very friendly but not obnoxious...Plus he bought me a great lap Dance when he was here.
1/13/00 6:13 PM BeanCount I was gonna make it a point to not see any naked guys this trip. LOL..... I tried to meet Cowboy in Portland, but couldn't find his skinny ass at the Rose Garden.
1/13/00 6:12 PM BeanCount Do I like...... I like most of the ones that I have met. It would be easier to list the ones I don't like.
1/13/00 6:12 PM pat Cowboy has a cute ass and IB has a nice dick
1/13/00 6:11 PM pat so which CWMers do you like??
1/13/00 6:10 PM BeanCount No plans to see anyone in particular...... unless you mean fellow CWm'ers. Bree says that Kat at SB2 would be "right" for me. We'll see.....
1/13/00 6:09 PM pat We haven't talked much this week...I will see her Saturday...So who you going to see in Reno
1/13/00 6:08 PM BeanCount Avoiding? LOL...... Well, I'm just trying to figure out how angry she is.... or how much of an asshole she thinks I am..... before I make things worse. Still don't understand why she blasts everyone else she is mad at, but just goes silent with me.
1/13/00 6:05 PM BeanCount I think you may have to call the airline direct to arrange that..... they are not that flexible on-line.
1/13/00 6:03 PM pat I am avoiding your Sherry questions...Like i said the other day ..its up to you 2 to decide where you are with each other...I don't want to influence you one way or the other
1/13/00 6:01 PM BeanCount The other thing I have been thinking about is how negative you were. I think you overstated it a bit. You made it sound as though Sherry only wanted to be my "friend" if I would send her money...... Pretty cold... But we were talking every day pretty much before I started helping her out...... and long before I was sending so much.
1/13/00 6:02 PM pat yes! shawna, Can't i just get a ticket that she picks up right at the ticket window???All she needs to do is show Id and have some kind of code #...I'm going for a Shawna Ray Nikita party...It could be interesting...
1/13/00 5:58 PM BeanCount I have used both Southwest Air and Travelocity. You just designate the passenger as someone other than the buyer. You will have to use your correct address to match when they check your credit card account. Have the tix mailed to you, and then re-send them to your passenger. Shawna Ray?
1/13/00 5:56 PM BeanCount I know you're gonna ask... or at least think this.... Why didn't I tell her that? Because I thought she would be ticked to think that I was just going up there as an afterthought. That line of reasoning sounds funny to me now.....
1/13/00 5:56 PM pat I'm always here..I have a question for you..When you buy a plane ticket for someone else on line. Who do you use and how do they get it.
1/13/00 5:54 PM BeanCount LOL.... I knew you were there..... Yes we talked briefly on Monday. Today I was thinking that we need to talk. If I had told her I was going to Reno this Weekend.... and flying to Portland from there..... maybe it would have taken the "edge" off the sex thing. I dunno... but maybe.
1/13/00 5:51 PM pat deep subject for a shallow mind
1/13/00 5:50 PM BeanCount Well??
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Post by Pat and Bean count on Apr 29, 2019 14:51:10 GMT -8
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1/17/00 7:41 PM BeanCount Yep.... you have been spoiled. That is an option not available to me..... and that's a good thing too. I could easily get addicted worse than anyone you've seen or heard about. Of the two, Catlin is more strikingly beautiful, and has the better figure overall. Kat is slightly better in the room.... but both are pretty damn good.... as far as my experience goes.
1/17/00 7:38 PM pat I come from the Sidewinder school...Heres what I have here is what I want..Take it or leave it...Plus I have been spoiled with my little activities up here...
1/17/00 7:37 PM BeanCount Geo didn't seem like such a jerk..... Maybe California has mellowed him.....
1/17/00 7:36 PM BeanCount Well, with your negotiating skills maybe you could do better than me.... I dunno. Both gals looked pretty to me down there. Catlin gets really, really wet, Kat not nearly as much. I think I will try that $200/$300 ploy next time.... and see how it goes.
1/17/00 7:33 PM pat Thats out of my price range...$400.00 you should get to taste it...Actually I will only party if I can do oral on the girl too..
1/17/00 7:31 PM BeanCount No... not love sick. I covered myself by partying with two (actually twice with Catlin, and only once with Kat). I like them both equally well. I am pretty anxious to go back again soon though..... LOL. Came home with lots of money left over.
1/17/00 7:29 PM BeanCount She is not inexpensive..... would not party a full hour for $300..... but went for $400. Next time I thought I might try a $200 offer, but show three bills..... nets the same to her as a straight $400 offer.
1/17/00 7:27 PM BeanCount Small perky breasts.... very pretty hands and feet. You would like her.... a lot. I know I did.
1/17/00 7:27 PM pat are you going to be love sick for a couple of weeks now ..The withdrawal from LPIN?
1/17/00 7:26 PM BeanCount Kat is vey slender..... She's VERY hot IMHO.
1/17/00 7:25 PM BeanCount I have no idea what he paid.... and don't care. IMHO he is a completely spoiled only child brat. He was/is obsessed with her.
1/17/00 7:25 PM pat Is Kat that hot..Someone told me she was chunky
1/17/00 7:24 PM BeanCount I only went to Kit Kat to see what it was like.... had never been in there. Jewel/Taylor was the prettiest one there, but she is not really my type.
1/17/00 7:24 PM pat He went on a cruise with her..He also had a 2 girl party with her and Lou Anne...From what I hear she ripped him off big time on the cruise
1/17/00 7:23 PM BeanCount I talked to her for a long time.... mostly about Longfellow.
1/17/00 7:19 PM pat I met her up here..Sherry and I ran into her coming out of Fredys one day... I didn't know she was a Mustang girl until later....She looked like a regular person...I guess whores are normal people after all..lol
1/17/00 7:17 PM BeanCount Very good trip for me.... and seemed so for everyone. Nice little group.... no conflicts. Kat and Catlin..... incredible!!!!
1/17/00 7:16 PM BeanCount Well, it's correct. She said she was from Portland. I talked to Jewel from the Mustang also. She is now Taylor at Kit Kat. She lives in Portland now..... said she does nails at an upscale spa. Knows Sherry really well.
1/17/00 7:16 PM pat So it was a good trip...sound like everyone had fun
1/17/00 7:14 PM pat either that or I imagined it..I could swear I saw it somewhre today, but can't find it again...
1/17/00 7:13 PM BeanCount No kissing on the mouth.... at least so far. I almost slipped up on that one once..... but was a good boy throughout. Someone posted about Portland?
1/17/00 7:12 PM pat I saw it on the board today...Now all I have to do is figure out how to make contact with her?...No oral thats not a good thing..how about kissing?
1/17/00 7:11 PM BeanCount Oh.... one thing. Didn't allow oral on her..... at least not so far. Manual stimulation was ok..... but took a long time to get her off. Thought my forearm was gonna cramp.... LOL..
1/17/00 7:09 PM BeanCount Definitely your type.... I think. Very small..... the smallest (and tightest) lady I have ever been with. Had the long hair braided in those really tight braids..... but was gonna be taking the braids out after her shift on Sunday night/Monday morning. How did you know about the Portland connection?
1/17/00 7:07 PM pat NO, but she sounds like my type..short, blonde, friendly, cute
1/17/00 7:06 PM BeanCount Yes, she is from Portland.... though she said she is living in the Reno area now. I didn't get an e-mail address.... though I will definitely be seeing her again, and will ask. She didn't seem very computer knowledgeable. Have you met her?
1/17/00 7:04 PM pat she's from Portland right? Does she have an email address?
1/17/00 7:04 PM BeanCount ok, go ahead....
1/17/00 7:03 PM pat I wanted to ask you about Kat...
1/17/00 7:03 PM BeanCount hey Pat....
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 30, 2019 15:09:50 GMT -8
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1/18/00 6:42 PM pat will do eat hardy or anyone else
1/18/00 6:41 PM BeanCount Ok Pat. gotta go now. Let me know what I end up owing you.
1/18/00 6:42 PM pat Its better than bumming..Smokers hate people that say they are quitting and bum from you all day.
1/18/00 6:41 PM BeanCount I think so too, but she didn't bum the cigs..... she bought some. that is bad.
1/18/00 6:40 PM pat I asked her for a phone # so i can verify that she is real..We'll see
1/18/00 6:39 PM BeanCount Send her a plane ticket. I heard that 20 year old chinese pussy is considered to be a delicasy.
1/18/00 6:39 PM pat your right on both accounts..If she only smokes at work that is still a good thing..
1/18/00 6:38 PM BeanCount She needs the patch for the psychological help as much as the physical...... at least that is my take right now. She is also using the lack of the patch as a sort of excuse.
1/18/00 6:37 PM pat No she posted about 6 month ago...Gave her email out ..Some Chinesse name ..I traced it to the University she said she went to..There is a student by that name at the university..since then she as been Emailing me about once a month using the Vicky summer name...Its strange I'm going to play it out.
1/18/00 6:37 PM BeanCount I need to go get some dinner..... I'll try to find Vicky Summer later. Sounds like fun. I would probably play along with it.....
1/18/00 6:36 PM BeanCount btw.... she mentioned not smoking around AD. Finally some good comes from her guilt complex about him.
1/18/00 6:34 PM BeanCount No, don't tell her.
1/18/00 6:34 PM BeanCount How many letters have you received? So someone comes to GP's message board and picks you out to be a pen pal? Does she supposedly want to become a LPIN?
1/18/00 6:34 PM pat No more than 2 weeks at a time....She needs to quit smoking though if she uses the patch. Is she suspose to know about this
1/18/00 6:33 PM BeanCount sounds good.... Maybe a two or three week supply?
1/18/00 6:33 PM pat The post doesn't tell much..the letters are interesting though..
1/18/00 6:32 PM BeanCount Is your new pen pal jealous already? I bet it's Fly or Doc. I need to find that Post....
1/18/00 6:32 PM pat Ok I'l pick her up some thursday..Basketball practice night
1/18/00 6:31 PM BeanCount You have a deal on the patches. *shaking hand* Pen Pal? sounds strange to me......
1/18/00 6:31 PM pat She asked me if I loved sherry in her last Email
1/18/00 6:31 PM BeanCount Oh.... I see. I missed that post. there are a lot that I've missed, because of being gone. I'll try to find that one.
1/18/00 6:31 PM pat That sounds fair to me..I would split the cost with you
1/18/00 6:30 PM BeanCount I don't know if she's Chinese. I've never heard of her. You may want to try a search on the name. Why are you asking me this? Is it someone I have met or something? I meant reimbursing you. I don't think it's a good idea for me to send Sherry money right now, and wouldn't want her to know I reimbursed you.
1/18/00 6:29 PM pat This vicky is 20 from china and goes to college..She as posted on the board..She as a post on this board under Summervicky..She wants to be my pen pal..I think someone is fucking with me
1/18/00 6:27 PM pat Is she chinesse.... What did you have in mind ? by contributing?
1/18/00 6:26 PM BeanCount I'm assuming that after a while..... (how long?) you no longer need the patch.
1/18/00 6:26 PM BeanCount Vicky Summer? Is this a porn star? I don't watch pornos...... Would you consider buying more patches if I contribute to the cause?
1/18/00 6:26 PM pat Actually smoking is cheaper..Because you die earlier..So you don't have to put out the money as long
1/18/00 6:24 PM pat Its cost almost as much as somking if you smoke a pack aday..You use one patch per day...I may still by the PC but I'm getting a new roof 1st..They are suspose to start on it tomorrow..Do you know who Vicky summer is?
1/18/00 6:23 PM BeanCount Well, I know Colorado is..... and I think Utah, and maybe Montana. I would have to look on a map. Look in your phone book?
1/18/00 6:21 PM BeanCount Damn... pretty expensive!!! She says she is out, and bought cigarettes yesterday to smoke only at work..... Says she can't afford the patch until she gets paid.... next month. I thought you were getting a new computer??
1/18/00 6:21 PM pat what states are in MST time zone
1/18/00 6:19 PM pat I think its 26.00 per week...$52.00 for 2 weeks..Thats an educated guess..My pC crashed last night...
1/18/00 6:17 PM BeanCount How much does the patch cost...... say per week or per month
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on Apr 30, 2019 17:13:35 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count 1/25/00 7:58 PM BeanCount So, I'm learning. slow learner here. LOL.... Later Pat.
1/25/00 7:58 PM pat sherry never explains she just does..it is just the way she is
1/25/00 7:57 PM BeanCount I don't blame you. I'm more interested in that right now too. LOL... Anyway I gotta go, or else I'll be late. I must be humiliating for her to ask me this...and I feel really bad about that. I wish she would agree to have some kind of a conversation about these things. Maybe a revelation will come to me.... then again maybe not. Talk to you later. Tell Vicki I said Hi, and when she gets tired of you to not forget about me. j/k
1/25/00 7:52 PM pat I will let you decide I dont want to influence you on this..Besides I find talking to Vicky and her telling me her fantasies more important right now than your situation with Sherry
1/25/00 7:51 PM BeanCount Me neither...... very little conversation for a long time. I'm wrestling with this one in my mind.... I was hoping she wouldn't ask.
1/25/00 7:49 PM pat I havent talked to her in acouple of days..
1/25/00 7:48 PM BeanCount This is too much !!!!! I gotta go to dinner in a couple of minutes with some business associates. Sherry sent an e-mail saying she is desperate for money and asking for help. I gotta think about this one.... especially after she said she was deliberately leading me on. No apology or explanation as to since when.... just that she was.
1/25/00 7:46 PM pat its getting hot..we are going to move into Phone sex this Sunday
1/25/00 7:45 PM BeanCount No, he can't spell. Cyber sex..... with the one who has the hots for someone else? Someday I wanna hear this story....
1/25/00 7:44 PM pat He can spell..Im having Cyber sex with my chinesse friend
1/25/00 7:43 PM BeanCount you think so? not the same..... but then nothing ever is.
1/25/00 7:42 PM pat he does Ok
1/25/00 7:42 PM BeanCount elliott makes a poor substitute...
1/23/00 8:59 PM BeanCount Ok.... I love cliffhangers like this.....
1/23/00 8:59 PM pat i'll explain it to you tomorrow maybe...Im watching the Globe awards right now
1/23/00 8:58 PM BeanCount Fly?
1/23/00 8:57 PM BeanCount Takes a wise-ass to admire a wise-ass. Mutual admiration society....
1/23/00 8:58 PM pat NO!! I'm just her stepping stone..I gave her all I could so now she is going to milk Curious for info
1/23/00 8:57 PM BeanCount Really ? that is damn interesting.... Is she in love with you?
1/23/00 8:56 PM pat You are such a wise man ..I admire you
1/23/00 8:56 PM BeanCount All you said was that she was Chinese,and used the name Vickie, and was a student..... I think you said in Texas, but you didn't say which college. I notices the Vxia e-mail...... Lucky guess...
1/23/00 8:54 PM pat No she is a young chinesse girl in love with a board member..More like obsessed with a board member
1/23/00 8:53 PM BeanCount She's a foreign student who is doing some kind of research?
1/23/00 8:53 PM BeanCount Ok....
1/23/00 8:53 PM pat Wrong...not even close..
1/23/00 8:52 PM BeanCount lemme guess..... she's a foreign student looking to become an American citizen..... or she's a foreign student looking to become an American courtesan....
1/23/00 8:51 PM pat Its her..I will tell you the story sometime...Its cute but also sad in a way..
1/23/00 8:51 PM BeanCount I didn't..... and I never could find that post from her that you mentioned.
1/23/00 8:50 PM pat she has a plan
1/23/00 8:50 PM BeanCount Quite a contrast..... You and Curious..... LOL....
1/23/00 8:50 PM pat how did you know it was her
1/23/00 8:49 PM pat Yes..its an interesting story..I wont go into it now...
1/23/00 8:48 PM BeanCount Is your pen pal courting Curious now?
1/23/00 3:28 PM BeanCount ok..... well, fingers crossed.
1/23/00 3:28 PM pat I dont know..I havent seen her this weekend...I talked to her this morning, but we didn't talk about the smoking
1/23/00 3:26 PM BeanCount Ok Pat..... will take care of that tomorrow. Hope they're working.
1/23/00 3:14 PM pat I bought Sherry a 2 week supply of Nicoderm..$49.99
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on May 2, 2019 12:13:34 GMT -8
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1/26/00 8:31 PM BeanCount interesting..... Thanks for telling me. The secret is safe.
1/26/00 8:30 PM pat I'm not sure he does..i think he just met her once or twice she wont say how they met
1/26/00 8:29 PM BeanCount oh boy.... That is sad. I didn't know LL lived in Texas. I thought he was East Coast....
1/26/00 8:28 PM pat yes she is a very naive 20 year old virgin..LL took her out one time..he kissed her and now she is obsessed with him..she cries and tells me how much she wants him but he wont write to her or talk to her
1/26/00 8:26 PM BeanCount ok.... so who does she have the hots for? You said she is going to school in Texas....
1/26/00 8:25 PM pat I'm not sure just enjoying it..she loves him he doesn't want her..I tell her my fantasies and she tells me hers then we masturbate..It ain't the real thing but its kind of fun..she thinks I'm too ugly for her..but likes my stories
1/26/00 8:24 PM BeanCount ok, I won't. Why is she having cyber-sex with you, and has a crush on someone else?
1/26/00 8:23 PM pat yes what do you want to know..This is cofidential..Don't give out the name of who it is? Ok
1/26/00 8:21 PM BeanCount hey, you were gonna tell me the story about the Chinese college student, and her crush on a GP board guy. Spill the beans....
1/26/00 7:04 PM pat BYE
1/26/00 7:04 PM BeanCount Ok.... talk to you later Pat.
1/26/00 7:03 PM pat Yea she sent me a message then she was gone.
1/26/00 7:03 PM BeanCount Gotta go.... dinner time. Didn't get a chance to talk to her about the taxes or anything else. Looks like she just flitted away.
1/26/00 6:57 PM BeanCount she sent it..... *puking*
1/26/00 6:56 PM BeanCount great.....
1/26/00 6:56 PM pat If she doesn't send it to you I will later..Its very very very gross
1/26/00 6:55 PM BeanCount What pic? I guess the answer is no....
1/26/00 6:55 PM BeanCount She's coming on line now...... I guess I'll see if she says anything.
1/26/00 6:54 PM pat I agree..did she send you the pic
1/26/00 6:54 PM BeanCount Well the e-mail asking for the bus fare was here when I got home. I can tell by the time stamp that she sent it at 4:15 this afternoon. I was at work and busy. I can't do anything about it now. She can't afford to miss work... I hope she figures out something. I can't solve all these little problems.... nor do I think I should.
1/26/00 6:49 PM pat I don't know. Its possible she is flat broke. I would think she would plan these things out better..Ad must have some money, but he spends it just like she does..He gets it and its gone.
1/26/00 6:47 PM BeanCount She said she had no way to get to work tomorrow.... It wasn't making sense to me. She needs to get the money from the kid. Sounds mean, but it is reality. I guess I have spoiled her some.
1/26/00 6:45 PM pat Im not sure what it cost..I think she buys a monthly pass one for her and one for AD. somewhere between $40.00 and $50.00 I think ..This is just a guess.
1/26/00 6:43 PM BeanCount Employers have until 1/31 to mail out W-2's, but for terminated employees they have a fixed number of business days (I think it's 10) to deliver the W-2' s if they get a request IN WRITING. She should have them all pretty soon. She wanted me to send money for bus fares to get to work. How much can this be? Can't she get this somewhere else? Makes no sense to pay a $15 wire fee for a bus fare, but she doesn't seem to understand that.
1/26/00 6:38 PM pat I think thats a good plan..I told her to contact all her employers and get the w2 forms..She will get all her money back and GOD knows she could use it.
1/26/00 6:36 PM BeanCount Her taxes are on the list of things that I need to talk to her about. I will do them for her if she wants me to. It should be done ASAP, assuming she has all her W-2's. She needs the dough.... no matter how little it might be. Yes, I'm gonna pay a couple of bills directly to the creditors for her.... but am reluctant to send cash to her.
1/26/00 6:33 PM pat she will tell you he is earning it doing chores..Have you made your decision on what you are going to do about what she asked for..Are you going to help her fill out her Taxes
1/26/00 6:31 PM BeanCount I think you're right.... except I wouldn't expect her to say it that nicely. LOL.... I'm gonna give her my lecture on managing her money a little more wisely.... including the part about giving all this money to AD.... then not having any herself. His walking around money needs to come from his dad. she needs to fight for it...
1/26/00 6:29 PM pat I think her response will be..OH you dont know anything..I know what I'm doing
1/26/00 6:28 PM BeanCount If you think it will help, I'll try to say something like that to her.... She knows I don't know shit.... except for watching my father struggle with it.
1/26/00 6:27 PM pat I think she has to decide to quit and do it or just go back to smoking..This half way stuff wont work..I have told her that..You can imagine how well that went over
1/26/00 6:26 PM BeanCount ok Pat.... she has a good friend in you. I bet she'll need more on down the line.
1/26/00 6:25 PM pat she told me that last night also..Said she didn't have any money to buy cigarettes..We'll call it even on the money for the patches for now
1/26/00 6:23 PM BeanCount Again I don't know diddely squat about this.... so I feel it best to defer to your judgement. Since you already bought the first two weeks worth, maybe I should pay for all of this....ya think? If I see her online tonight, I'll ask if she's still smoking occasionally. When I last asked (Ithink on the weekend) she said she wasn't.... because she had the patch.
1/26/00 6:16 PM pat I personally don't think I want to buy her anymore patches unless she totally quits smoking..Using the patch and still smoking occasionally is defeating the purpose of the patch..I don't know if she has quit totally or not yet..I'll be able to tell when I see her again..Probably tomorrow night.
1/26/00 6:14 PM BeanCount I guess I'm not sure either.... I had the impression that we were splitting it. Say the word, and I'll send the other half. How long do you think she'll be needing the patch? I bet you have no idea.... LOL...
1/26/00 6:12 PM pat Im not sure I thought you were buying the 1st 2 weeks worth...It doesn't matter..
1/26/00 6:11 PM BeanCount Did I send the wrong amount? I bought the money order at the post office. I noticed that the envelope was sorta see-through..... so I got some paper out of the garbage , and wrapped it in that.
1/26/00 6:09 PM pat yes sir
1/26/00 6:09 PM BeanCount are you on line now? 6:04 pm....
1/26/00 5:14 PM pat I got your check today for $25.00 was that what it was suspose to be???Whats with the spam mail you stuck in there with it.
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Post by Pat and Bean count on May 3, 2019 13:12:37 GMT -8
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1/29/00 6:13 PM BeanCount ok
1/29/00 6:13 PM pat nope call away
1/29/00 6:12 PM BeanCount Do you have to sign off the computer.... or have a second phone line?
1/29/00 6:12 PM BeanCount That is pure BULLSHIT. The kid needs to see how the world works for Chrissakes!! When he has it? He'll never have it. He should be paying for the dental work the boy needs.
1/29/00 6:11 PM pat xxx-xxx-xxxx
1/29/00 6:11 PM BeanCount Since she told you, I'll clue you in that when I told her that was the last of the help.... I didn't mention any of her problems with discipline, etc. those were seperate conversations.... Hey Pat I'm at work. I can call you from here. what is your number?
1/29/00 6:11 PM pat I agree but don't think she will...She started to once, but now they have some agreement where he gives when he has it...She doesn't want AD to see her and his dad fighting over Ads support..
1/29/00 6:09 PM BeanCount That's what I tried to tell her. I pointed out to her that she spent $25 or so on counting crows stuff from e-bay, and was then whining that she didn't have money bus fare and lunch. The bus fare is only $1.15 one way. She went a bit nuts when I said to get the money from AD. Apparently he wasn't there Wednesday night. She needs to get money from his father.... through the courts if necessary.
1/29/00 6:05 PM BeanCount I'll do the taxes if she wants me too, but I'm not gonna be hassled about it at all. It would save her the cost of taking it to a paid tax preparer.
1/29/00 6:05 PM pat I think you are making the right decision..If she is going to make it she as to do it on her own..She as the resources..She just needs to buckle down and use some discipline and think before spending
1/29/00 6:03 PM BeanCount I will help her with advice, or the taxes, etc.,but not with bills anymore. Don't tell her,but I have been aware on many occasions where I sent her money to pay a particular bill, and she said she paid it,only to ask me again to help with the same bill. That's not why I'm gonna stop "helping",but it is a contributing factor. She spends money recklessly figuring I will just send enough to cover her. It is really bad that I spoiled her that way.
1/29/00 6:01 PM pat she mentiomed that also..thats why I was confussed..1st she said you helped her then she said you wont be helping her anymore. then she said you might do her taxes then she didn't think you were...
1/29/00 5:59 PM BeanCount Yes, I'm the one who told her (months ago) about the credit. It's easy to calculate. If she told you about the help, then that is fine. That was the last time Pat... and we have discussed that as well.
1/29/00 5:58 PM pat you read my mind
1/29/00 5:58 PM BeanCount I'm assuming she has the simplest tax returns possible. The only tricky part at all is that she is eligible for the "Earned Income Tax Credit". This is a refundable credit for low income workers. They can receive refunds well beyond the tax they have paid in. The amount depends primarily upon their gross income.
1/29/00 5:57 PM pat she told me that you helped her... Do you know about the unearned income credit..would she qualify?..If you do her taxes do you have to count the money you have helped her with?
1/29/00 5:55 PM BeanCount You are not supposed to know that unless she tells you. If I were you I wouldn't bring it up, unless you are comfortable doing so. She would be really pissed I'm sure to know that I told you anything about it. She doesn't even want us to talk, but fuck that.. We discussed her taxes, and I might do them, we'll see. Oregon laws are not a problem. The forms and instructions are available on the internet. Looks easy to me.
1/29/00 5:52 PM pat am I suspose to know you helped her out last week..That was nice of you...I told her she should let you do her taxes..She said she didn't think you know Oregon tax codes
1/29/00 5:50 PM BeanCount She told me that she is not smoking. I have no way to know one way or the other. As a smoker you probably couldn't tell by smell on Thursday evening. Btw, another example, she mentioned the practice... but not the dinner, because she would have had to say your name. I can't buy them for her without you. I'm not sending money anymore, and she knows that.
1/29/00 5:47 PM pat are you going to buy anymore patches..I m not...She tells me she isn't smoking but I m sure she is at work..I think the only reason she is still trying is that she doesn't want AD to think she couldn't do it..This is still good it means she smokes a lot less if she doesn't smoke at home
1/29/00 5:43 PM BeanCount She doesn't like it that you talk to me or about me. She used to mention you to me all the time until she became aware that we talked to each other about the Christmas presents. Now she never mentions you. Perfect example is that she has never mentioned that you bought the patch for her. She hasn't lied about it, but if you just read the way the talks about it, anyone would assume that she bought it herself. I know better....
1/29/00 5:40 PM pat She was
evasive when I asked if you guys were talking and still friends
1/29/00 5:40 PM BeanCount Nosey.... not a problem. I was thinking you were going to tell me something....
1/29/00 5:39 PM BeanCount Nope, those are Sweetarts.... Strumpets are like ladies of the evening....
1/29/00 5:39 PM pat IM a nosey kind of guy
1/29/00 5:38 PM BeanCount Not talking right now..... but have talked some lately. Why??
1/29/00 5:38 PM pat I like tarts..aren't they that sour candy
1/29/00 5:37 PM BeanCount Never heard of crumpets... Little cake/cookie thingies that the English eat with their afternoon tea. Strumpets are "easy" women.... like tarts....
1/29/00 5:35 PM pat what are they?.. never heard of either one...Are you and sherry talking
1/29/00 5:34 PM BeanCount really?? Do you do crumpets..... or only strumpets?
1/29/00 5:34 PM pat I don't do tea....
1/29/00 5:34 PM BeanCount Oh yeah, tea and coffee affected you also.
1/29/00 5:33 PM pat I pride myself on my great common sense...Brain stuff aint my cup of tea
1/29/00 5:32 PM BeanCount ok..... LOL Smoking, drugs and whoring have robbed you of your innate intelligence
1/29/00 5:31 PM pat like i said I think I could have gotten a 70
1/29/00 5:30 PM BeanCount I think 100 is average.... but it depends on the test.
1/29/00 5:30 PM pat Im sure I would have gotten at least 70 if I took it
1/29/00 5:29 PM BeanCount I've been at work all day and needed a break.
1/29/00 5:29 PM pat I got bored reading the questions..So said fuck it
1/29/00 5:28 PM BeanCount I have a follow up post I'm writing.
1/29/00 5:28 PM pat bragger
1/29/00 11:27 AM pat bye
1/29/00 11:26 AM BeanCount Yep.... you need a good roof with all the wind and rain you get. Take care....
1/29/00 11:26 AM pat one mans irritation is another mans interest..I have to go get some things done..and keep an eye on my roofers..I want to make sure they don't use Elmers glue to put my roof on
1/29/00 11:24 AM BeanCount I read all the posts..... even Midnight Raider. LOL..
1/29/00 11:24 AM BeanCount No, he has no viewpoint on LPIN. How could he? He knows nothing about it. His main reason for being here is he craves attention. Nothing wrong with that, except he tries to get it by baiting other people. Ok, ok, nothing wrong with that.... but it is irritating.
1/29/00 11:23 AM pat They all say they dont care about him, but keep reading his post...Don't make sense to me
1/29/00 11:22 AM BeanCount I should ignore his post. People think I'm mean when I post annoyed.
1/29/00 11:22 AM pat I think I'm the only one that likes him...I dont see why evryone jumps on him..he is just sharing some of his turmoil..It gives another point of view to LPIN..
1/29/00 11:20 AM BeanCount My breath is always sweet. It's a gift....
1/29/00 11:19 AM BeanCount I.E. want a medal.... for not fucking whores. Where should he go to for his reward? I Can't quite figure out why this guy annoys me so much.
1/29/00 11:19 AM pat do you have bad breath?
1/29/00 11:18 AM BeanCount This kind of thing is not that uncommon ..... with all types of contractors. You have more experience with whores than with roofers. That is as it should be, and is a good thing. I wanna kiss Kat.... I think my tongue is magical. Yeah right....
1/29/00 11:15 AM pat Not done is more like it..I'll be here tomorrow , they never show up..I think I hired dumb and dummer...they are here today well see..I think im better at picking whores than roofers
1/29/00 11:14 AM BeanCount Battle? I'm at work..... that what you mean?? What have the roofers done.... or not done?
1/29/00 11:13 AM pat how goes the battle?....I hate my roofers
1/29/00 11:12 AM BeanCount good morning
1/29/00 11:12 AM pat yo
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Post by Pat and Bean Count on May 4, 2019 16:00:55 GMT -8
ICQ between Pat and Bean Count
1/30/00 2:20 PM BeanCount ok Pat.... Later..
1/30/00 2:19 PM pat probablty the best..see ya
1/30/00 2:19 PM BeanCount tell her I'm younger and cuter..... LOL... I think I just need to go to Nevada and see Kat and Catlin again. I know exactly where I stand with them.
1/30/00 2:18 PM pat Ok but she is nice and could use the help...I like her I am in the fatherly advice mode now we quit the Cyber sex..she says I'm to old and ugly
1/30/00 2:17 PM BeanCount I'm sure you will understand if I take a pass on this one. LOL...
1/30/00 2:16 PM pat OK! good luck..My chinesse friend is bugging me about advise now...she is a very young niave little girl with lots of problems..you want to rescue someone else she could use it..NO sex though
1/30/00 2:14 PM BeanCount Yep. Gotta get off here now Pat. Thanks again for the conversations and the advice. The conversations I have enjoyed, and the advice I will take.
1/30/00 2:13 PM pat she might still be friends..time will tell
1/30/00 2:12 PM BeanCount yep..... you are right Pat. I will try to do that, but if you are right then she won't want to be "friends", because she was only doing that in the hopes of getting money. We'll see I guess. I'm tired of it to tell the truth, so either way is ok with me. I learned a good lesson here. Never mix money with sex unless everyone is on the same page.
1/30/00 2:09 PM pat I think the best for you to do is stay friends if you want..but don't be her rescuer..
1/30/00 2:06 PM BeanCount I should NOT have had sex with her.... That ruined it, and sadly it was something that I didn't really enjoy that much. I was nervous, and couldn't wait to get away.... Paid extra money at the airport to catch an earlier flight. I felt I was "cheating", a hair that I split on going to brothels.
1/30/00 2:04 PM pat that is probably the best...
1/30/00 2:04 PM BeanCount That would be whoring.... and sad for her. Well the time has come for me to stop worrying about what is going to happen to Sherry. I am not capable of helping her. By that I mean the real "help" that she needs.... to get her life straightened out. I will wish her well, but from a certain distance.
1/30/00 2:00 PM pat she could never go back to the brothels and make any money at it...she could have a few local guys trading help for sex, but thah would be a very last resort
1/30/00 1:59 PM BeanCount I vote for the latter.... but not real hopeful to be honest with you. Hope she doesn't go back to whoring.... the straight up kind that is. LOL...
1/30/00 1:57 PM pat you didn't..She will either find someone else to take over..or maybe wake up and get her act together
1/30/00 1:57 PM BeanCount Yes, I agree with everything you just typed. Just hope I didn't do more harm than good.....
1/30/00 1:55 PM pat No stupid and reckless..you enjoyed it for awhile...You did what you could.Nothing is really lost..It wasn't a love affair ..Just chock it up to a life experience....Sherry as to be the one to fix her life..Until she is ready to do that no one can do it for her
1/30/00 1:53 PM BeanCount I really thought I could help her make her way in the straight world. Seems nutty now.... laughable.
1/30/00 1:52 PM BeanCount I think I have to conclued that Tessa was right.... again dammit. Stupid and reckless....
1/30/00 1:51 PM pat Im back
1/30/00 1:50 PM BeanCount LOL..... yeah there will always be lingering doubts I suppose. I do know this: We talked every day for months in ICQ or e-mails before she ever asked for anything again. I think it was till the end of April anyways.... only two months. I guess her sense of self-worth is so low, that she thinks sex is all she has to offer?
1/30/00 1:50 PM pat I'm going to log off and change ISPs..this thing is hanging really bad
1/30/00 1:46 PM BeanCount Yes, I understand where you are coming from.... I don't want to believe it, but I understand it. It was just never that way in my mind.
1/30/00 1:47 PM pat No matter how you she answers it..you will still not know if its true or not...
1/30/00 1:45 PM BeanCount I see no reason not to just ask Sherry point blank if she thought we had sex for money that time.... and if she would have followed through with it absent the "loan" to her.
1/30/00 1:43 PM BeanCount When I asked Tessa.... she said she honestly didn't know. She warned me not to hurt Sherry. She also told me she thought it might be "stupid and reckless" for me to get involved with Sherry. tessa also said CWMC2 was "stupid and reckless" for me.
1/30/00 1:45 PM pat You stuck a carrot out in front of her..she wants to buy her own carrots but can't..Here is one for free..she doesn't want to take it but if she doesn't she will be out of carrots..the temptation is too great..she does what she needs to do to get the carrot..lousy example but i think you may get what I'm saying
1/30/00 1:41 PM BeanCount But it is whoring... plain and simple. That is what is so sad to me now. She thought she was whoring in leading me on for money, and I guess it finally got to her conscience.
1/30/00 1:41 PM pat only Sherry knows....Tessa as told me that sherry as used her at times...
1/30/00 1:39 PM BeanCount Pat, before this time period I had made it clear to her that I would not have sex with her for money, because I felt that had been the cause of her problems. I talked to Tessa about it in January, trying to ask her if Sherry was playing around or serious. I guess you are saying that the whole lead up to this (about her being hot for me, etc) was an act that she put on. When you told me that yesterday, I also considered that as a possibility.
1/30/00 1:38 PM pat Or she really doesn't believe it is whoring but it makes a good argument to get people to have sympthy for her...I don't know if it makes a difference..She is going to have to sooner or later make it on her own...I am proud of her efforts but she still is a user of others...I understand this and when we do things together i realize part of it is using me.. I use her also.it seems to work for us right now
1/30/00 1:33 PM BeanCount I guess my point is that $1,000 was not for sex, and we both knew it, so why lie to you? I can see where the later money might be a bit murkier, but we never had sex after that,,, because she always had an excuse. Even with the later, I told her many, many times that there were no strings. I guess in her mind she will always be a whore, and no one will ever help her just out of friendship. this is very sad to me.
1/30/00 1:33 PM pat When I read it it seemed like 2 people negotiating for sex but feeling each other out.The part about paying you back i have heard many times before...with others..I guess it depends which one of us she was being honest with..She was telling you one thing and me another...maybe there were some truth and lies to both of us
1/30/00 1:29 PM BeanCount hmmmmm. I don't know why the ICQ problems. Mine to you go through easily.
1/30/00 1:28 PM BeanCount ok.... I guess no one really would believe me, even though I said I would come up and we wouldn't have sex at all. What went on before (for a month or so) was elaborate plans to have sex.... with no mention of money at all. Btw, she said when we saw you at the restaurant there was to be no "lovey-dovey"
1/30/00 1:27 PM pat Im having trouble ICQing you..it keeps hanging up and making me send it through the server
1/30/00 1:25 PM pat I read it...I know your intentions might not have been sex for money..But the way I read it ....It sure sounds like that is whats going on....If when you read the Emails from Sherry you took them to be total truth..I think that was a mistake...Its hard for me to explain what I think...but one could easily think this to be sex for money
1/30/00 1:17 PM BeanCount ok Pat.... I get the impression that you think my helping her has been, well..... let's just say strange. LOL.... Maybe you are right. Yes, I would have had sex with her if she was willing.... but I would never demand it. Now, Of course, I probably wouldn't under any circumstances.
1/30/00 1:15 PM pat i'm reading it now
1/30/00 1:09 PM BeanCount yeah, I always get that delay on hotmail too.
1/30/00 1:08 PM pat No its not there yet
1/30/00 1:07 PM BeanCount Got it already? Can you open the attachment?
1/30/00 1:06 PM pat ok I'll read it....
1/30/00 1:05 PM BeanCount Just did.... to easy728@hotmaoil.com
1/30/00 1:04 PM pat sure go ahead
1/30/00 1:03 PM BeanCount I'm sending you an e-mail, with an attachment, about the $1,000 loan to Sherry. What you said yesterday is kinda bugging me. This is therapy for me.
1/30/00 1:02 PM pat yes
1/30/00 1:01 PM BeanCount Pat, are you online?
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